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TTC after early miscarriage part 2

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RaisingCornishWildlings · 07/02/2024 21:16

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

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Panda101x · 22/02/2024 08:58

Groundhoghcg · 22/02/2024 08:48

Bfn here at 10dpo on my 3rd cycle after my last mmc. I feel so gutted, lots is going on for me right now and I really needed some good news 😔 I know 3 cycles is nothing really but I've been trying for this baby for 2.5 years and I just want the wait to be over.

@Blueskies4 I've definitely had ovulation without EWCM, and EWCM without ovulation.

I saw Tommy’s through their implantation clinic, it's not NHS but is patient funded as opposed to private, I think it was £250 for a consultation and then £500 for the biopsy they recommended. From the biopsy they can offer prednisolone for high uterine NK cells or experimental stigaliptin to improve uterine stem cells. Uterine NK is totally different to blood NK (my uNKs are low vs. high blood NKs) and the Tommy’s medics disagree with the private clinics about which to test 🤯

The stigaliptin is meant to stop bad embryos implanting.. I think. I had a chromosomal loss after the stigaliptin in October and haven't got pregnant since so.. maybe it's working?? 🙃

@Panda101x No squinting there, tentative congratulations ❤️

@Groundhoghcg i feel such bad period pain last few days but nothing yet. And boobs so sore. Im just dubious of evap line etc as it’s thin line on it. I’ll do again in few days. Monday was faint. Today it’s there but thin. Just scared of MC or chemicals. 7th time lucky I hope

Claudiasaz · 22/02/2024 09:07

@Panda101x Hope this is it for you lovely. Sending all the positives your way x

Rosyposy26 · 22/02/2024 09:11

I tested this morning and had a faint positive on clear blue will wait to test again at the weekend. Not going to get hopes up though.

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RaisingCornishWildlings · 22/02/2024 13:48

@Rosyposy26 and @Panda101x great to see more good news on the thread.

I feel absolutely drained and devoid of energy, but hoping I'll feel bouncier again soon!

A friend who suffered a MC a few years ago just sent me this link- such a positive move from the government

www.gov.uk/government/news/baby-loss-certificate-launchedto-recognise-parents-grief

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Holl89 · 22/02/2024 14:02

Hi everyone!
my scan went well 🥺
measuring bang on 6 weeks 6 days and a lovely healthy heartbeat ❤️
praying all goes well from here! They have put me on progesterone just in case too.

Hope you’re all doing okay 💗

Claudiasaz · 22/02/2024 14:14

@Holl89 great news congrats

@RaisingCornishWildlings wow this is amazing. Thanks for sharing

Ncl31 · 22/02/2024 14:20

@Holl89 amazing news! I’m sure you can breathe a sign of relief now.

@RaisingCornishWildlings I saw that on the to this morning, very positive that it’s now recognised appropriately.

Rosyposy26 · 22/02/2024 14:26

Holl89 · 22/02/2024 14:02

Hi everyone!
my scan went well 🥺
measuring bang on 6 weeks 6 days and a lovely healthy heartbeat ❤️
praying all goes well from here! They have put me on progesterone just in case too.

Hope you’re all doing okay 💗

That’s brilliant news.

Blueskies4 · 22/02/2024 18:54

@Rosyposy26 @Panda101x congratulations ladies, lovely news 🩷

@Holl89 so good to hear xx

@Groundhoghcg that's all really interesting.. fingers crossed it works for you next time and you’re not waiting too long 🤞🏻 sending love on having a tough time, it’s an uphill battle enough without having other stuff going on xxc

Claudiasaz · 22/02/2024 19:11

@Rosyposy26 I'm sorry I missed your post congratulations to you too x

Rosyposy26 · 22/02/2024 19:29

Claudiasaz · 22/02/2024 19:11

@Rosyposy26 I'm sorry I missed your post congratulations to you too x

Aww that’s ok. All very early days trying to stay positive. Also trying not to test every day.

Ella31 · 22/02/2024 20:18

ThelastRolo20 · 21/02/2024 18:09

Hey everyone, sorry I've been a bit quiet I was having a rubbish few days between hormones and this bloody virus I can't shift, it's been three weeks now.

On a slight positive AF arrived 4 weeks post surgery today, so I'm hoping that means my cycles will go back to normal quickly, on the flip side it means AF will arrive the day we go on holiday in April....typical

@ThelastRolo20 was wondering how you were. That's great about your cycle. Keep track of it now and when you are back to trying you'll have a nice history behind you to go off. Where are you off to in April?

Ella31 · 22/02/2024 20:19

Congrats @Rosyposy26 , that's great news @Holl89

bluebunny2 · 23/02/2024 06:07

So good to see so much positive news on here this week! Great news on the scan @Holl89.

I’m now a week late and finally did a test this morning. 😬.

TTC after early miscarriage part 2
ThelastRolo20 · 23/02/2024 06:36

@bluebunny2 ah congratulations 🎉🤩

@Ella31 we're off to Lanzarote. The in laws go frequently and said they'd pay for us to join them, could hardly turn it down 😂 how are you getting on? X

Ncl31 · 23/02/2024 06:38

@bluebunny2 ah congratulations 🥳

Ella31 · 23/02/2024 10:40

ThelastRolo20 · 23/02/2024 06:36

@bluebunny2 ah congratulations 🎉🤩

@Ella31 we're off to Lanzarote. The in laws go frequently and said they'd pay for us to join them, could hardly turn it down 😂 how are you getting on? X

Aw lovely. Sun and Sea will be perfect for recovery.

Ella31 · 23/02/2024 10:40

bluebunny2 · 23/02/2024 06:07

So good to see so much positive news on here this week! Great news on the scan @Holl89.

I’m now a week late and finally did a test this morning. 😬.

Congratulations.

bluebunny2 · 23/02/2024 11:49

Thanks for the good wishes and I know I should be grateful but I’m actually wishing I hadn’t tested. I feel really down today and like I can’t take a shred of joy from it as I’ve totally convinced myself it’s not going to work out. I know some of you have been through so much worse than me already I honestly think you’re amazing as I’m finding this journey so tough right now.

Ella31 · 23/02/2024 11:50

Any updates @Panda101x

Ella31 · 23/02/2024 11:53

bluebunny2 · 23/02/2024 11:49

Thanks for the good wishes and I know I should be grateful but I’m actually wishing I hadn’t tested. I feel really down today and like I can’t take a shred of joy from it as I’ve totally convinced myself it’s not going to work out. I know some of you have been through so much worse than me already I honestly think you’re amazing as I’m finding this journey so tough right now.

@bluebunny2 totally normal bluebunny. I only said to my husband last night that unfortunately loss had taken the joy out of being or getting pregnant again as its marred with fear, however in this moment you are pregnant, it's a new baby, new journey. Everyone is rooting for you xxx

emmatcc1 · 23/02/2024 15:58

I’m finally ovulating. I just got crazy amounts of ewcm, I’ve never had this much and cervix is open so I think I’ll ovulate in a couple of days. Not sure if we’ll be able to dtd as my partner is a bit sick at the moment.

Claudiasaz · 23/02/2024 18:05

Congratulations @bluebunny2

Claudiasaz · 23/02/2024 18:06

How is everyone who's still ttc?

Its so nice to see the positives here but also makes me slightly anxious that I'm still not pregnant and feel like I'm gonna be here forever 😭🤣 x

Figtree11 · 23/02/2024 18:17

Congratulations to you all who have had BFP.

@Claudiasaz I'm still struggling- over 5 weeks since last AF but not pregnant. I am very anxious about what is going on!
Sending love to you. It’s very difficult to stay optimistic