TTC After Miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@Daniki yes, it definitely affects them. Mine have been much heavier since mc 3 months ago and this month it was 3 days early. I'm doing fertility drugs and the doctor said that's normal, not to worry! It is definitely annoying though!

@Chellooo looking hopeful 🥳🙌

@Daniki yes normal for your cycle to be a bit out of whack post miscarriage. Mine has been.

Hi. I have an 18mo daughter and on my second month of TTC number 2. First took us 12 months to conceive and we amazingly got a positive a after our first month of trying for number 2 but that sadly ended in a miscarriage. I don’t know if I feel up to trying this month. Guess I’ll wait and see how I feel once I start getting positive OPKs.

I'm so upset. Got my period on time on tuesday at 10dpo. Usual 4 day bleed. The day it ended I was feeling odd so I took a pregnancy test frer, couldn't believe that it came back positive, not as strong as the control line but very clear. This morning took a digital and it said pregnant 1-2 weeks. I'm obviously having a chemical aren't I? So upset. The poas are quite light.

@Ella31 Not necessarily! I'd keep testing if I were you and hopefully the tests will get darker.

They seemed darker this evening but surely that was my period. It was its usual heavy self.

Thanks ladies, I'm actually on day 10 now of AF with light spotting really now. Will book an app with GP next week anyway as overdue my smear and rather clear anything up before getting pregnant (🤞🏻) again 🙈

Ladies....I tested again...11dpo today after getting that bfn at 8dpo...I can't believe it! I'm keeping everything crossed this little one sticks around

@Chellooo no mistaking those ones 🥳 brilliant news. Hopefully this is the start of many more bfp to come in this thread

@Chellooo Wahoo! Congratulations :D

Thanks ladies! I've been sobbing all afternoon, am a nervous wreck xxx

How many cycles post MC is this? :)

Oh flip, I'd a mmc last May and completely stepped back from trying as I wasn't ready and life kinda got in the way...this was our 1st month of properly planning/trying so I know how incredibly lucky we are to have fallen this time.
It's such mixed emotions as I have the absolute fear because of last time, but am trying to stay positive if that makes sense? It's so scary 😨

Congratulations @Chellooo !! I hope you find a way to control nerves and enjoy! They are great lines at 11 days too! X

Congrats @Chellooo! Hope the nerves aren't too bad, but no reason it won't stick so absolutely just stay positive! Statistically it's supposed to be unlikely to suffer a second Mc in a row x

So who will be pregnancy testing next week..? As no idea if/when I ovulated I don't know when to start. Maybe tomorrow. Expecting AF Thurs onwards if same short cycle as last time. Topped up my test stocks this weekend 😂

@tulipsunday I also have no idea when/if I ovulated. I had OPK rises last weekend (with EWCM) and this weekend (with no EWCM) so who knows 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Chellooo ahhh congrats those are lovely lines 😍

@tulipsunday I don't think I'll be testing at all this cycle 😩 hubbys away and I still don't have a peak. I really needed it to happen tonight as Tuesday will be day 5. Love that test restock 🙊what kind did you get?

@Chellooo congratulations xx

9dpo and have had two dreams this tww I’m pregnant, not sure why my mind wants to torture me 😩. Tempted to test today, but also don’t want to see that negative test…

@bringmearainbow I got some FRERs and a few cheaper ones. Neg FRER this morning so not feeling too hopeful 🥲

@Bubblesandballoons I know that feeling I am bad for symptom spotting and getting my hopes up.

Will keep everything crossed for you both 🤞

Morning all! I'm a bit fed up with TTC at the moment. I have to do fertility drugs to induce ovulation and they make me feel crap for 3/4 of the month. This is cycle 2 after a mmc last November. I think I might take a break for a while after this one!

@TrulyMiss Aww I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
I totally understand feeling rubbish for parts of the month. I seem to have 2 weeks off and 2 weeks on (I only feel abit better when I'm hoping for a BFP).
Maybe speak to your GP about the fertility drugs and the side effects they are having? I have no idea, but they may be able to offer an alternative that will have you feeling better through the month? x

Thanks @SMG1992! Unfortunately there isn't an alternative - the way the drugs work is by making all the normal hormone fluctuations more extreme so I'm just wrecked and hormonal most of the time... I'm trying to just get on with it but sometimes it's hard.

@TrulyMiss sorry you are feeling like this 💛
@tulipsunday I’ve given up trying to work out what pms and what’s pregnancy as had varying symptoms with each pregnancy. When are you testing again?

Finally have my blood form 🎉🎉 only took them 6 weeks to send it 🙄, booked in to get them done on Monday. So happy things are finally moving forward again. Just hoping they don’t take another 6 weeks to give me the result 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Hi all, just done an ovulation test but can't decide if it's negative or positive! I've had the discharge that I usually get around ovulation! Xx