TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@MrsC2018 glad you are feeling slightly better. Its definitely shocking. It could have been a chemical I’ve had four already, but normally I get positives for a few days, then period is a few days late. Started spotting today so that’s af on its way on time. Sorry you are having to wait for the results. Hopefully it won’t be too long a wait for you.
@HopefulP glad its easing for you xx

@Shannonmcc
What app are your screenshots from ?
My bleeding is a lot this this late afternoon, cramping has died down aswell
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Well I’m 6dpo and AF is on her way, horrible cramps and red bleeding, it’s not IB as it’s too much. This is my 2nd cycle after MC so I’m probably just still having wonky cycles, onto the next one I suppose and hopefully my next cycle is more normal.
good luck to everyone testing this week and onwards and upwards to the rest of us for a new year BFP

I had my follow up appointment my GP yesterday and because the thyroxine hasn’t done anything yet she has upped my dose to 75mg so I’m happy with that :) I am CD19 and am starting to see a hint of ewcm, but I normally get it for like a week before my opks start to show anything!

I’m really obsessing far too much.
since my last post the bleeding has stopped and cramps died down.
My cervix is so high up I can’t reach it, even though I can reach when it’s high during O. I know not to ready anything into that. But obviously I am.
I had IB with the MC and I mistook it for AF as it lasted a week.
so now I’m questioning, what’s more likely,
IB at 6dpo
a 6/7 day luteal phase after MC
or, low progesterone after MC causing random spotting.

It could be any of them so here I am stuck in limbo… again

if it is indeed AF I wish she’d hurry up and start properly so my cycle can reset. And until AF arrives in full force I’m clinging on to a tiny bit of hope, but not too hopeful as I have no confidence this cycle has been a success.

sorry I just needed to get all that off my chest, I

@HopefulP I am using the premom app this is my first cycle using it from the MC as iv heard alot of good reports about it and so far it is very accurate x

@MrsC2018 🤞ah I hope so but I will know soon enough xx

Well that red bleed has now turned brown… 🤔
it’s only been about 7 hours since I had that and it feels like 7million years.
Am I the only one torturing myself like this?
praying it’s stopped and it was IB as all cramping has gone too

@Mannymoomin i feel for you lovely. I was in a similar position last month with the potential implantation bleeding happening at 7DPO. I don’t know how the hours can take so long. It’s another layer of a tease! Hoping it is IB for you xx

Hi everyone, haven't been talking on here for a while but tried to do a bit catch up reading...hope everyone is as well as can be, its not easy.

I have a question for ladies who have tempted regularly. Did your temp go up, and stayed a bit high for the cycle you got pregnant after ovulation day?

I have done a few DTD cycles and tested early on most, trying to hold out on this one. I notice a small change in temp but no other symptoms at all.
I know the moment of truth is not far away 😂😂 but just I don't really want to be disappointed yet.... It's an interesting mental place. 🤣

@Aprilsunnyday I am wondering the same in regards to the temping I only started temping this cycle and they were below 36.4 before ovulation and I'm now 2dpo and each morning it's going up that little bit extra this morning bbt was 36.47 maybe that's not a big enough increase to Indicate anything just yet but it's increased since 1dpo BBT as it was 36.42. I read a post online that if it stays increased for 18 days or more that can be an indication of early pregnancy so here's hoping it doesn't decrease 🤞 I have also felt slight cramping in the lower abdomen and constant backaches since so I'm praying it's a good sign this is my first ttc cycle as I thought I was done after my 3rd baby but then along came my angel baby so now hoping and praying for my rainbow baby so I'm hoping I get the hang of all this BBT and ovulation tracking

@Babydustmamma it really is a tease!
No more bleeding, no brown leftovers even. Checked my cervix and it’s so high up I can’t reach it 🤷‍♀️
I may get the tests out tomorrow.. at a whole 8dpo

@Mannymoomin eaaak fingers crossed for you! Sounds promising but so hard getting your hopes up. I’ve not had any symptoms this month and (TMI my CM is different from the last 2/3 months too). At this point I think I’ve had every type of luteal phase CM 😅😂

ill be 8DPO on Saturday, but I’ve got a Christmas party in the eve so I think I’ll have to test just incase! Even though I’m not too hopeful this month 😅

@Shannonmcc
Thanks for the sharing!! Wow that's good!! I hope it keeps going up for you!!
My digital body thermometer shows only to one digit after decimal point so there is no way to know that accurate...
Maybe it's just me that my normal temp is actually around 35.7-35.9 (which is very low I know) and these couple of days have been 36.1 on average thus it gets me wonder.

Or maybe people have higher temp in winter? Hmm
I do and do not want to read into this actually. (very contrafictive I know)

I will try not to test yet, it would feel similar to pervious months if I cannot hold on from doing it.

@MrsC2018 wish you power to recover from feeling sick!!

Hi everyone - I'm back after a loooonnngggg break. I was previous here when I was TTC with my ex, which took 3 years and ended in a missed miscarriage at just under 12 weeks.

I'm now with a new partner, and he really wants kids but the trauma of my previous experience has made it really difficult for me to move forward with the process of TTC (and I've developed a fear of pregnancy and birth too). I really want a family but I'm terrified, so coming back here to hopefully get some support and remember I'm not alone in being scared xx

@Moosey82 sorry to hear of your loss ♥️ welcome xxx

Sorry if this is TMI but does anyone else struggle with being sure they’ve located their cervix? 😂 I know it’s not necessarily a reliable way to see if you’re pregnant before testing etc but I actually am just never 100% sure that I’m feeling the right thing. Dunno if it’s just me 😅♥️ any tips greatly appreciated xxx

@Babydustmamma same here. I gave up in the end as I had no idea what I was feeling. Couldn't find anything useful online. One less thing to obsess over, at least!

@lizziecat1 its true!!! I get obsessed and I’m questioning like ‘does this feel like unripened fruit…?!’ And then I’m not even sure if that’s the right bit 😂

wish there had been some sort of info at school haha

@Babydustmamma it took me months of daily prodding and poking to finally get used to mine.
But after birthing 3 children already, I don’t think mine is the textbook example of a cervix. Mine is sort of titled back and that donut shaped hole, mine is more like a slit.
and mine can also change position from one hour to the next. I remember feeling it just at the end of my last AF and remember realising I’d never felt it so low before, it only took me half a finger to “hit” it if were really going to go into tmi 😂

I still can’t tell the difference between soft and hard though, I have been known to be feeling my cervix with one hand and my nose and lips with the other to compare. I’m still none the wiser with feel

@Babydustmamma i only felt mine properly this cycle when I was wondering if I’d ovulated. I think it’s because it was quite low and hard, otherwise I never know what I’m feeling 🤣

@Mannymoomin ahahahaha I’ve done the exact same one hand in the cervix and one hand on the nose saga too 😂 it’s all so hard because the deep level of denial I have in the tww wait that I might be pregnant I’m like oh sure that’s like lips not a nose haha

@ChloeN so true isn’t it! I’ve been trying to feel for like three months but I actually am not sure if the bit that I’m on is it 😅😂 I’m sure it is because I can’t necessarily go up past it… but the opening?!

@Mannymoomin never tmi for me haha

@Babydustmamma im sure it is if you can’t get any further! I don’t think I’d check regularly though I worried I was going to irritate it 🤣