TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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So ladies I need your help. I’ve waited till 11dpo to test (couldn’t wait any longer🙈) and saw nothing after a couple of minutes, so went downstairs to sort my ds out his breakfast. Went back to throw it away after half hour and there was an obvious line… being pessimistic I squeezed the tiniest amount of wee out and did another and got a very faint positive within the time frame. Still not trusting it I then waited four hours on limited drink and did another and completely negative… so now I’ve got myself in a mess. I know I need to wait and test tomorrow or day after or just wait for my period as due Thurs anyway but 😩😭 why did I do this to myself. Do easy at homes show bad false positives?? . Photos of this mornings tests, threw away the negative.

@Bubblesandballoons I've NEVER seen a false positive like that! And believe me I take these tests a lot

@Bubblesandballoons ive seen evaps on easy@home but never that dark or pink. Try again in the morning but it looks good to me

@Bubblesandballoons Im quietly optimistic that you are pregnant.
Thats way too dark to be an indent or false positive. 🤞 for you, the wait till tomorrow is going to seem forever!

Im now 5dpo, no more spotting since yesterday am. I’m hoping it was leftover ovulation blood but I thought it would’ve been brown as it would’ve been a few days old, but mine was pink and only on one wipe. 🤔
Im going to test on Saturday anyway 😂
good luck for everyone, I hope to see lots of bfp on this thread

@Bubblesandballoons that looks soo dark, I’ve never seen one that dark be false either! If it helps I did one the afternoon I first found out too and the line was hardly visible but by the next morning it was there and darker🤞🏻 I think it was just too early for the afternoon

@Bubblesandballoons thats definitely there and dark! Tentatively excited for you ♥️🎉

@MrsCristianoX feeling your pain! How can these days go so slowly?! Have you had any symptoms or are you trying your best not to check?♥️

@Babydustmamma symptoms are only obvious by the complete lack of them! Normally ovulation cramps..didn't happen. Normally boob pain constant at 1dpo (they just hurt when I take my bra off now) at this point I'm wondering if I even ovulated 😂

What about you? Symptom spotting is the devil but it's hard to ignore Xx

@MrsCristianoX thats weird! I had a complete lack of ovulation pain this month too, and the last few months it’s been so sore? Hopefully this is a good thing for us 🍀 ♥️

@MrsCristianoX @Luna57 @Mannymoomin @ChloeN @Babydustmamma thanks ladies. Can’t believe I managed to be relaxed the whole month then I become some crazy lunatic on the first day I test 🤣.
@MrsCristianoX and @Babydustmamma fingers crossed they are good signs for you 🤞🏻

@Bubblesandballoons well I’m just impressed that you managed to actually relax!!! Any tips? 😂😅

I'm not sure if anyone can see the faint line I hate trying to take pictures of these tests when are so faint but this is my evening wee and straight away the line appeared. I think I'm going to chance a digital in the morning and see what that says also try get bloods done in the morning if my gp will do so for me. Everything is telling me it's a new pregnancy but I think I'm just so scared to believe it incase I'm totally wrong

@Shannonmcc yep can definitely see that xx

@Bubblesandballoons 🤞I swear I'm the same I open the first test then become a mad woman 😂

@Shannonmcc there is definitely a line there. Fingers crossed it gets stronger and darker

@Shannonmcc I can definitely see a faint pink line!

@Shannonmcc there definitely looks like a faint line there.
@MrsCristianoX 😂 it’s crazy what it does to you isn’t it.
Well ladies I tested again this morning and not even a squinter 😭. Worst evap I have ever seen! Teach me for not waiting till my period.

@Bubblesandballoons no way?! I’m so sorry! What a bloody wind up :( ♥️

@Babydustmamma i know, crazy how obvious that line was. Luckily I quite fancy a September baby, so focusing on that. Finally had a letter to say my bloods and ultrasound were normal, still waiting on the sticky blood test results though. May try low dose aspirin next month got nothing to lose.

@Bubblesandballoons oh no so sorry to hear that 😞 Can’t believe how dark and obvious that line was! Still can’t understand how these lines can appear sometimes when negative and other times they are so stark white you can’t even try and imagine a shadow!

