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TTC after early miscarriage part 2
RaisingCornishWildlings · 07/02/2024 21:16
Claudiasaz · 08/02/2024 09:42
Hi @Ella31 and @emmatcc1 I am so sorry for both of your losses. The more I am in this world the more truly devastating things I hear. This is a lovely little group to get anything off your chest as you are ttc. Nothing is out of bounds here 😂 and I find it easier to chat in here than to have these chats with my friends in "real life" so hopefully this does the same for you too! Xx
Claudiasaz · 08/02/2024 09:44
One thing id say is just don't put too much pressure on yourself whatever you decide. I read everywhere how fertile I'd be afterwards and I'm 5 months post mc and not pregnant. You may be luckier and some in here have been but also a lot of us haven't and that's normal! So don't pressure yourself like I have been as it's hard to turn off once you start x
ThelastRolo20 · 08/02/2024 10:03
@Ella31 please don't feel any rush to "move on", anyone who says that has absolutely no idea the depths that grief can go ❤️
I think it can take a while for cycles to settle, I'm two weeks post surgery so waiting to see what will happen with mine. As @Claudiasaz says I sometimes find it easier here to be honest as opposed to in real life, my main support network are all pregnant or actively trying to conceive and I'm finding that difficult
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ThelastRolo20 · 08/02/2024 10:37
@Ella31 I think I had MVA under general. I didn't get very far in that pregnancy (well I was 10 weeks, baby never really made it to 6) so doesn't feel as traumatic as my first where I found out at the 12 week scan baby never made it to 10 weeks.
I also like to think it's when rather than if. We've been fortunate to get pregnant within 1/2 months for each 3 of my pregnancies (I have a 2 year old daughter). April/ May just feels so far away at the moment which is a struggle also
Claudiasaz · 08/02/2024 10:29
@Ella31 That's so so hard. You are still grieving. I'm still struggling and it's nothing compared to what you've been through.
I've had irregular cycles definitely it's my biggest annoyance of it 😂 I had short cycles at first. Then longer but spotting. Getting a bit more normal now. We have just said yesterday how a lot of us experience more cramps than before mc between O and period. I think it really alters your hormones and make up. I'm waiting on blood results at the moment to check my hormones. X
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