TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@MrsJGrealish thank you so much, so sorry to see you’re still here, along with many others, definitely a shock, dh has had a massive ego boost though, they just don’t get it these blokes.

@Hankthehonk thank you, I don’t think I’m going to keep testing, I’ve been down that hole before and I really don’t want to go there again with the anxiety it creates.

still feels a bit surreal at the moment, we won’t be telling anyone until and unless I get to about 16 weeks, including the teenagers who I’m sure will be absolutely grossed out 😂

@Mannymoomin here but not here..trying to wean myself of mumsnet slowly 😂 but I saw your name and had to comment. Men are all the same 🤣Congratulations!! ❤️

@Mannymoomin congratulations xx

@MrsJGrealish how are you getting on? Did af arrive? My period is messed up again… so frustrating. I’ve paid for day 3 home tests as still not had those and with these dodgy periods I’m sure they are missing something, but typically af was even later this time (damn progesterone) so had to do them today on day 2 as they won’t accept them tomorrow because of the weekend 🙈. Hopefully I’ll get the results soon and it may flag up what’s going on. Also have done the thyroid ones too for peace of mind as they were last done over a year ago. Dread to think how much I’ve spent since ttc number 2 lol

@Bubblesandballoons oh it showed..bang on time too. Mmm yea I got my CD3 tests today and they are doing thyroid too x god couldn't be annoyed with that. Late AF is too stressful 😨 xx

@Bubblesandballoons mine are CD2 as well!! Actually started spotting on Tuesday night but technically started Wednesday but couldn't get outta work tomorrow..I feel like I should make a huge effort this month. DH won't know what's hit him 😂

@MrsJGrealish Yeah never again, saving rest for if I ever get another bfp. I’m trying to pin hosp down for this hsg as says no sex before 🙄. When I rang yest woman said no one had reviewed the request for it yet, so they couldnt book 🤷🏼‍♀️, no answer today, and I can only have it next Fri as rest of the days they want to do it fall on weekend and not having it done day 13/14 as I often ovulate then. Tbh I would rather day 10 only as rest are risky as I can ovulate anytime from cd11.
Least one of our partners will be happy 😂 I haven’t told him about the no sex if it’s booked yet. Fingers crossed we get results soon and they are all good or something easily fixed 🤞🏻. I’m part dreading them and part excited to see what’s going on 😂.

@Bubblesandballoons god this seems like an absolute nightmare for you..consultant, different consultant, lost clotting tests, having to fight for an hsg 🤷‍♀️ like surely the fact you've had a baby should make absolutely no difference to checking whether your tubes are clear now 🤨 (shamefully kinda glad you tested the progesterone theory before I had to. They still aren't happy giving it to me and I'm scared to use it..sorry it messed your cycles up though 😕)

DH will literally not know what's hit him🤣 I keep OPK results to myself now. He got stage fright once and that was an episode 🙄. He will think he's irresistible 🙈😂 pray for me 🙏.

Good luck getting it done quickly though xx 😘

@MrsJGrealish I’m starting to wonder if I’m in something like the Truman show and it’s all happening to keep it interesting 😂. Fingers crossed I can get through tomorrow and at least know if it’s happening this cycle or not. Haha yeah if you have normal levels don’t bother. Funny as I’ve never seen anyone say it’s delayed period nearly a week when they take it. Typical my stupid body reacts this way 😂😂.
Sending all the prayers your way. I do the same as my dp has had performance anxiety before and it took ages for him to finish 🤦🏼‍♀️. Never again 😂.

@MrsJGrealish did your results come back? All mine are fine bar progesterone which was still high… was in luteal phase realms 🤦🏼‍♀️. No wonder my period is all weird. Got my hsg booked on the 3rd July cd13 😬. Trying not to stress and go with its a break month, so I don’t spend the next week and a bit worrying about ovulating before it and wasting the egg. Decided it’s better to get the test done asap then can move forward. Dp not so happy about the sex ban though 😂

@Bubblesandballoons it was likely those suppositories bringing it up. The gift that keeps giving 🤣 No not yet.. said like the end of the week? I'm getting (god I can never remember the name) the AMH? one done too xx

We started last night. Nowhere near close to ov and will likely to burnt out by the time if arrives 🙄

@MrsJGrealish oh yes… 100% not using unless get bfp 😂. Oh I didn’t do that was was another £45 and already spend nearly £60 on others 🙈. Will save that for a few months time, although not sure I want to know how crap it is 🤣.
Read online they say no sex after either for a couple of days 😳. Hoping they don’t say that at appt 🤞🏻. Bet your dh is very happy to get cracking. Do you have a routine or as or when? We do every other day, not very romantic, but covers the bases.

@Bubblesandballoons it gets worse too...I've booked an appointment with a private gynae to talk over the results. Depending how bad they are I might not do this 😂

I have a routine. Hes blissfully walking round clueless 🤣🤣 started last night to get rid of the old lazy ones 🙈

😂 sure they’ll be fine like mine, which tbf is equally frustrating.
Love that’s he’s clueless. Funny how we see sex when ttc, gotta love that first clear out sex 😂