TTC May 2023 💖 Previous MC March 2023 (thread 2)

[Sez281]

Hi ladies, just thought I'd create a new thread for anybody that wants to continue.
@Jadeypie
@Westy22
@Freddie15VES
@fleur89
@Strawb28
@DmcinT
@HopeAndStrength
@xxcxdonxx
And @SnookyPook for if/when you feel like you might want to come back xx

Sorry if I've forgotten anybody, I realise most of you guys have had your BFPs and there's only a few off us left waiting, but at least you know the thread is here so come back and keep us updated with all your lovely pregnancy stories 😊 For those of us still here, hopefully it won't be too much longer 🙏💖 xx

Did anyone else adjust their bbt with the clocks going back? I did lol and now my chart looks random as fuxk lol. Think am getting too old for all this. I feel like you lot above. Cant get out of bed till ive temped..cant get up for a wee and go back to slp cos ive a clear blue stick to piss on and its too early so i have to wait. Cant have another cup of tea cos i needto take so n so supplements. Cant run long or at all cos it messes your hormones up.. and then theres even more crap in the 2ww. All to just come on each mth. I never did any of this obsessing with my other 2 or mmc....ive ovulater twice this month too. One day 8 confirmed by a scan and second day 18 clearblue pain n cm. So 1st egg immature...2nd too mature. Im seriously thinking about a puppy now and scrapping all this off lol

@Sez281 the health kick has helped me concentrate on something else tbf and it's rhe k ly thing I can control as my hormones are obviously all over the place haha. Xx

@Supertrooper101 yeh it's just a constant thing isn't it all the stuff we do maybe we need to all have a chill and enjoy Xmas xx

@Westy22 u tested uet xx

@Supertrooper101 I don't do BBT) I can't be dealing with another obsession) although my sister is giving me her Apple Watch so will keep an eye on it just to see 🤷‍♀️ That's mad about the double ovulation, it's like Goldilocks either too mature or not enough! 🙈 I'm defo going through some weird hormonal imbalance at the moment. Started crying over nothing again this morning, I haven't even ovulated yet so it's not pms! So yeah @Jadeypie from now until New Year it's a new me. It's going to be hard trying to balance having fun and losing weight but I'll do my best 😂

@Westy22 any updates? X

No update as of yet, hadn't come on this morning but suppose it could happen at anytime today. I haven't tested as I've really told myself I'm not pregnant so just waiting.

Had bad insomnia last night was awake from like 3am, from what I remember I've had this before when on the pill but can't remember if it was before or during AF. X

I don't track my bbt @Supertrooper101 feels like alot of hassle lol the obsession is horrific, feel like I need therapy just for this experience 🤣

@Supertrooper101 yeh I don't track bbt but my watch thinks it does so I've just started that (it won't be as reliable probably) xx

@Sez281 you can do this. Just think few weeks time you will feel the benefit from it I've started feeling it now in my skin hair ect and my bra doesn't feel like it's suffocating me anymore hahah. Xx

@Westy22 your doing really well not to test xx

So My period has stopped three days (I say this now it will probably decide to start again) and I had a chat to my oh to give it a really good go this month because we just dtd when in the mood av told him the balls in his court so he doesn't feel like I'm using him haha but he needs to be ACTIVE haha. Even tho I said I wouldn't use opks I've ordered some to start. see if being on a health kicl has helped my hormones xx

I tested this morning @Jadeypie lol negative 💤 I don't know what my body is doing 😑 hopefully I come on today. I like your plan I'm going to hand it over to my OH I think x

Ah sorry @Westy22 , you did really well to hang off testing. Were you due a few days ago?

