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9dpo bfn am I out

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 10:06

So currently on month 3 of tcc...really felt positive this month but dod a test this and bfn im 9dpi...

Do u think im out...struggling with this ttc getting me down

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Mama09876 · 31/10/2023 10:55

It’s still so early to test 9 DPO! I’d wait a few more days and keep testing it AF doesn’t arrive.

PinkRoses1245 · 31/10/2023 11:14

Of course not, there's a reason the test instructions say use from day of missed period. I only got BFP 15 dpo.

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 11:31

Thankpyou I don't see how it can go from bfn to bfp in a day ...I'd atleast thought I'd see a faint line by now...

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Mama09876 · 31/10/2023 11:36

Because some tests aren’t strong enough to pick up hCG in the early days and hCG I believe doubles daily.
9 DPO is still really soon! Implantation sometimes doesn’t even happen till day 9!
Just cause some people on here get faint lines at 9 DPO I wouldn’t compare yourself. I’d wait for you AF due and then take a test

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 12:02

I've been using the easy at home.ones which are 10mg I believe so quite sensitive

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Lala87 · 31/10/2023 12:04

Too early! The average day for implantation is 8/9 and it takes a few days for HCG to build up.

AnnieStar12 · 31/10/2023 13:06

I’m 11DPO today have been testing since 6DPO cause I’m impatient! I had totally negative tests days 6,7,8,9 and on 10DPO there was the faintest ever line which you had to squint and hold to the light to see, Lola! And today 11DPO it’s still very faint but definitely there.
So I’d say there is still hope right up until your due date.

We’ve been TCC since Feb so I know this process can be tedious - hang in there. If this month isn’t the one, then it will be soon.

moosey89 · 31/10/2023 20:13

It's too soon to know, that's why they recommend waiting until you miss a period to test.

Also, best thing you can do is find coping strategies for stress etc. I hope it doesn't happen to you, but for some of us TTC is a long slog, and struggling after only 3 months isn't good for you. Figure out what makes you happy, and what can make the two week waits go by quickly. I hope you get your BFP soon x

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Bex4567 · 31/10/2023 20:32

I thjnk im out anyway to be honest coz I've come out In spots on my chin for the last 2 weeks and I dint think that's a pregnancy symptoms only if you have your period

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:04

10dpo bfn 😪def think im out this month face full of spots too and don't think that's a symptom had them for a bout 2 weeks...😪thought by 10dpo if atlear have a faint line by now

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booJo24902 · 01/11/2023 01:16

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:04

10dpo bfn 😪def think im out this month face full of spots too and don't think that's a symptom had them for a bout 2 weeks...😪thought by 10dpo if atlear have a faint line by now

I'm 11dpo have really long cycles normally around 35. So I ovulate later. I'm 11dpo today & 4 days away from af and I got a bfn 😩 I could cry. 27months and counting 😔

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:33

Yeah Me too...period due in 4 days

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booJo24902 · 01/11/2023 01:43

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 01:33

Yeah Me too...period due in 4 days

So hard & im actually getting depressed about it now it's really affecting me. Good luck!! 🤞 for u xx

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:05

I no im starting to think there's something wrong witb me 😪10dpo today and bfn think I'm out to be honest

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:06

Have u been to the docters nd had test ect might be worth doing as its been that long

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FoleyHuck · 01/11/2023 08:12

Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:05

I no im starting to think there's something wrong witb me 😪10dpo today and bfn think I'm out to be honest

With great kindness OP, get a grip. It's only been 3 months which is nothing in the grand scheme of things, and at 10DPO you are not out of the game, you are out of the game once your period starts.

I'm not sure why you're focusing on your skin, not everything has to be a symptom! I am pregnant now (after 3 years of trying) and coincidentally have a spottier chin than I've had for years. I've put it down to the change in weather and that I'm moisturising more!

If you're not lucky this month then please try and find a way to keep busy through the TWW in future, and don't test until your period is late, only heartache and stress comes from testing so early, I speak from experience. Best of luck to you x

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Bex4567 · 01/11/2023 08:40

Because I get spots when I'm on my period thts why..

I will try and get a grip thankyou

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Bex4567 · 02/11/2023 12:37

11dpo today bfn im obviously out this month 😪period due in 3 days thought I would of atleast seen a faint line by now

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moosey89 · 02/11/2023 14:30

@Bex4567 take a step back from testing. It's not doing your mental health any good! Try to find things that you enjoy to keep yourself busy. There's nothing you can do at this stage so there's no point in stressing every day about it x

Starlight11111 · 03/11/2023 01:27

OP I didn't get my positive in June until a few days after my period was due. Sadly ended in a loss but just wanted to share that sometimes it really can take time to show on a test. I'm 10 DPO today and BFN on tests so far but not ruling this month out just yet :) x

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Bex4567 · 03/11/2023 06:34

Thankyou well I'm 12dpo and still bfn do pretty sure I'm out...hopefully my time will come soon

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Bex4567 · 04/11/2023 10:10

Well 13 dpo period tomorrow bfn this morning 😪def out feel like my periods coming...on to the next cycle j gues

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Amy7912 · 05/11/2023 08:43

Hi I'm 9dpo had spotting 4 days ago so thought I'd test positive by now if it was implanting bleeding. Did you end up getting af?

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Bex4567 · 05/11/2023 09:48

No I didn't due on today going into month 4

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Amy7912 · 05/11/2023 18:36

I've been trying for 9 months now it doesn't get any easier. Fingers crossed you get the result you want. I think I'm out too started with brown discharge today. Here's to another month, fingers crossed for us both

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