@Shannonmcc i can definitely see that line! Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

2 DPO for me and nipples have started feeling sore, only had this one other month this year (usually don’t get any boob pain) I know it’s far too early to be a pregnancy sign but holding onto some positivity that my body/hormones are working well this cycle 🙏🏻

Morning all,

Hope this is okay to post in this thread,

I recently had a miscarriage last night at 5+6.
we're absolutely devastated, even though it's only such as short period of time you still have all the excitement and talk with your husband.

Now that I've slept on it I have so many questions, if anyone can help me out that would be amazing.

• when can we try for a baby again ?
-is my miscarriage classed as a period should I track this ?
-I've passed blood clots and went through full box of pads and the cramps and heartache, when should this flow ease ?

Thanks all 💛
X

@emhope fingers crossed it’s a positive sign for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻.
@mum2b29 sorry for your loss 💛. In answer to your questions, I have tried immediately every time. Unless you have been told not to, then if you feel you want to then there is no need to wait. You class the first day of the miscarriage as your period. Sometimes it throws off the next cycle a bit, ovulation can be delayed, so don’t worry if the next cycle is a bit out of sync. I can’t help with the heavy bleeding as I just had my normal flow but for longer. Hopefully someone else can give you some idea. If you think of anything else feel free to ask x

@Bubblesandballoons
Thanks for your reply,
Okay I will track it from yesterday that's good to start tracking things again.
Thanks, it's not as heavy now as it was late last night earlier this morning, so hopefully I'm over the worse of it and just starts to feel like normal period discomfort.
Thanks again much appreciated 💛
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@HopefulP .. I am so sorry for your loss, at the beginning of my loss I bled so heavily for a few hours and then it stopped for 4 days then a very bad bleed again where as my sanitary towels weren't enough. Mine started and stopped on and off for a bout 6 days and then that was it. I am 4 weeks post MC tomorrow and this cycle has been a bit longer I am now 1dpo and cd28 and me and my partner started trying again as soon as my bleeding stopped completely.x

@Mannymoomin @emhope .. bit of a punch in the gut this morning to fing a BFN although I think I might just be starting my TWW according to my premom app my ovulation was yesterday and a big dip in my OPK today so that's hopeful iv finally ovulated I'm not good at these charts but maybe someone here can shed me some light and tell me it looks hopeful lol x

Just trying to catch up, we've all been so ill with a cough/cold bug, I still might die but at least I can look at my phone screen today!
@mum2b29 so sorry for your loss 🤍 I've also always tried straight away, counted the miscarriage as a period and tracked from there. I've bled for 2-3 weeks and heavily, and ovulated a few days after the bleeding stopped. Period 5-6 weeks after the miscarriage. Mine were 16 week losses though, think HGC starts to drop after 12 weeks so how high your level is will depend on how long it takes to drop and then ovulate.
@Shannonmcc sorry for the negative there, but does look like you've now ovulated - fingers crossed
@Bubblesandballoons those tests were shocking! I got a positive for a few days on a frer a couple of days the other week before my period started and counted it as a CP (not that it makes any difference I guess!) but wonder if tests are just bad for false positives these days. Perhaps especially after a miscarriage when there's hcg floating around.
@emhope fingers crossed. My first sign is always bone weary tiredness hitting me about 4pm and a blocked nose at night - I always think it's covid though 😂

@Babydustmamma @MrsCristianoX 2 of the months I've caught pregnant I've not even believed I'd ovulated so deffo not a bad sign for me either!

Had a call from the specialist nurse at the EPU the other day to say that the cord result is back and she's going to book the debrief with my consultant. She wouldn't give the result to me over the phone as she said she's not trained, but last time (it was a bereavement midwife though, perhaps trained?) she gave me the result over the phone that they didn't find anything. I think they've found something this time, I can't stop wondering now. Not heard a thing since, so no idea when the debrief will be but presume after Christmas. Why do they do this to you? I guess I kind of hope they have found a reason, it's hard not knowing why. Perhaps as hard as it would be knowing why