Tactical seduction and POAS addicts

[FfayeN]

Hi ladies. I have started to feel a little overwhelmed with our usual thread and we are at different stages of our journeys now. Please feel free to leave this one if you don't feel the same but I feel so invested in your journeys and don't want to miss any news. Hoping this is ok, I don't think you can do DM as a group?
Hope you are all doing well and if there's anyone I've missed from the usual bunch feel free to add 😘😘😘

@MrsCristianoX @TheBirdintheCave @Indianna2006 @theblueflowers @bunnykins123 @LuckyMoonstone @mummatara

@mummatara I agree do think the bottoms one are a tad darker. Even think the frer is by a smidge. 🤔🤔

@mummatara I also think it looks darker.

@Indianna2006 @TheBirdintheCave lol now I see them on screen I think they do 😂 when I was quickly looking this morning I was like nope the same. Too busy rushing round after DS to analyse. EPU have asked me to go in for blood tests so I suppose I'll find out either way by Thursday 🫣

@mummatara there quite strong frer lines aren’t they.
when I got pregnant after my mmc straight away an had that chemical. They got no where near that dark. An my period was delayed by like 3/4 days. I’d imagine that a fair bit of hcg. As yours was like just over 100 hcg a week or more ago, I’d of thought it should be much lower by now.

oh well at least for bloods Thursday. Like you say if it’s back higher can. There’s the answer.

@FfayeN grrr how annoying. Just keep ringing and ringing!

@mummatara they really do look darker...what a limbo!

@FfayeN I've been thinking about you so much (kind of weird when you are 'just' a username, but hope you know what I mean!) Hope you get through soon!

@mummatara just for balance, after my mmc, it took yonks for my HCG to go down. Nothing was wrong just took absolutely ages. Here are my tests where HCG was around the 50 mark (2 months after ERPC). They jumped around a bit too. That being said, I do think your test looks a tad darker so I defo think you should follow up with EPU!

@mummatara lol that was a picture I sent my mum - you can see I circled the top one as my tests got darker! So this pick is really quite topical 😂

@Indianna2006 yes my hcg was 114miu 13 days ago. I just had a look back at my 14dpo test from last pregnancy and these are darker than that but it's all relative you never know what hcg I was at 14dpo. I suppose my hcg might have only dropped a little in the last 13 days but then that doesn't explain the faint IC's last week and the Neg on Friday 🤷🏼‍♀️

@bunnykins123 lol I was just trolling the internet for hcg level test comparisons 😂 that's interesting how they are all roughly the same hcg and varying lines. EPU have got me in for bloods today and Thurs though I'm going to have to go in rush hour now because my co director at work was just so rude to me about the whole thing. You would never have guessed we are meant to be equal 🙄

@theblueflowers lol pregnancy limbo feels like story of my life atm 😂

@theblueflowers aw thank you, we are all attached now there is no getting away 😊.
@mummatara glad you have some answers inbound, and if it's a new pregnancy a very sticky one at that!

I'm just about to book a consultation with CRP xx

Well I'm still waiting to bleed..hopefully soon 🤷‍♀️ thick white CM earlier.

@MrsCristianoX oooh really when was you due to start? Have you tested since your faint line?

@mummatara you know when you know you've started..that was me yesterday morning with the ache. But nothing. I did the FRER anyway and got a super super faint line. Due today. Im thinking chemical. ? I'll test again Thursday if nothing. It's just weird for me. I do feel a lot better tbh

@mummatara and even more weird for before AF my sex drive is super high 😅 (sorry tmi) DH is like who are you 😂😂

@MrsCristianoX all these odd things are only pointing to one thing lovely!!! I hope AF doesn't turn up and you get your BFP x

@FfayeN phantom symptoms no doubt 😆🙄

@MrsCristianoX agree with @FfayeN - my cm dries up pretty much before AF 🤞 could you have O'd later?

@FfayeN totally understandable that you had a melt down. Keep me updated regarding Dr S clinic - I'm interested to know how it goes. How have you been feeling today?

@mummatara that's good that you'll get answers asap. Oh tell me about it! I had blood tests every week for a month and 1 week they even went up by a couple of points. Obvs panic mode (I knew I wasn't pregnant) but was freaking about so many scenarios. Nothing was wrong, just really slow HCG. Boo.

@MrsCristianoX oh no how odd I'm really really hoping that's no chemical for you ❤️ nothing is ever tmi in this group 😂

@FfayeN how are u feeling today lovely? @MrsCristianoX Ohhhh could it be a BFP do u think?? My tests were pretty light in the v early days. Hcg takes 48-72hrs to double doesn't it? @mummatara glad u have managed to get some blood tests, hope u get some answers soon. What did EPU think it could be? X

@mummatara did they have any suspicions?

@calimc83 @bunnykins123 I am feeling ok. I've been fairly productive, doctor I saw was brilliant and she's putting the referral through and did the swabs I asked for just incase. Less helpful though is how common everyone feels the need to tell you whilst you're going through miscarriage, almost like it's par for the course. I don't find that approach helps at all....I WANT ANSWERS (in a neurotic crazy person voice 🤣).

@MrsCristianoX I have everything crossed for you xx

It would be an actual miracle 😂 ill update when the bleeding starts🙄 maybe DH is just irresistible to me in my desperate state @bunnykins123 I don't think I ovulated later but who on earth knows

@FfayeN hope you got through today ❤️ and the gynae was some help xx

@calimc83 they don't like to say anything really just tell you we have to wait to see what the second one is before they go forward with anything else they just say could be either

@FfayeN not really when I spoke to them on the phone she just said its possible it's a new pregnancy but also could just be lingering hcg. I told her about the tests but tbh I don't think they care what the tests say. I suppose they are just too busy to worry about what you've done at home 🤦🏼‍♀️ lol I'm with you in the common thing it's frustrating. Glad you got a nice doctor that did the bits you wanted ❤️

Didn't get the test done until 5 so need to ring about 9 and see if it's back that's basically bedtime 😂 hopefully they might answer the phone quicker though 🤔

@mummatara hopefully that figure will even give you an indication from the number you had from your last one! Xx

@FfayeN I have a feeling it's going to come back about 70 right in the middle of could be either way 😂 looking at pictures of other tests online with hcg about 100 I'm not sure the line looks dark enough for a 100ish level 🤔 I'm just trying to put DS to bed and he's fake snoring I'm trying so hard not to laugh 🤣🤣🤣

@FfayeN thinking of you constantly and hoping that your day today wasn't too bad ❤x

Gah the closer I get to calling the more nervous I feel 🙈