TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

[FfayeN]

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

@MrsCristianoX snap!!! 😂😂

@FfayeN hey yeah the last one is from a box off Amazon, the others are from a box I got from Superdrug. I never knew batches could show differently 😬 I have another 3 FRER’s left as I’m ashamed to say I’m paranoid about it. Thank you you’ve made me feel a bit better x

@bubble55 do what's right for you! I kept testing until I realised the test couldn't get any darker and was worrying myself as I thought it was getting lighter. Left it a few days longer still (until I was roughly 5 weeks) and did a CB digital for a bit of reassurance. Whatever keeps us sane 😘. Tentative congrats though, I hope it's a sticky one 🥰 xxx

@FfayeN I can't even..😂 I need a hobby🤣 I think my hormones have dropped awaiting AF. Don't feel as crazy anymore. DH still walking on eggshells though..he's all like when can we DTD but like said in a nicer way. I knew what he meant but I was shattered yesterday. Told him Thursday night 🙈

@bubble55 ❤️

@bubble55 i agree lovely! They’re all really strong lines for that early on. Even though it’s torture, maybe try testing every other day instead? Sending luck and love x

@Aprilsunnyday well I bought it on a whim and found that if you sleep with your hand under the pillow or duvet… the temp is affected… which blows my mind as it’s to be worn at night, while you sleep 🫠😶 I think if you can reliably sleep with your arms out of the blanket ALL night then you’re golden but that’s just not be 😂

@ROZRAX I’m thinking I might do the same 😅 I can feel it spilling over and affecting everything, the not knowing. Even if I came away and they said you’re absolutely fine, it’s just down to chance atleast that would put my mind at rest a little ♥️

@MrsCristianoX at least he asks I guess 😂. There's nothing like booking in a sesh though 😆. I hate doing that as it's almost guaranteed I will feel absolutely no desire to do it at just that day and time 😂😂😂. Although AF could save you if she comes before then! I guess you're on 4 week countdown now? That'll fly by 🤞🏼 xx

@Babydustmamma 🤣🤣 no worries I'll sort them out for you once I've had some dinner the DS is refusing to sleep atm and I'm starving hopefully he drops off soon 🤞🏼😭

@ChloeN I wouldn't mind if it showed up tbh at least it would be a fresh start like you say but the cramps have gone so it was probably nothing 😂 MC bleed started 3.5 weeks ago so I'm thinking it probably isn't AF my cycle wouldn't usually be that short but stranger things have happened so you never know 🤷🏼‍♀️

@FfayeN 🙌🙌 hope my bloods are good or I'll have to bow out gracefully. God I know I can't be bothered but gotta keep him on side..I can't be pestering him then be like NO when he asks 😂

@FfayeN or pretend they are good and have one last shot for a December bfp 😂

Yep 6th month now of trying after first pregnancy and first miscarriage. I stupidly thought this month would be the one and getting my period has made me incredibly angry.

Genuinely convinced myself I'm infertile and keep telling my husband to get a younger model. Lol.

@Babydustmamma
@RaliaMusca
@theblueflowers
So glad someone asked the questions about cycles returning and first AF yesterday. I'm only 3 week post MC but so anxious about when first AF will be. I wasn't sure how the phrase the question on here but so helpful to read your question ans replies.

Also lovely to see some positive lines on tests and happy scan results. X

@MrsCristianoX you are right, to be fair I used to do that and it did cause issues, he never knows when to try it on anymore, the journey affects every aspect of your relationship! Happy DTD with no pressure, and then Dec hit it with a 'bang' 😅

@FfayeN 😘

@Sailawaygirl so sorry for your loss ♥️ So fresh and raw still. All I can say is be gentle with yourself and it comes in waves. Hoping your AF comes soon 🌻

@Bobshhh arghhh it’s grim where your mind goes isn’t it! I’ve been saying the same thing to my partner too ♥️ Sorry you’re struggling lovely xxx

@Babydustmamma ok so I take

NATURELO Prenatal Multivitamin -... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01M3Q83PG?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare just the recommended dose on the bottle

Solgar Vitamin D3 4000 IU (100... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00AZZTU0G?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare

https://www.boots.com/boots-vitamin-c-1000mg-180-orange-flavour-chewable-tablets-10274987

https://www.boots.com/boots-vitamin-b12-250-%C2%B5g-food-supplement-60-tablets-10285563

We both take...

