TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

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@MrsCristiano ouch that doesn't sound like fun

@AwayWeGo22 so sorry lovely ❤️ it truly sucks big hugs and take all the time you need we will be here when you're ready

@bunnykins123 haha exactly 😂 interesting there was a difference though

@Luna57 I know 😳 some people just don't think about what they say unfortunately 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Indianna2006 so glad you got a bold line 💕 I think they are in our favour too we just have to take each day as it comes and hope for the best

@mummatara was hoping someone would do this before I had to😂 thank you!!

@MrsCristiano 😂😂 I'm avoiding doing work so was a good distraction I am not feeling it today

@mummatara sicky feeling or holiday excitement?!

@MrsCristiano bit of both 😂 I've been gagging a lot the last few days and can't seem to decide what to eat the thought of most food is repulsive I'm just trying to keep it plain. It's not just food that's making me gag either I walked into our bedroom and randomly started gagging at the smell even though there was no smell to speak of 🤦🏼‍♀️ this is quite new to me I was just nauseous with the last two which went when I ate and I could eat anything. Everyone in the office is annoying the crap out of me and I just want it to be 4.30 so I can go home 😂 honestly I think they can sense my hostility because they've sort of left me alone 😂

@mummatara oh it's hateful that part. Looking round desperate for something not fancying anything 🤢

Thanks for tagging me! My appointment was cancelled this morning so I’m going after work instead, with DS in tow 🙈

Thanks for tagging me @mummatara

The gagging 😂 with DS I don’t think I had much nausea the only thing that got me was brushing my teeth😬 the moment the toothbrush went in my mouth I was gagging and vomiting. I know what you’re thinking- poor DH 😂

im feeling sorry for myself today I didn’t get home from work til after 2 this morning and DS decided it was time to sing opera at 5:30 this morning in his cot so I’m shattered and weepy and just feeling run down and just remembered DH leaves for Germany tomorrow for work for a few days so queue the tears later 😂

@mummatara I want to eat everything and nothing at the same time. I had a disgustingly yet weirdly satisfying horseradish sauce white bread sandwich for lunch 🫣🙈

@Luna57 🤣 I literally wasn't thinking that but now I am😂

If and I say if I manage to catch this cycle that will be my DHs only means of intimacy for 3 months. I cramp in early pregnancy too and I do not like it!. ...ugh stupid OPK still not as dark as control. It's getting close though🤷‍♀️

@mummatara thanks for the tag. I'm away as a group of 18 with my family so to say there's no time really to look at MN is an understatement: I will catch up next week 🥰. CD5 for me so hopefully be back with you all for O. Well done those DTD, sorry to hear of those of you having a shit time. Glad to hear there are still some BFPs here though 🥰🥰 xxx

Thanks for the add @mummatara, I deleted my account in a fit of pique this morning but as you can see it didn’t last long 😂 also it’s 4:30! Yay for your home time!

Sorry but also yay for those of you with pregnancy symptoms and sickness! I know it’s grim but it’s a good sign! I had loads of nausea with ds but much less with my mmc so I reckon nausea is a good sign!

Am feeling really confused about my tests. Did a cb digi on Saturday and got pregnant 1-2 weeks, IC yesterday pm and this morning and both were super faint so I got all sad about a chemical, cried for a bit then went and bought more tests (I know, poas addict!) and got these with smu. The blue looks way positive but the pink still quite faint? I’m hoping I’m just too early and my dates are off, didn’t do opks so just guessing I’m about 15/16dpo but do you think I could be wrong and this could be the start of a proper positive? Still looks too light if I’m only 13/14 dpo though doesn’t it? I know the answer is wait 48 hours and test again but the wait is AGONY.

This one was fmu this morning. Looks darker in the pic than real life, you could barely see the line in the time which is why I thought it must be a chemical given my dates. Lmp was 25/07 xxx

Hoped I’d never have to join this thread! But back to TTC now after a MMC.
Can anyone remember when they ovulated again after their miscarriage?
I counted CD1 as the day I actually lost the baby, and I got ewcm on days 15-17 which only puts me a few days out for my normal cycles! Does this seem a bit soon to be ovulating again?

@AwayWeGoAgain that's a good line for a cheapie!! I would absolutely tell you if it wasn't I hate false hope..that clearblue is looking good!!

Welcome @ChloeN! I’m so sorry you’ve found yourself here but it’s such a lovely community so I’m glad you found it. I had a mmc at nearly 13 weeks but baby measured 8 weeks, don’t think I ovulated at all that “cycle” and got my period about 5/6 weeks after my surgical management but was back to ovulating around 14-16dpo the cycle after (I usually have 28-30 day cycles and haven’t been tracking my ov). Not everyone is the same and some lucky ladies ov right on time from the start whilst for others it takes a while, fingers crossed your a lucky one and right back to normal! Partly depends on how far along you were and so how long your hcg takes to fall I think. Have you got a negative test yet? That’s a good sign that things are getting back to normal! I know it’s easy to say (and as you can see from my previous post I don’t take my own advice!!!) but try to relax and not push yourself too hard straight away. Your body might need a bit of time to recover. Hope you’re ok and have lots of lovely supportive people around you xxx

@AwayWeGoAgain thank you! It’s lovely to see you’ve fallen pregnant again!
I found at 8 weeks but baby had stopped growing at 7, I had medical management which took a few days to work so that didn’t help matters🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s been 3 weeks now and my tests are negative which is a relief! I’d been using early tests without realising and the lines were still so dark for a while so I was panicking! Xx

Checking in! Watched/observed most of the previous thread after a recent MC. Currently 3DPO and praying for a miracle first cycle post MC 🙏🏻🙏🏻

I’m sorry that must have been really hard @ChloeN. I had failed medical management so know how awful the delays feel! Glad you have your negative now though! Onwards and upwards, our rainbow babies are coming 🌈 and thanks for your good wishes. I’m not getting excited just yet because of my history of mmc and cp but trying to stay optimistic!

Hi there @Loz365 welcome to the group! I’m sorry for your loss, i’ll pray for a miracle for you too! And for all the rest of us! 🙏 xxx

Thank you @MrsCristiano! I guess I’ll just keep testing and see if it turns into anything 🤞🤞🤞 xxx

@AwayWeGoAgain thank you!
Your tests look good, especially the cb one! Totally understand the agony of waiting though, never thought the idea of a positive test would be anything but exciting. So naive 😄

@Margo34 😂 omg that sandwich sounds horrendous 🙈

@MrsCristiano gosh I hope that peaks soon surely it's got to tonight 🤞🏼

@AwayWeGoAgain well I'm glad you Undeleted 😂 I'm so happy to be home only two more days of office hell to get through 💪🏼 ok I dont want to give you false hope either but your cheapie looks darker than mine ever did at 16/17 dpo also that clear blue looks really good. I wish I had taken a picture of my ic but I don't think I did coz they pissed me off at how shit they looked 🙄 god the waiting is so hard I think I would sack off the ic tests and use something else I think @Indianna2006 got some good ones from savers that were sensitive 🤔

@ChloeN sorry you find yourself here 💕 I didn't ovulate the "cycle" after I had a period at 5 weeks post mmc and ovulated on what I would call the first proper cycle after. I had surgical management so not sure if that makes a difference

@Loz365 welcome and sorry for your loss. How's the TWW going?

@mummatara thanks for starting a new thread.

@AwayWeGoAgain those tests look great for 13/14dpo