2024 TTC 35+ Part 1

[VixFromThe6ix]

New year, new thread!!!

Positive thoughts and baby dust for everyone this year!!!

@worldwidetravel2017 @NMB85 thank you both. It's very light and not even enough to show on a pad currently - but I just have a feeling it's not good news. Just had a video call with my husband and he immediately knew something was wrong. Going to get our dinner and then I think I'll just go to bed with my little girl
Will have to see what happens. I know whatever the outcome I can't change it but honestly, this will just break me :(

Have u had / asked 4 progesterone?
Worth going 2 epu ?

My mum bled 3 times with me - yet she ' had 'me
( 9 weeks early but yea)

@worldwidetravel2017 no I haven't. To be honest, I didn't know it was an option until you mentioned in a previous post.
Im not sure what to do - should I call 111 this eve or wait and see what happens this eve/ overnight?

If you call 111 and say pregnant and bleeding - youll be told to go to a n e
Asap
A n e can do urine test and or hcg test 2 confirm stuff..

Do ring 111
Do tell them your history
If i was u - id pack a bag / snacks/ drinks - ring 111 and go to a n e - on their say so

My early miscarriage was a similar stage
But depending on your results from urine - they may be able to offer progesterone / try n help
Do tell them any previous losses

111 asked me to save the pads - to show how much blood.

@worldwidetravel2017 ok thank you. I will call them and see what they say. Am home alone with my toddler, husband is 5 hours away with work, and I have no family where I am, so feeling stressed

Count to 10
Be kind to you

So sorry to read this @JC084 - stay strong, I don’t have any experience or knowledge to share but thinking of you. X

Try not to worry @SouthwestSis as other have said you don’t one when implanted - stay positive! And great it’s a positive xx

@SouthwestSis keeping everything crossed for you.

@JC084 so sorry to hear what you're going through when you're home alone. Really hope it's not bad news and just a bit of spotting. Hope you manage to get a bit of rest tonight x

@RoseH36 thank you. I called 111 earlier and they got GP to call me back. They want to see me tonight, so have an appointment at 12.15am.
Going to have to take my toddler with me so that isn't ideal 😔 also now regretting being lazy earlier and not going to get petrol when I only had 7 miles left in the tank. Thankfully the appointment is less than half a mile away so should be ok and I'll get some in the morning

What a night 😢

Thinking of u @JC084 x

Thinking of you

Oh I'm so glad you got an appointment @JC084 rather than sitting for 8 hours in A&E

Have been thinking of you. Let us know how you got on when you're feeling up to it.

No bleeding here yet so another day of trying to distract myself and keeping my fingers crossed.
I haven't told my husband yet as I know he won't really be excited yet after the last chemical.
Want to test again tomorrow morning and then tell him I think.

@Hayl777 @SouthwestSis @worldwidetravel2017

Thank you all. Bit of a rough night, but they saw me at the out of hours GP and she doesn't think it is ectopic. Just need to keep An eye out for any symptoms over the next few days as I did have some pain low down on the right hand side yesterday.
Bleeding is heavier now, so unfortunately think it's over for me 💔
Waiting for my GP to call me back today to see what support I can get moving forwards. Husband back late tonight and I just need a cuddle. My friend popped round this morning to check on me so that helped.

@JC084 oh I'm sorry you are having heavier bleeding today. Hopefully, if you are out, that your GP is helpful moving forward. Thoughts are with you. Hopefully DH can give you the comfort you need x

@JC084 what an awful night you've had. I'm so sorry it sounds like you're going through it all again so soon after the last one 😔

I'm back to testing this weekend, pre-seed has arrived. Not had any email back from the clinic yet so if I haven't heard by Tuesday I'll call them and see what the deal is with getting a sperm analysis or look at Superdrug instead.

Thank you everyone for your kind messages. I have been round the houses a bit today trying to speak to my GP (then finding out he'd listed the call back had been attempted many times but I hadn't answered - when I didn't have one single Missed call 😐), then getting put on the list for another female doctor and eventually speaking
With her (to be scolded for not having called them first thing so they had time to refer me .... which I did, I called them at 9am and it just took them ages to call me back - and 60 mins total of being on hold) 🤦🏻‍♀️
Was then referred to EPU who called me back about an hour ago and were lovely. Have been booked in for a scan and bloods on Tuesday so they can see what is going on. Hoping I can get some answers or at least some support now

@JC084 will be thinking of u. Will be a tough weekend of limbo for you all 😢 hopefully with a positive outcome.

Aw no .
So sorry to hear
Be kind to you - fav food - fav choc \ fav candles, fav music .. fav flowers
Its hard.
Ive been there..
My pm box is open.
Do consider talking to Tommys baby charity in future when u feel ready..

Take things one day at a time.

It was VERY raw for me for a good 4 - 8 weeks after...

You know where we are

Thinking of you

Had a session with OT today

Aside from that - i just bkd a hol - 3 nights in the sun @ easter
Has been a long 7 / 8 months

Very much deserved

@worldwidetravel2017 sounds like a good plan! Holidays are needed! Hope you are going somewhere nice!
We were going to book a holiday for our 'big' birthdays - husband has just turned 50 and I am turning 40 ... but we had postponed due to our news. So I'm thinking we should just book something nice now

Thank you all for your messages

Tenerife
And do it - book a trip

Yes book the trip - get something exciting planned. Hope you’re doing okay x