Solgar Ubiquinol 100 mg 50... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00XU76YVO?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare I take 400mg per day in 2 lots of 200 and DH takes 200 mg per day

Life Extension Super R-Lipoic... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0027YKO1C?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare we both take one 240mg tablet

Hubby takes

NATURELO One Daily Multivitamin... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01MA5K82Q?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare

Nordic Naturals DHA Xtra 60... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00E029IIO?ref=ppxpoppmobappshare the dose on the bottle which is 2 capsules

So the only things on that list which she didn't give a brand recommendation for is the vitamin D, C & B12 I just happened to be in boots so picked those up from there and I have used solgar brand before so when I ran out of the boots vitamin D It was easier to get from Amazon

Can I join this thread? I have one beautiful DD who is almost 18 months. We have been TTC since May. 1st cycle had a chemical pregnancy. 2nd cycle ended in miscarriage at 6.5 weeks. AF started today so I’m now cycle 3 post miscarriage. I am struggling with the emotional strain of it all.

@mummatara oh my god you are amazing! Thank you for taking the time to pass on this info 😍♥️ Really appreciate it lovely xxx

@SpringDream so so sorry to hear you're going through this. Have you got people close to you you can talk and vent to? I found chatting to friends saved me, especially those that had gone through similar.
It's so touch, sending love

@mummatara I think mine come back exactly 4 weeks later which I was so shocked at, I always thought if you didn’t ovulate you didn’t get period?? I hate those cramps that come and go, what the hell are they🤣

@SpringDream sorry to hear of your losses and about how you’re feeling😢 AF looks on its way for me too and it’s just the most gutting feeling!

@Babydustmamma it’s just not what I had ever imagined ttc to be! So innocent before my mc. I didn’t even track I was so blasé and knew it would just happen. Now it’s the total opposite!
My cycle is ‘normal’ as to what it is used to be yes, took 1-2 months to return I would say. Now I’m just working with acupuncture to bring ovulation forwards and lengthen luteal phase. Last month I ovulated 3 days ‘early’ resulting in a 14 day LP so maybe it is working, maybe it is a blip. I am sceptical 😅.
How about you? What cycle are you on now?

hmm tricky one on the Mira, my GP already checked all of my hormone levels post mc so I’m hopeful they should be ok but not sure I need any additional anxiety. My GP said it was perfectly reasonable to request all appropriate bloods post miscarriage so maybe something to consider if it’s concerning you? I’m not sure what the ‘optimal’ ranges are or how far out from the average user yours are but may put your mind at ease to find out. Like you say, another month of data would be good to see also.

One thing I’ve realised in this journey is that you have to advocate for yourself because no one else will! Xx

@Babydustmamma sorry I just realised I replied to your initial message so I know what cycle you’re on! I feel like everyone needs a profile to keep track of key info!!

Can i gather some of your very helpful experiences?
Since mmc I've been having tummy issues I wouldn't say diarrhea but loos poo and some urgency with pooing. Sory if tmi. It's been managble until tonight when I went loo after dinner and Since i been having tummy cramps and feeling sick. Defo feels tummy rather than uterus cramps. I'm curled up in bed now.
My digestive system seems to be linked quite closely to my hormone changes during a normal cycle. I get really constipated just before af and then normally know af is coming when I am suddenly less constipated. Actually this was my main warning signal that something had gone wrong with pregnancy as I suddenly needed to poo and I didn't feel constipated anymore.

Just wanted to know if anyone else had experienced bowel changes just after mc? As usual Google isn't telling me much,just that diarrhea and sickness can be a thing/side affect during medical mc.

@RaliaMusca i do have lots of friends round me but they are all pregnant and I am so happy for them but equally finding it hard. I speak to my husband but he is so positive and optimistic and I’m not 😞

@Sailawaygirl I had similar issues after my miscarriage and to be fair as soon as I found out I was pregnant I was having issues with urgency and loose stools. Then after the miscarriage it continued. It has only just settled down now and I’m cycle 3 post mc. I am on iron tablets now though so not sure if that has changed things

@SpringDream thank you. That helps to know it's not just me! I just want to be back to normal!!
I'm sorry you say your struggling emotionally and having lots of pregnant friends must be difficult. I've not met any friends who have had mc , so although ppl I have told have been soo understanding it's not the same as someone saying 'this is my experience. '
So sorry for your loss x