Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

Sorry it’s late I’m only just catching up now. I’m so sorry to hear your news @FfayeN, that is really devastating 💔
Sending virtual hugs, it really is so shit. Life’s a total bitch sometimes.

@mummatara ahh I bet! Good luck, thinking of u xx

@mummatara Toddlers are so strange sometimes. Ours was lying in the bed before then suddenly started singing 'A moo moo there... a cow... e i e i o.' 😂

@mummatara Or wait, is your DS older? I can't remember 😂

@TheBirdintheCave 😂 no he's not he's 2 in Feb we've got a lot of toddlering to go still 🙊 they are hilarious sometimes. He actually has started coming out with the funniest things recently

@calimc83 thanks lovely xx

@TheBirdintheCave mine asked me today if pizza was made in a cement mixer 😆🤔 x

@calimc83 🤣 love it that's so random

Ok so I really really don't know what to think the result is hcg 90. It was 114 13 days ago

@mummatara well on the one hand it's going down but on the other, it still poses questions about whether it's residual or a new pregnancy. Did they say anything on the phone?

@bunnykins123 nope just to come back on Thursday for another 😭 why are there no quick answers frustrated. I think if it was a lot lower than that I would be thinking it's just residual but because it's so close there's every chance it dropped and is now coming back up as a new pregnancy or it could just be dropping that last 100 sooooo slowly 🙄

@mummatara mine dropped so slowly. BUT looking at your tests, you have some proper squinters in there. It really does make me wonder if this is a new pregnancy? Do you have pictures of the tests from last week?

@mummatara sooo random! Oh what...that result hasn't told u anything really..how frustrating xx

@bunnykins123 all I can find pictures of is 9th when I tested the hcg at 114, 10th and 14th. The negative was on 18th

@mummatara oh you knew it would be a number to still leave you in limbo! Looking at the tests it would be very odd if this was a new pregnancy. Are you able to go early on Thursday? I hope tomorrow goes quick for you xxx

@mummatara ugh typical. Your test on the 14th is quite clearly fainter than the one on 9th when your hcg was 114. But obv no idea what hcg could have been on 14th. But it was going down. Cos the tests were fading.

is your tests now darker than 14th if you compare. Or the same?

Right when I was going through my mmc I put my tests close up pics on a collage thing close together so it was easier to compare and see the difference. An I found it WAY easier.

let me take pics of your tests and add the dates of yours so it’s easier to compare..

I’ll do the 3 you’ve added above with the dates. Your faintest one. And then the one from today.

Okay…so I’ve added 9th, 10th, 14th and then perhaps one from 19th. As 18th most faintest one looked a bit blurry to compare well. And then 22nd. Your most recent test today.

It was deff going down. And now appears between the top and second one again in terms of colour and boldness of line..

To me… your test today on 22nd is bolder than test on 10th which was 12 days ago. But not bolder than 9th. Which would correlate as your hcg is 90 not 114…

I think it’s perhaps new pregnancy?!! Cos why would it go back up when it was clearly going down for 10 days…

@mummatara I do agree with @Indianna2006 in that they look darker. Did you take them all at the same time of the day and with fmu? Honestly I haven't a clue what's going on!

@FfayeN I knew it would be 🙄 no they want me to go roughly the same time so it will be another late one unfortunately. Oh you know it won't 😂 but I do have lots of work to do so suppose that will keep me busy xxx

@Indianna2006 no I stupidly threw away all the previous tests when I got that negative so can't compare 🤦🏼‍♀️ why didn't I think to
do that I have that app 😂 much clearer to see that they do look darker. @bunnykins123 they were all FMU I purposely did it that way so it would be a good comparison 😂

I do have a few things floating round my brain. The negative IC could have been a dodgy test they are cheap after all 😂 but as we can clearly see they were lighter then darker again so I think it's ok to discount that one and still see a picture.
I still haven't had a temp rise at all
Would I really ovulate with that much hcg I had o pains on 13th but they can come after so it would have happened 11/12/13 I'm guessing

@mummatara if you ovulated around 13th. Your test was beginning to look quite faint by that point. I deff ovulated with a test about that faintness too. Mine showed a temp shift obv. But can be possible. Your hcg wasn’t 114 on 13th cos it was coming down. Think the tests do clearly show that.

hmm more waiting for Thursday to compare. Another IC in morning perhaps? Or Thursday morning? See if it’s darker still.

WHY are bodies so weird. Also love how invested I am 🤣🤣 me with my photo apps hahah

@mummatara you can totally ovulate with HCG in your system so I wouldn't discount it for that reason. The lack of temp rise - I mean, that could be for so many reasons. I'm convinced temping isn't very accurate anyway! I'm about 55% residual (on the basis that mine jumped about in the same way) but 45% new pregnancy. Why can't our bodies just be normal?! Did you retest today?

Another chemical for me. Woke up to a bloodbath this morning. Pure fed up now, am going for bloods tomorrow 😕I want to say December is my last month trying.

@MrsCristianoX I'm really sorry :( Look after yourself today.