TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

[FfayeN]

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

@ChloeN the only research I can find linking taking progesterone to any sort of issues with specifically boys is that there can be a higher risk of hypospadias. I’m guessing that’s what the consultant was referring to, she didn’t specify 🤷🏻‍♀️

@FfayeN I have been prescribed cyclogest from the RMC to be taken from 3dpo. I have boxes of the stuff but won't take it unless I get a bfp as read it can hinder implantation. That being said, there is no way a RMC would prescribe it if there was any potential issue to the baby!

@bunnykins123 mine was as soon as I had a positive test, it is strange how they're all different! I guess the middle ground could be taking it from 9/10dpo, hopefully after implantation? But as you say they know what they're talking about xx

@FfayeN I’m so sorry to see your update 😔 xx

@FfayeN oh I am so so sorry to read your update 😔

@FfayeN oh lovely, I am so so sorry to hear this, very unfair and so unexpected 😥 sending hugs and good thoughts... Xx

@FfayeN So very sorry to read your update.

Morning ladies! I'm a week on from a MMC and medical management. Just wondering when I should expect my period to come back? Sorry to sound so clueless, this is all new to me

@FfayeN so sorry to read your update this morning 😢 💕

Thanks ladies 😔 xx

@TrulyMiss sorry for your loss ❤️ mine came back 5 weeks after surgical management

@TrulyMiss mine was 26 days from when the bleeding first started xxx

@FfayeN there are no words ♥️ So sorry to read your update. It’s no constellation but we’re here whenever you need to vent/chat/talk etc

@TrulyMiss mine was 36 days after ♥️

@TrulyMiss My medical management (which took several rounds) didn't clear everything out... finally after going back several times and almost 7 weeks I had a D&C (still testing very faintly positive). I ovulated the day after the D&C according to OPKs and had my period 2 weeks later.

(I get very angry thinking about this, because I had requested and was denied a D&C from the very beginning. Medical management sucks imo even when it works.)

Thanks all, it's very useful to know roughly what to expect. We're still trying to decide what is the right next move for us - if we want to try again I have to go back on fertility drugs which are tough going for me. We also have a lovely DS who is going to turn 2 on Friday so maybe we're just meant to be a family of 3... so hard to know!

Hey ladies how is everyone?

@ChloeN how you feeling lovely? Any symptoms?

@mummatara hey lovely, just on and off cramps and sore boobs and nips lol🤣 I’m 12/13dpo so still really early days! How are you, what’s your test looking like now? Xx

@ChloeN oooh the sore boob hell 😭 ah I was going to ask I couldn't remember what dpo you were! Do you think you'll go for a early scan? So my tests have taken a bit of a unexpected turn after a negative test on Friday they started getting darker again 🤷🏼‍♀️ went to the hosp for a blood test today need to ring in about 30 mins for the result and I'm feeling nervous 🙊 even though only one blood test won't technically tell me anything it also might because I had a private blood test 13 days ago which was a hcg level of 114. These were Friday, Sunday and todays tests

@TrulyMiss Sorry for your loss :( Happy birthday to your toddler! My son is two on Thursday :)

@mummatara id told myself I wouldn’t even test till Thursday morning lol🤣 I’m honestly not sure, I might just see how I feel over the next couple of weeks, if I do go it’d be sometime after 8 weeks but the whole thing was so awful last time I’m really put off😩
omg the difference in the top and bottom test!!😦 that surely can’t just be lingering hcg?? Let me know what your result is!! Xxx

@ChloeN it's hard isn't it at one point after my last scan and I was in limbo for 10 days I was like I'm never having a early scan again but in all honestly I totally would. I've just got off the phone with EPU my test tonight was 90 I really don't know what to think on it it could be either way at this point but I cant see how Fridays or even Sundays test was near the 90 mark unless they were bad tests but I was getting really faint/squinter lines all last week

@mummatara do you have pics of the tests from last week?

@bunnykins123 I might have a few I'll go see. I chucked the tests when I got the negative on Friday 🤦🏼‍♀️

@mummatara isnt 90 quite a good level where you’d get a strong line on all tests?? That makes no sense!!

@ChloeN I think the IC don't show up as strong lines until you get into several hundreds. These are my frer from Sunday to today not a massive difference but a little one.I honestly feel more confused but I'll get my answers on Thursday hopefully 🤞🏼