TTC after early miscarriage part 2

[RaisingCornishWildlings]

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

@Figtree11 my mindset is still negative some days. I think like Blueskies said you have to acknowledge the bad days too. You've been through something awful, even if it's 1 in 4 pregnancies or whatever it is, doesn't matter, every story is different and every person feels differently..just be kind to you x

@RaisingCornishWildlings I was hoping for some good news from you today og. Hope you're ok. If you feel you're "not done" as they say having babies, please don't give up we are going to welcome those babies soon.

@meepthebeep be careful with those purple CB's they are not my friend 😂 I've had 12 days flashing bloody smiley! Drove me mad 😂

@emmatcc1 we might end up with similar cycles as it looks like I'm ovulating too 😊 we can keep each other company on our "not trying" cycles!

@ThelastRolo20 We’ll see in about two weeks time if I did ovulate this early. I read more forums and all say it’s not likely to ovulate just days after mc but I don’t know what else the clear discharge would be. I’m now spotting/ lightly bleeding brown blood so it’s probably gonna be over soon and I’ll check my bbt then (I temp vaginally). We decided to only skip this cycle because the ob at the hospital said that what’s left will clear out with the next period.
How will you go on after this skipped cycle? Trying anything new or keeping it like before?

@RaisingCornishWildlings sorry I seemed to have posted 1 minute after yours nor realiseing you had already posted about your negative.

I really thought it was going to be a good month for you! . We really need a positive in this group...you still never know without af but like you say its hard to stay positivr with negstive tests

Hope you are okay x

@emmatcc1 we're thinking of taking a longer break until April, we're on holiday mid April and it will stop any anxiety whilst away....but I am so keen to get pregnant again we'll see how I hold out! X

Thank you @RaisingCornishWildlings @Claudiasaz @miamiamia869
I am actually feeling a bit better today now after messaging you all, so thank you.
I’m going to try & keep this positive mindset. The weather is nice today, and the sun makes me feel happier, so hopefully when we move into spring, things will be a lot different for all of us.
I really am sorry that it’s not just me having a tough time. I’m hoping for good news for us all soon 🙏

@Claudiasaz @Figtree11 @miamiamia869

Trying to make myself more positive that I might still be up-duffed (however I don't want to get my own hopes up and then be disappointed!)

I just did some counting and discovered that each of my living babies, I found out I was pregnant (working from EDD for each of them),

dS1 -5w2d (period was about 4 or 5 days late, hubby kept saying pee on a stick, but I was convinced period would turn up!)
Ds2 6w 4d (only symptom was suddenly getting runners diarrhoea 2 days before I tested! and had pretty irregular cycle lengths!)
Dd1 5w5d (period had disappeared after covid jab and I was getting frustrated so saw dr about it as wanted to try for no 3- she dipped my wee and hey-ho a positive !!)

So I am not someone who has previously had loads of symptoms (and therefore I'm guessing perhaps my HCG is slower to rise?

So now giving myself hope of holding off testing til mid/later in week and perhaps I might get my positive! Or AF will turn up!

I wish I had tracked cycles when fell pg with my MC baby as I'm now assuming I was slightly further along than i initially thought! The first test I did was a bit of a squinter line, but no idea on DPO!

@RaisingCornishWildlings as they say you aren't out until AF arrives! Fingers and toes all crossed for you ☺️

Just back to add that looking at my very vague notes from Sept, I had sex on 7 and 9 and recorded high sex drive (no cm Notes!) but then a week later had stickier cm and I got my positive Weds 27th so basically almost 3 weeks from ov.. so perhaps there's hope for me 🤣

I really have my fingers crossed for you @RaisingCornishWildlings I didn’t do any tracking with the baby I lost last year - I didn’t find out until around 5 weeks. I didn’t have any symptoms at all until I started feeling very bloated so did a test.
Just shows what a MC does to you with symptom spotting & worrying. Whereas before we didn’t even realise!

Glad you are feeling better @Figtree11 ....

Yes there is still hope @RaisingCornishWildlings reslly holding out for you. Based on your other and cm it could be a winner

I do hope so!!

We are all rooting for you! Xx

AF has arrived today for me. A relief in a way that I seem to have gone back to the same cycle length I had before my mc, albeit still slightly too long but I can cope with that. Hoping my clomid/letorozle trial helps bring ov forward

Thank you all for being so patient with me - I feel like I've been awful and in my own head! Very self absorbed, I'm so sorry!
Only a few days til OH deploys, so pretty stressful plus all my children keep getting ill! I'm losing my mind 🫠

Really hope ONE of us has a positive result that stays positive this cycle! Anyone else in the latter stages of the 2WW and still in the running?!

@RaisingCornishWildlings sounds Like you’re still in with a chance. Especially if your tests were the less sensitive ones 🤞

I’m currently cd23 in what is usually a 27/28 day cycle but can go up to 30 days. I was feeling hopeful late last week but much less so now as what could have been symptoms have disappeared, plus I’m starting to get the niggling cramps I have around now most months.

@RaisingCornishWildlings that's what this group is for it drives you mad and you have to let it out somewhere 😂

@RaisingCornishWildlings dont worry at all! This is the place to let those feelings out with people who can relate and understand.

I’ve no idea if I’m in a 2WW or not 😂 If my cycle somehow regulates then I should be due a period at the weekend

Hey, hope you don't mind me joining, currently ttc after losing my first pregnancy last May, took approx 9 weeks for cycle to return following loss and they've been regular since between 27/32 day cycle. (Was on pill for 19 years, conceived after 4 months off...so super quick)

Age is not necessarily on my side as I'm 37 😑 Poas addict, early tester 🙈 obsessed. CD 11 and this month is dragging x

Thanks everyone.
Well I'm pretty sure I'm out this month- I know you are meant to temp in the morning first thing, (I did at it was still high 37.2), but just took it this evening, and it's back down to 36.7
I'll take it again in the morning but I reckon blooming Valentine's Day or Thursday I'll come on!! 😡😖

Oh wel

The wicked old crone has made her appearance

@RaisingCornishWildlings ohhh gutted for you. Why does she have to do it.

I swear there's gonna be positives in here soon!! It needs to happen!!

@Westy22 welcome and sorry for your loss.

X

Oh I’m sorry @RaisingCornishWildlings 😔

Ah sorry.
Let yourself be sad and treat yourself x

I have a problem.
Tested at 6dpo
🙄😳

@RaisingCornishWildlings oh how frustrating! So unfair when she gets our hopes up.

@123456789ss I think a lot of people on this thread can relate 😂

So sorry, @RaisingCornishWildlings 😔 take good care of yourself today, it’s so disappointing x