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TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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FfoxRedN · 09/02/2023 21:07

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TheBirdintheCave · 22/02/2023 09:52

@HollyGolightly4 Exactly five weeks for me.

bringmearainbow · 22/02/2023 10:49

@Chellooo it certainly is but we all do it it's because you want it so much ❤️

@HollyGolightly4 after my first it took 6 weeks after my second it was 10 weeks. It's frustrating but sometimes it just takes ages 😩

Chellooo · 22/02/2023 10:54

@HollyGolightly4 I think mine was about 6 weeks if I remember correctly...I was about 8 weeks when I miscarried so I figured it would have taken a while.

Thanks for the support ladies, it's so lovely to be around people that understand the frustration xx

SMG1992 · 22/02/2023 10:57

@HollyGolightly4 Mine was 4 weeks and 2 days but very light compared to my pre MC periods. I know it can take a few cycles to get back to normal which is so frustrating.

tulipsunday · 22/02/2023 13:54

@HollyGolightly4 mine came back quite soon but then I had two short cycles so not regulated yet and not sure if ovulating as can't seem to get a peak opk..

Last night was a bit of a disaster. Think my husband is feeling stressed by it all and is finding it hard to get in the right space for DTD even though he really wants me to fall pregnant again and hates seeing me disappointed. Has anyone had similar?

Think next cycle I am just going to ditch any ovulation stick chat with him and try to work on just rebuilding intimacy etc. but at the same time I know there is such a limited window to fall pregnant 😬

bringmearainbow · 23/02/2023 14:57

How is everyone doing? I'm hoping to ovulate in a couple of days 🤞🏼 got all the signs just no positive opk yet 🙄 I'm fed up of looking at low sticks 🤣

bringmearainbow · 23/02/2023 14:58

I Mean I'd actually like to ovulate tonight but I'll take tomorrow too 🤣 Dh is going away on sat

Bubblesandballoons · 23/02/2023 19:19

@bringmearainbow fingers crossed you ovulate sooner. I’m 5dpo, so just waiting around to see what happens next 😂

bringmearainbow · 23/02/2023 19:27

@Bubblesandballoons oooh 🤞🏼 when do you think you'll test?

Daniki · 23/02/2023 20:55

Just finished AF so will start trying again now. I tracked my ovulation before my first pregnancy and found out I actually ovulate right after my period rather than around day 14. Haven't tracked this time as find it's a lot of pressure.
Try and DTD every second night and should hit the fertile window 😂

SMG1992 · 23/02/2023 22:00

@bringmearainbow @Daniki i’m similar timing wise to you both this month
im hoping for a flashing smiley soon but am going to start DTD as I’m not exactly sure when ovulation will be so want to increase chances
@Bubblesandballoons good luck with your tww, i hope you’re managing to be patient and sending baby dust your way!

Bubblesandballoons · 23/02/2023 22:26

@bringmearainbow I’m going to try and just see if my period comes, but if that fails I’m hoping to at least get to 10dpo 😂

Bubblesandballoons · 24/02/2023 08:09

@SMG1992 sorry missed your message, thanks. Good luck catching that egg 🤞🏻

tulipsunday · 24/02/2023 08:14

Good luck everyone! Stopped doing the flashing smiley cb tests as had had nine in a row 😂 think my body is resettling post miscarriage in December. Will probs still do some cheap opks still over the next few days in case ovulation is late in the cycle (CD18 today).

bringmearainbow · 24/02/2023 10:46

@tulipsunday oh don't get me started on the smug smiley face. I used them a few cycles and I always had long spells of flashing smileys I think I must just get the oestrogen rise early to set it off. I stopped them this cycle the strips work just aswell and the cb are too expensive to have 9/10 days of flashing faces 😂

@Bubblesandballoons good luck 🤞🏼 i really struggle with waiting though I did manage last month AF arrived 11dpo as normal 🙄

@SMG1992 @Daniki good luck ladies we've dtd every other day since last week and since Dh is going away tomorrow we've managed 3 days in a row well by the time tonight comes it will be 3 days in a row 😂 then I just have to pray O happens before the 5 days are up

Daniki · 24/02/2023 12:34

@bringmearainbow wishing you all the best! 🥰

tulipsunday · 24/02/2023 18:10

@bringmearainbow so smug isn't it 😂 Any positive ovulation test yet? Lots of breast sensitivity today don't know what that is related to (of course hoping I ovulated early and it is an early pregnancy sign.. wishful thinking probably) lol

bringmearainbow · 24/02/2023 19:15

@tulipsunday nope still frustratingly very low 🙄 lol last two cycles I have had every symptom under the sun so I'm going to try and not symptom spot at all this one if I don't hurry up and ovulate I'll be for sure not even counting down my dpo days 😂 it could be a sign you have ovulated I get sore boobs through my whole LP 🤦🏼‍♀️

Chellooo · 25/02/2023 07:54

Ladies, can I ask your opinion on this frer? Took it this morning at in think 10dpo... am I looking at an evap?

TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙
SMG1992 · 25/02/2023 08:06

@Chellooo that looks like a line to me!! I wish they made them more obvious!
I think you should test again in a couple of days if you can to compare? X

TheBirdintheCave · 25/02/2023 08:22

@Chellooo Omg that looks positive to me! 😬😬

bringmearainbow · 25/02/2023 08:56

@Chellooo I would say that's a positive too 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Chellooo · 25/02/2023 09:01

Oh flip fingers crossed...I'll maybe test again tomorrow/Monday? God my nerves are wrecked 🤦‍♀️

Daniki · 25/02/2023 10:58

@Chellooo i would also say positive! 🤗 test again tomorrow but sure I know if it was me I’d be testing morning noon and night 😂

ladies has anyone’s periods changed since their mc? Iv had my third one since my last Mc, it started last Thursday and I thought I was finished yesterday and last night it turned heavy again. Kinda freaking me out somethings wrong 😵‍💫 similar happened last cycle also

bringmearainbow · 25/02/2023 11:55

@Daniki mine have been odd I think it's quite normal from what others have said

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