@Westy22 oh that's crap!! But you done well to resist all this time. I'm the same have no clue!! Xx

Yes I'm 3 days late now @xxcxdonxx wondering whether I ovulated later as I had ewcm around cd19 which would mean maybe Im due on tomorrow or the next day but its still a longer cycle than normal? Who knows 🤣 I didn't do any opk this last cycle and sods law it goes pear shaped. I've used a 25miu test and the obsessive side of me is thinking go buy an early one but in my head I'm thinking it should be there if I was x

@Westy22 you never know, you definitely could have ovulated later. Might be worth getting a 10miu or early detection 🤷‍♀️ Although you're rightly being very logical about the whole thing so maybe wait another day or so to see if AF comes. Still crossing fingers for you! 🤞

@Jadeypie good shout letting OH take control for a bit. Maybe put a few stars on calendar around fertile window just in case he hasn't a clue 🙈😂

@xxcxdonxx I hope AF is nearly finished and you're almost back to normal at this stage xx

@westy I've actually thought the same to do a early test it's not like me to have a three day period. I only bled full flow one day then the other two was light. And now just ewcm type cm am am like maybe it was implantation haha I duno my actually af is due tomorrow or Sunday. And then part of me is like stop being silly haha xx

@Sez281 that's a good idea with the star thing xx

I did an early detection after about a 3 hour hold and its negative 😑 not sure whether I should be alarmed I've not come on 🤣 if I ovulated late around the time I had some ewcm cd19 then I'm potentially only 10dpo maybe? And everything has pushed back x

Ooo let us know how you get on @Jadeypie xx

@Westy22 yeh that's actually what It could be. I've not got any early ones av only got a clear blue but Al test with fmu in the morning I'm in work till 11 tonight and I've been weeing and drinking loads so Al test in the morning haha. If that wasn't a period then Al be 14dpo I think tomorrow so surly a test would show up xx

Oh @Jadeypie that does sound like a very short AF so definitely a chance that it wasn't! Fingers crossed for your test tomorrow 🤞 You too @Westy22, you're not out yet! Keep us updated ladies xx

@Westy22 ahh that’s confusing, as you say you could be a bit later than you think. Keep us updated over the next few days.
@Jadeypie you never know, it could have been some implantation. Fingers crossed for your test today.
Thanks @Sez281 , yup it’s all done and gearing up for fertile window which starts in a few days apparently. So I’ve bought Coq10, should I start taking them straight away or just wait until this window is over as they’d make no difference at this stage I assume?
How are you getting on?

Well bfn for me so looks like it was a very short period. Oh well start the opks when they arrive see what this month brings ha stupid hormones. Maybe losing the weight is shifting my hormones because I crnt recall having this much cm so am taking it as a good sign for now ha. 10.5 pounds down so am feeling good inmyself xx

So confused 😕

Did ab OPK this morning to see what's happening and it came out at 0.55 🙃that's doubled since yesterday, does anyone else get this before AF? I did a cheapie stick and feel like there's a shadow but probs indent so not focusing on that. 🤣

Top is OPK btw xx

@Westy22 I can see a shadow too. opks can pick hcg levels up aswell. When is your af meant to be due is it possible you've ovulated later? And you've got a sqinter? Xx

Premom has me 4 days late and flo has me 2 days late, If I've ovulated later say cd 18/19 then I'm 11/12 dpo xx I'm so impatient so this is so annoying 🤣 I've had so many potential shadows that I can't take it seriously yet 🤣🤣 although I'm glad you see it too because sometimes you feel insane looking at nothing 🤣

10.5 pounds is absolutely amazing by the way @Jadeypie and can only be a positive thing for your body ❤️ xx

@Westy22 I can see a squinter line on that hcg test too, I'd definitely be doing early detection ones if I were you!! But I was a total poas addict,I'm impressed by your self control. Have you got a frer or boots early response?

@xxcxdonxx I think you can start taking the CoQ10 whenever you want, what dosage did you get?

@Jadeypie wow 10.5 lbs is amazing well done! Sorry to hear that it was just a short AF but hopefully it means everything regulating now xx

@Westy22 there's definitely a whisper of a shadow of a line there. I'd take it that you are maybe 9-10dpo going by your ewcm too. The opk thing could mean either to be honest. I've had it when close to AF but also had a blazing one at same time as BFP in January so it's hard to tell. Fingers crossed it's the second one! X

Ah I did an early one yesterday and got nothing 🤣 @Hankthehonk so I'm very confused xx