Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

@bunnykins123 Great news :)

@bunnykins123 that's great news! Also reassuring about AMH, I'm sure the last time mine got tested a year ago it was at 0.36, but I'm still giving out eggs! Nice to know it's not the be all and end all xx

@FfayeN I remember you saying - you remain my hope in this journey! I have a friend who is also now 25 weeks with an AMH of 0.3 so it shows it's not highly important. Saying that I'm a wee bit older than you both so I'm battling a good dodgy eggs in there too 😂

@TheBirdintheCave @mummatara thanks gals!

@bunnykins123 that's fab news 💕 did you ever get the mri? I might have missed you saying, sorry xx

@MrsCristianoX thanks lovely! I didn't 😶 I was too scared, something about those big mri machines freak me out big time. I had a scan today and all was normal so I think unless something had been picked up today, I will probably leave it.

@bunnykins123 the noise they make is pretty intense 🙈 no I think the procedure today should be enough to check everything properly, Xx

@MrsCristianoX I agree! It gave me all kinds of fear just thinking about it. If I had loads of symptoms then I would but I really don't have much (ovulation pain which I think is mainly normal). How are you doing? Xx

@bunnykins123 just mega period ache last night. All good today. Not much happening ttc wise..hopefully the last missed cycle..raging about the Q10 thing though!! I think I'll keep using it, at one point it was recommended for use with my current meds xx

@bunnykins123 glad it all went okay. And fingers crossed for some post luck. You never know!

Just incase no one see in the original thread

had my scan sac is still there so will now have to go for surgery 🙄 I'm frustrated as we're 4 weeks on and could have had surgery from the get go but there is no way to have known that and it was worth a shot at natural management

Just been for my gynaecology update from the generic testing as a result of my last MC, luckily everything is normal. She did offer me a scan but I refused 🙈. I think she thought I was crazy. Scan booked for 9w2d when I'm back from training away. I'm already dreading it and feel anxious 😩 xx

@FfayeN big hugs glad all is ok ❤️ I bet she doesn't hear no very often you probably shocked her! At least going away will help take your mind off it🤞🏼 hopefully. When do you go?

@mummatara yeah she did say it's not very common but she's learnt that nothing surprises her anymore 🤣. I think it was for her curiosity as much as mine lol.
I go on Sunday, to be honest I'm looking forward to getting away I just hope nothing happens whilst I am 🙈 xx

@FfayeN ahh bless you hun. You did well to say no! Fingers crossed being away keeps your mind off things.

@mummatara ahh I did read hun. Thought I’d reply in here though. Sorry it’s still ongoing. I was same. Waited 4 weeks and then ended up with surgery anyway. 😩 it feels like such an ordeal. Hugs.
but it was quick. In and out. An I was so glad was it was done. I was very crampy that night and next day. Worse is been overall tbh. But nothing painkillers and hot water bottle didn’t fix.
man I stopped bleeding after a week. An got a negative test and ovulated like a week later! 🙈

it will all be okay. Hope Wednesday comes fast and there is a sense of relief once you know it is done.

@Indianna2006 thank you. How are you doing lovely? When is your next scan? Xx

@FfayeN yes I’m all okay. Starting to pop out now 🙈
my 20 week scan is very early December. Think we are waiting and finding out sex then.
midwife 16 week appointment is next Monday. So hope I get to listen heartbeat to reassure me a bit. But I know they don’t always do it. So if I hear it. I deff won’t have another scan but otherwise who knows 🙈

@Indianna2006 oh wow the weeks seem like they're flying past, I know for you they probably aren't 🙈. Aaaw yeah that would be lovely! xx

@FfayeN I think it’s going a little faster now. The first bit to dating scan is OH SO SLOW. Think time goes backwards there.

I’ve been busy off half-time with my DD and got a busy few weeks for my birthday so time is passing faster than it was. Especially now I feel much better. Time does drag when you feel crap.

I had a 'dry run' with the Ferti-lily last night. It's kinda difficult to get in but I think I got it right in the end 😂

I think I'll end up ovulating late due to Covid. Did the virus mess with anyone else's cycle?

Toddler and I are still testing positive so that's our anniversary day out on Thursday scuppered too :( I just wanted a nice day with my husband as it was also our due date :(

@Indianna2006 oh wow 16 weeks already! Eek..I feel like time is slowing down for me 😩. When I had my 16 week appt the first thing I said was I'm nervous about u trying to find the heartbeat and she said she'd do it straightaway so I wasn't sitting there all anxious. Found it really easy and I have an anterior placenta as well. It'll be fine I'm sure 😘 xx

@TheBirdintheCave Ive started putting data into my iPhone this past year so so I checked and the month I had covid (July) was CD1 and I ovulated at my normal time x

I have zero chill. It's embarrassing. I actually had a longer bleed but still ovulated at the same time. Suppose it depends on where you are in cycle when you test covid positive, who knows🤷‍♀️ but that's my experience x

@TheBirdintheCave you've reminded me I need to get practicing with mine too. I find it really painful and hard to get in. I just can't seem to find the knack of it to do it easily! I also O same date when I had covid. I actually fell pregnant that cycle too 🤷‍♀️

@FfayeN oh bless you, I think I will be the same. I cried at my 16 week appointment telling the midwife not to check for the heartbeat - she found it straight away and it was so reassuring once I'd heard it!

@Indianna2006 I can't believe you're almost 20 weeks! That's gone so quickly!! 💕

@bunnykins123 oh I can only hope and pray I make it that far!
The fertilily shouldn't really be any different to trying to insert a tampon, however it just needs to go up a bit more. It's easier after DTD obviously as it's erm...more slippery and relaxed 🤣 xx

@FfayeN 🫣 without sounding totally dramatic, it doesn't feel like inserting a tampon 😂 I wonder if I'm doing it wrong! I really want to give it a go this time but I worry that all the fiddling around with it will dislodge the spermies that actually did successfully make it up there!