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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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FfoxRedN · 09/02/2023 21:07

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Daniki · 02/04/2023 21:02

@tulipsunday went great, absolutely wrecked now 😅 great distraction. I wouldn't worry about that at all, I had a few wines today! If we get pregnant be our last drink for a good while 😂 it'll be a long wait now til we can test 😆🙈

tulipsunday · 02/04/2023 21:41

Yes that is a v good point! If I am hopefully at some point going to be off it for a while might as well enjoy whilst I can 😂 🍷 glad the party went well. @Daniki

Good luck to everyone testing this week 🤞 for some bfps

tulipsunday · 04/04/2023 07:36

Think I have had some possible implantation bleeding course this has got my hopes up 😬 testing tomorrow which will be 11dpo.

Daniki · 04/04/2023 10:43

@tulipsunday oh my god no way! Ooh exciting keep us informed 😍

Waitingonarainbow · 04/04/2023 10:52

Sounds promising @tulipsunday, fingers crossed for you and everyone in the TWW.

I also think "I won't be drinking soon" so enjoy a glass of wine when I feel like one.

CD13 for me today and usually ovulate around CD19 so getting ready to get busy trying 😂 but my OH is working nights CD14-CD17 and our DS doesn't nap anymore so not feeling too hopeful we will be able to BD at the right times this month haha.

tulipsunday · 04/04/2023 13:36

Ah man @Waitingonarainbow I have had lots of months like that it is frustrating when the timing isn't ideal.! hopefully you can find a window of opportunity 😆

Is hard when they drop the nap I am currently nap trapped in a car park my two old who is having a snooze - don't want to wake him. Beautiful day in the south east today ☀️ hope it is nice where you all are too xx

Daniki · 04/04/2023 20:58

I'm symptom spotting like mad here, sore boobs, urinating like mad and heightened sense of smell 😂

tulipsunday · 05/04/2023 06:59

Eek sounds promising! Took a FRER this morning 11dpo no obvious line sadly. Possibly a hint of something when I shine a light but think as likely to be an evap. Tried the invert thingy but not sure if I can see a hint of something or just wishful thinking?

TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙
TheBirdintheCave · 05/04/2023 08:30

@tulipsunday I see it. What does the original pic look like?

tulipsunday · 05/04/2023 08:35

My phone camera quality isn't great but here is original

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TheBirdintheCave · 05/04/2023 08:38

Ok yes, I see that too. Extremely faint as you say, but there is something there.

tulipsunday · 05/04/2023 08:48

Thank you @TheBirdintheCave will test again Friday and see if any progress 🤞

Daniki · 05/04/2023 09:05

I can see a vvvvf line!

TheBirdintheCave · 05/04/2023 09:33

@tulipsunday Good luck! I'd be testing tomorrow if it were me as I have no will power 😂

tulipsunday · 05/04/2023 11:49

@TheBirdintheCave my willpower isn't great. I am embarrassed about the amounts of tests I have got through in months where I didn't even know if I was ovulating. Trying to rein it in a bit as hate the disappointment!

DHB · 05/04/2023 17:37

Hello all, I’m sadly new here.

I had a miscarriage on 5th March at 8 weeks and I bled for roughly 10 days. I have had on and off spotting, mostly brown and mostly when wiping since then.

I have had extremely faint positive HCG tests since the miscarriage. Me and my Partner have been TTO since the miscarriage but now I’m unsure if the HCG is still picking up faint positives, whether I would have even ovulated. Although I did have some sharp right sided cramps around 1 week ago.

Any advice or personal experiences would be welcomed with open arms 💗💙

Daniki · 05/04/2023 17:50

Sorry to hear that DHB it's tough ☹️ Did you have a period at all prob not? Be hard to tell, if the tests get darker it would be positive but I would think it be residual hcg in your blood, I had miscarriages and 7 & 9 weeks and both took a few weeks to get a negative test x

DHB · 05/04/2023 18:21

Sorry to hear about both of yours too 💗

I haven’t had a period, no. Just this on and off brown spotting, then the last day or so, I had some very light pink spotting but that’s gone again now, as has the brown.

Its a horrible confusing time isn’t it :(

Daniki · 05/04/2023 18:43

Such a horrible time! My bleeding after the miscarriage went from red to brown and the brown lasted a while too! We started TTC as soon as bleeding stopped after first Mc but I got my period and then got pregnant next cycle. The urge I had to get pregnant again after my first miscarriage was overwhelming but I didn't feel it on my second so gave myself a 2 month break, but the urge is back 😂🙈 x

DHB · 05/04/2023 18:49

Maybe it’s not meant to be this time around then, and I’m better off waiting for my actual period to come. Although, it’s 4 weeks later now and the bleeding is not increasing, so frustrating!

Thank you for sharing!! That’s amazing you conceived so quickly after :)

tulipsunday · 05/04/2023 19:52

@DHB so sorry for your loss ❤️ it is annoying the waiting around for your body to resettle after. Hard enough dealing with the emotions. Hopefully your cycle will resettle soon. I am trying again after my second miscarriage in December xx

DHB · 05/04/2023 20:52

Thank you 💗 I hope all works out for you as well xx

BudgetBuster · 05/04/2023 23:07

@DHB Sorry for your loss. Unfortunately there's no rules when it comes to miscarriage. Some people conceive immediately, some people HCG takes longer to come down, some peoples cycle takes a while to regulate.

I miscarried on 1st November, and although I had a period every month since, it took until February for my cycle to regulate (cycles were much shorter in between). I got pregnant in that first regular cycle but have since miscarried again.

My 3 losses to date have all been different themselves. My HCG dropped rapidly in the first 2 but is taking much longer now to drop.

Perhaps once you've had another period, you could start OPKs to check your ovulation thereafter?

tulipsunday · 07/04/2023 08:03

Test looks similar to Wednesday - no progression so pretty sure I am out this cycle 😢 waiting now for AF to come now.

Daniki · 07/04/2023 10:47

@tulipsunday when are you due AF? defo not out yet, try not to panic but I know how hard it is not to overthink ❤️ x

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