TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@Bubblemachiene I'm 36 :) I don't think you're too old.

@Superstorefan123 I'm sorry, today is shit but hopefully tomorrow will be better

@Mannymoomin fingers crossed it's IB 🤞

@Bubblemachiene I'm 38, 39 in March and my mum is positively horrified I'm still having kids. But she'd finished having us by 23 when I was starting with my first so we've just had different lives is all. You're not too old 💕

@bringmearainbow hope you're ok lovely

Hi ladies, is it ok if I join? Starting TTC again this month after two Mc,
one in September and one in December.
Hoping it was bad luck and everything ok this time round 🤞🏻 god the nerves! 😫

@Daniki Sorry for your losses :( There are quite a few of us with two or more miscarriages in this group so you're not alone. I hope you get your rainbow soon :)

Thanks everyone
I already have 2 children 10 & 7
But i definitely want more and I don't feel too old at all.
How soon after mc did you start trying ?

@Bubblemachiene Straight away both times :)

@Mannymoomin that sounds positive fingers crossed xx
@Daniki sorry for you losses and welcome to the group
@Bubblemachiene i’m 36 and 37 in April too, so definitely not too old. I’ve tried straight away every time, bar when I had to not try to get some blood tests done.

Great thanks everyone
I was sure if It was too soon to try right away buy then it saves dwelling on what happened I suppose

@TheBirdintheCave thanks 😊 left it two cycles before trying again so hoping it was just bad luck those times 🫣

@Bubblemachiene im current trying again in my 1st cycle post MC after ovulating last week
as long as your body is back to normal and mentally feel ready then go for it
as you say it gives you something positive to focus on rather than dwelling x

@Bubblemachiene didn't take any breaks both times. Doctors pretty much say that as long as you're okay mentally, keep trying. Best of luck!
P.s. I appreciate some people might need to take breaks for medical reasons.

I had a Mc in December.

Was considering taking a break to go on holiday. Tested this morning and got these. Evap lines? Or positive. Isn't it a minefield!
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@ttcttc evaps look different. These are very clear positives

Thank you. I thought so but didn't want to get my hopes up xx

@MrsC2018 I'm good thanks lovely can't change it as much as I wish I could. I also worked out if I O late this cycle DH is away so I really need to O CD14/15/16 17 at the very latest which is not impossible but I have been know to have a late one last cycle was CD21 🙈 they are mainly around CD16/17 though

@LMM91x any news your end?

@Daniki welcome and sorry you're here ❤️

@ttcttc I would also say positive and not evaps esp if they were in time frame?

@bringmearainbow nothing over here! No sign of AF and have somehow resisted testing…… I probably if it was a normal cycle would have come on Friday or today, probably wake up to her🤣 going to test Monday morning if no appearence… will be 14dpo then so if there’s a line it should be a decent one!

the one thing tjat is really puzzling me is I feel absolutely ZILCH in my boobs , nothing at all…. Which before AF is normally v painful and i would expect if preg also would feel something there…. So very strange. My last hope is that i’ve decided if I was preg then my boobs are used to higher levels of hcg from the MMC a few weeks ago so maybe they arent hurting 🤣🤣🤣🙃🙃 sends you loopy this!

how you feeling fresh new cycle 💪fingers crossed is a lucky bean cycle💕

@bringmearainbow yes they came up in about 20 seconds.

@Mannymoomin that's a good sign. When I conceived in August I got implantation bleeding around 7dpo. It was bright red , went against everything the Internet says about IB , sadly the pregnancy didn't progress but that had nothing to do with it. Fingers crossed for you.

Hi ladies, signing in again. I took a break from here the last two weeks for my own emotional health, my last period really upset me and i was so down. I've had a lovely month. I went to my gp and explained how since my miscarriage in August, I've been all over the place emotionally and although she told me nothing new, to have a professional tell me what I'm feeling is normal really helped.

So I put away the Ovulation sticks until this week when cm began to appear, the last few weeks I've gone out, booked and went on a holiday which im on now with my husband. I'm officially 1dpo and I feel not one bit anxious or stressed. I've brought no tests on my holiday and I've stopped googling everything. Hopefully in 10 days there might be good news but I've also accepted that this takes time and I'm not unique and the only one who is trying.

So I'm glad to be back on this and hope all of you are doing well too.

Day 4 of flashing smileys... the smug little face blinking at me is driving me demented! What are peoples thoughts on dtd with the flashies? My apps are predicting ovulation tomorrow but surely they would be static if that was the case?

@Chellooo the actual flashing face of doom 🤣🤣🤣 !!! I dtd whilst flashing 100% I think thats the idea as then you’ll cover bases if you end up missing peak via the tests - saying that you’ll pob get static tomorrow so i would def get bding !

@ttcttc those are definitely positives 🤗

@Ella31 Welcome back :) Where have you gone on holiday?

@Chellooo I'd be dtd at least every other day with a flashing smiley :)

Took my son to the park before and I find it so hard seeing all the mums with boys his age and babies in prams or slings :( Why does my body have to be the shit one :(

Lanzarote. It's fab. Long walks, swimming and chilling. Brought no tests with me on purpose so can relax and not think about anything.