TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

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@Rosegold3112 it’s so amazing that they have that service! I wish my hospital did. I’m hoping that with my history, I might get a couple of extra scans scheduled rather than just 12 and 20 weeks

@LuckyMoonstone ahh that makes sense, I don’t know why I didn’t think of that 🤦‍♀️
I haven’t tested anymore as it’s so anxiety inducing, I’m just going to assume without bleeding with pain then everything is fine and hope for the best.
fingers crossed for Monday, hopefully there’s some lovely growth, although you may just get hit with sudden morning sickness on Sunday.

@Rosegold3112 the rainbow clinic sounds absolutely wonderful, I have nothing like that but what a great idea and certainly helps with reassurance and lessening anxiety. 🤞 for your bfp soon and then you can move in there.

@bringmearainbow i know what you mean, MN has been my saviour, possibly DH too as it means I’m going on at him much less 😂

@Rosegold3112 are you from NI? I'm pretty sure my DHs friends wife went to something like that. Unfortunately he is vague on details. Men🙄

@ChickenT2b I'm TTC with endometriosis - was diagnosed in 2018, and have been TTC since June 2022 (MC at the end of September). I know it can feel like another layer of worry at times, so hope you are doing okay processing this new info ❤️

Congratulations to all the new bfp’s!!!

so sorry to hear about another cp @MrsJGrealish. Do you think it’s been a bad egg or progesterone problem? Or just bad luck? Fingers tightly crossed for next cycle!

@Mannymoomin i just go by lmp but I’m aware I’m maybe a couple days out. With ds I didn’t o til quite late in the cycle cos I’d just come off the pill so I just made them aware of long cycles. I ended up going for a dating scan at 15 weeks because it was so out.

im around 7+2 today with lmp. Sickness has eased dramatically with the anti sickness tablets 🙌🏼 I’ve my reassurance scan on Friday and the anxiety is starting to set in. Gearing up to hear bad news.

hope everyone is ok!

@CaliGirl47 thank you! ❤️🥰🌈
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How is everyone getting on?

9dpo should I be seeing faint lines at this stage? BfN's today 😒

@Ella31 no that’s still super early! Was it an early detection test or a standard one?

Hello! Just found this thread and hoping I can join.

I had a miscarriage over Christmas at 7 weeks and passed the pregnancy naturally, ending up with almost 3 weeks of bleeding. This was after 5 months of trying and we already have a DD.

We decided to start TTC straight away before I get my first period but think we may have missed my chance but grateful for any insight/experience!

So I started miscarrying on 24th December, passed the sac on 31st, then continued to bleed until 11th January. I didn’t start tracking temps or OPKs until the 13th and think I’ve either missed ovulation or it’s still not arrived.. the only thing now making me think I’ve missed it is because my temps are higher than my pre-ovulation temps before this miscarriage. I’ve only been getting blank smileys on the Clearblue ovulation tests.
We did DTD on (I think) the 12th and 13th (or 13th and 14th - I didn’t track this) but nothing since because I kept getting blank OPKs and honestly not had the energy.

Anyway enough of my ramble! Do you think it’s possible I could have ovulated before the 13th even though I only finished bleeding/spitting on the 11th!? Or is it common for temps to be on the higher side after MC? Kinda now wish we’d not bothered trying until after my first period because I have no idea what I’m doing!!

I’ve had some bright red bleeding with tiny clots today, I’m only 5 weeks so probably too early for epu and I doubt they’d be able to do anything anyway. Gutted 😞

I'm so sorry, hope you are ok.

Early detection. Period about 6 days away. I'm cramping already though 😒

@Mannymoomin oh shit 😕 I’m sorry hun.

@Mannymoomin sorry your having bleeding 😔. Has it settled down?

@Bubblesandballoons it slowed down last night but woke up to more bleeding and clots this morning. I haven’t had any pain but i doubt anything survived the onslaught. I’ll test again in a week to make sure but it looks like this was a CP

@Mannymoomin ah I’m so sorry. Ttc can be so cruel. Hope your partner is looking after you 💛.

@Mannymoomin ahhh lovely that's crappy I'm so sorry. Hopefully it's nothing 🤞🏼 xxx

@Mannymoomin sorry to hear that lovely 😔

@bringmearainbow how have you been? Are you off dreading AF now and ready to go again? X

@ChloeN oh I've had a right ol plot twist 🙈 so at went on and on then it stopped after 7 days and I was getting horrible cramping but just in the evening then last night a great big lump fell out of me. I posted it on a separate thread on the MC board as didn't want to put a pic on threads without a TW. I'm hoping that's the absolute last of it all now and we can get on with trying again. EPU asked me to do a PT this morning which is stark stark white so I think those faint lines I was having just before AF were left over hcg. I started opks on CD8 currently CD13 I'm getting flashing smileys but strips are negative tbh I don't know if that bit of tissue has thrown everything off but we will see. How you feeling lovely? Xxx

@bringmearainbow omg I’ve just found the thread😲 that’s crazy it looks so big as well, and taken soo long to come out! Definitely a good sign to get on with trying again, it must of been months by now? 😢 not too bad, I’ve made it past 12 weeks which I actually can’t believe, I’m starting to get excited now I’d tried to forget about it as much as possible xx

Hey! Can I join please?

I am currently in the TWW of my 5th transfer from IVF. I have had three early losses and one BFN, which was attributed to poor quality. I have been on Metformin since the beginning of 2022 and had a slightly high TSH address with Levothyroxine since the same amount of time. My background is PCOS.

I’m currently 5DP5DT and going crazy 😝

I'm 10dpo and not a hint of a line on any test ladies. I'm guessing it's game over for me 😒

Can you get bloods done @Mannymoomin to ease your mind or is it too early ❤️

@Ella31 I didn’t go for bloods at drs in the first place so I’d need two done to tell, which would probably take me to next Friday. I think I’ll know by then anyway, I think I know in my gut now actually, the size of the clots and the way they’re just falling out.
DH is being very good, although he’s upset he wants to start ttc again straight away, but I can’t help but feel the universe is trying to tell me something