TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

[FfayeN]

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

@mummatara @MrsCristianoX @theblueflowers @Bubblesandballoons @Everythingzrosie thank you all🥹❤️ just need to try and get through the next few weeks without feeling like an anxious mess!

@TheBirdintheCave and @ChloeN , huge congrats! It was a BFN for me this cycle but it gives me hope seeing others get their BFPs!

@ChloeN I was silently reading and was really hoping for a BFP for you! Tentative congratulations ❤Very pleased for you.

@HJA87 thinking of you too and keeping fingers crossed for the next cycle 🙏

@HJA87 Thank you :) Sorry it wasn't your turn too :( Fingers crossed for next month!

@HJA87 sorry lovely I know how gutting it feels when it’s not it for you😔 thank you❤️

@lovenaps thank you lovely! I hate to be the person who posts tests asking for opinions but I just couldn’t believe it 🤣xx

@ChickenT2b awh lovely, I’m not gunna lie yesterday was really hard for me too ♥️ Each
month feels like reliving it all over again a little bit 😅

just started cycle six, so I can completely see why you’re feeling the way you are at 8 ♥️ Hard to trust your body after everything you’ve been through isn’t it! I just really got my hopes up thinking this was our month… but tbh this was the first month my body felt remotely normal so fingers crossed whatever needed to settle has now settled and we’ll have a little Christmas Day present 🌈 we got this xxxx

@TheBirdintheCave thank you for sharing the symptoms earlier and now I kind of know what to look out for - lower back pain and night sweat! 😉
Haha it must vary person to person but those are good signs!! Hope you aren't feeling too retching yet and that this pregnancy will treat you very nicely!! X

To anyone who's not had luck in Nov yet, should we just hold on to trying and hope for year end? As long as we are trying and being positive and not too stressed I think the 🌈 should visit us in turns 😊

@Aprilsunnyday all we can do! Taking me a little longer to bounce back from this one, hopefully once AF is done I’ll feel a bit more positive and hopeful 🌈 wouldn’t it be magical to have the good news for christmas?

@Babydustmamma sorry to hear it’s been hard on you too ❤️ Did it take you long first time round? I’m actually considering stopping tracking everything for the next cycle and just living my life, with one little eye on my fertile week. No obsessing, peeing on sticks, taking temp. Just go off CM and see what happens. I’ve tried everything else 😂… everyone says just stop trying right? Let’s see how that goes 🙈
@Aprilsunnyday a Christmas 🌈 would be absolutely magical. Good luck for your next cycle and looking forward to see some more BFPs 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Babydustmamma @Aprilsunnyday @ChickenT2b looking forward to the next cycle with you all and hoping For some Christmas miracles ❤️
@ChickenT2b I’m going to try and relax this month. Will do my vitamins and omega 3, but ditch everything else. Not going to stress about my diet. Just going to enjoy the run up to Christmas. I get lots of ewcm so I know roughly when I ovulate and will dtd every other day anyway so covered. We can brave “relaxing’ together 😂

@ChickenT2b @Bubblesandballoons eaaaak alright, I’ll give it a go at relaxing too! I suppose I can probably guess by CM. Would be nice to not feel like I’m ‘trying’. Thank you for your support ladies ♥️ It’s reassuring to have people who understand!

We got pregnant on the first attempt the first two tries, so waiting has been a very different experience x

@Babydustmamma yes! I am holding on to hope that I will see that BFP before Christmas 🎄 how amazing would that be to finish off the year with a positive 🤞🏻

@Babydustmamma @ChickenT2b @Bubblesandballoons I tried the whole being more relaxed and ditching OPK’s last cycle. (Although did start temping at 7DPO as recommended by my reflexologist)
If I’m honest for me personally it didn’t make me more relaxed and I certainly didn’t get a BFP from it but I’ve heard lots of people that do stop tracking and that’s the month they fall. Hopefully it has a different outcome for all of you though 🤞🏻😊🌈 I do think it was worth doing though as almost felt like a ‘reset’ and I felt much better and more positive this month starting back with OPK’s and temps (however maybe ask me again in a few days when I most likely test and get a BFN and I completely crash 😂)

@Babydustmamma @Bubblesandballoons @ChickenT2b @Aprilsunnyday looks like I'm joining you for next month - I'm spotting bang on time so looks like it's another dud month. DH is getting spermies checked today so will get some answers soon!

@emhope ahh that’s interesting to know! I could do with a reset! It feels like it’s all I think about, and I definitely wasn’t feeling that way when I did manage to get a BFP the first time round 😅♥️ Maybe I’ll try less tests and trying to relax… but doing the odd one or two haha

@bunnykins123 sorry to hear that you’re in the club with us ♥️ It’s bloody demoralising isn’t it! The denial you feel with spotting because you think there could be a chance of implantation bleeding 😅 so cruel!

I’ve officially started soy isoflavones this month, hoping to bring my ov forward as it’s still on CD 20/21 since mc (5 cycles later)! Who knows… maybe that will be the thing that gets my cogs going again! At this point I’m rattling round daily 😂

@bunnykins123 fingers crossed for the other half’s test! Mine did it last month and he said the whole thing was quite weird 😂 the room set up etc haha x

@Babydustmamma I think it's just that it's been going on so long now. Ironically I conceived really easily in the 1st 6 months (3 miscarriages) and now nothing in almost a year. I've had all the tests done and all that's high was NK cells. I wonder how far that impacts infertility. It's such a hard journey. How long have you been trying for?

@bunnykins123 Awwh lovely, it’s grim isn’t it! Especially when you’ve had the tests and they don’t really show what the issue is - which is a good thing but then you’re just left with the ‘why’?! I feel like the longer you are trying the more it affects your infertility because you get so in your head. I wish I could flip a switch and not be so obsessed with it but hey Ho ♥️

we've been trying for five months, but with the first two tries (one earth side, one mc), I got pregnant very quickly (first month trying) ♥️

@Babydustmamma totally agree about it being in my head. I actually am at the point where I just want someone to tell me conclusively if I can or cannot get pregnant naturally. If DH spermies come back normal then I'm at a loss! I'm so sorry for your loss - nobody should have to go through a miscarriage let alone 2 😢

@bunnykins123 I'm sure I'm out too. Woke up this morning more energised, and you know when you can nearly feel it starting? Literally can't be bothered next month 😩

@MrsCristianoX I'm so sorry hun. I read your messages this morning regarding the 2am test. It's such a 🤯 have you started spotting or just feel different? I always feel different right before AF shows so I know I'm out even before I have any physical signs.

@bunnykins123 same. I did the FRER anyway and got a ghost of a line but for 13dpo it's not even close. I just feel different today. I don't usually get spotting think that was a miscarriage thing at the time, just awaiting a flood 🙄

@bunnykins123 @MrsCristianoX sorry ladies😔 hope you’re both feeling okay!❤️

@MrsCristianoX I always get a ghost of a line, I even got one on O day 🤷‍♀️ that's partly why I don't test early anymore! Just dropped of DH sample - hopefully that'll tell me a bit more about what's going on! Looks like we are cycle buddies though as I'm 13dpo too!

@ChloeN thanks lady 💕

@bunnykins123 cycle buddies and haunted by the ghost of lines together 😂 ffs

@bunnykins123 FRERs almost always give me ghost lines. They didn't when I was trying for #1 several years ago. I'm wondering whether the tests changed, or if I changed - maybe I have higher baseline hcg now?