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bez91 · 20/09/2021 05:35

It’s been thirteen million years & Minster & the good time crew are still here…its September, autumn in full swing and we haven’t done too bad so far this month compared to previous months but I still think we are owed ladies.

Oh and we don’t just talk TTC, we’ll chat about anything. In fact that’s positively encouraged cos TTC can be bloody boring sometimes!

It costs an embarrassing life (or TTC) story for your ticket please then you can hop on board

Agency bus driver at the wheel.…

All aboard bus number 48

Plugging @minster2012 blog \\\___, we’ve had cancer, travels & ivf so need to get to the fun stuff, more ivf, surrogacy and more! #shamelessplug
minstermusings.co.uk for the blog that’s where the full stuff happens
& minstermusings on insta - some of our ladies have made special anonymous accounts so we can link up via me 🥰 so if Insta gets mentioned it’s there

If you want to sign up & get updates please do, please note your username if you comment shows up to others so maybe make it anonymous I won’t be offended 😂🤣(unless you are mean)

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feliznavidad2 · 10/10/2021 09:59

Thinking of you @clolo x

kaylsd · 10/10/2021 10:09

@clolo sending hugs to you all, we're here for you xx

Minster2012 · 10/10/2021 10:09

@Kirky658 Stilton the devil?!! I have to say it's not my favourite blue cheese, I love Yorkshire blue 💓also hoping that means the meds are working, and a sleeping baby (or eyes closed!) is still bloody cute

@paintfairy it's like Summer here too, was over 22 degrees yesterday here! Isn't all cheddar in the fridge for munching??

@bez91 I fear that might be the case for me now! Alllllllll the cheese 🧀🧀🧀

@Franklydear BOOM go DS!! That's fantastic well done!!

So we are having our friends over later for tea, so I'm going to make the dessert this morning with DS, boozy rhubarb fool with the left over rhubarb from inside our rhubarb gin I made & ginger biscuits so that's DS's & my job this morning. Should keep me going then I think I will book the scan tomorrow for next Sunday. Still basically not feeling anything 7+5 today so around then next Sunday.

Minster2012 · 10/10/2021 10:10

@clolo is there still bleeding? Big hugs darling xx

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Franklydear · 10/10/2021 11:28

@clolo it's very hard to take it one day at the time, when is the scan?

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Minster2012 · 10/10/2021 12:19

Yeah it's so hard @clolo we know it's an awful situation and there's nothing we can say to help we are just here for you & sending love from all round the country xxx

@Franklydear cheese date 🧀

paintfairy · 10/10/2021 13:41

@Franklydear it definitely sounds positive with DS.
@clolo unless it turns into proper bleeding then it could just be your body. It's hard not to panic. My mum had 'periods' when having me first 4 months. Literally everyone is different so it's impossible to know. I'm remaining hopeful for you (but I agree I'd be very stressed if it were me).
@bez91 🤪🤣 cheese is good. Cheeseboards no. That's where I sit.
@Minster2012 its actually like summer but not as ridiculously hot. We've painted some stuff in the garden. Madness.

Well, still no spotting. RHR hasn't moved. No AF yet. 🤷‍♀️

bez91 · 10/10/2021 19:02

@Minster2012 did you book the scan lady? It would be less than a week away now 😊

60% in favour on YANBU about cheese being life 🧀 🥳

@paintfairy how late is AF? It's been so nice today, wouldn't know it was October ☀️

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paintfairy · 10/10/2021 19:09

@bez91 its not technically late yet. If I ovulated the usual day, its today. But could come tomorrow. However I usually get 3-5 days spotting beforehand and I've not had that. Buserelin can delay AF though and that's not helpful at all. A day or 2 I don't mind. If its ages and I have to keep injecting myself forever, I'll be less than impressed!

Minster2012 · 10/10/2021 19:23

@paintfairy they mentioned it might be slightly affected didn't they...welcome to ivf...you spend years hoping for AF not to show then you need AF for ivf and yep you guessed it 🙄🙄😩obviously we hope it's for other reasons

Yessssssss for cheese winning!! And here's the cheese board, oh and boozy rhubarb fool made with the rhubarb I strained from my homemade rhubarb gin 🤗

@bez91 I haven't yet, I actually will do tomorrow. DH has just tried to persuade me to wait for the NHS one. Nope darling.

Shackets from yesteryear, baltic crotches ❄️ and lots of ostriches 🐦 TTC bus 48
Shackets from yesteryear, baltic crotches ❄️ and lots of ostriches 🐦 TTC bus 48
paintfairy · 10/10/2021 19:46

@Minster2012 they actually told me naff all. 🙄 But Google and forums tells me it does delay it sometimes.

Yeah on a normal month I'd be ecstatic with no spotting and AF not appearing yet. 🤣

Franklydear · 10/10/2021 20:54

Watching swats in Netflix, and ds has a complaint, in these cop shows there never are many girls in the team, and they can do just as good a job, he would like to see at least half the team are girls, there’s only one in this one

paintfairy · 10/10/2021 22:17

www.facebook.com/618786471475708/posts/4483930701627913/

I sent this to DH who was horrified. He said I thought it was some computer? Not someone sitting there pressing buttons. I said now you can see why all your SAs vary so much. 🤣 Hinges on whether their phone went off or if they've been out the night before!

Franklydear · 10/10/2021 22:45

@paintfairy omg, that leaves so much to specific circumstances...

Franklydear · 10/10/2021 22:53

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4371560-To-think-my-boss-can-t-ask-for-pictures-of-child-s-injury Haven’t given you on of theses lately

Minster2012 · 11/10/2021 07:29

@Franklydear I read that last night 🙄🙄honestly

@paintfairy she actually manually counts them??? I wonder how often they have their eyes tested Cos that was making my eyes go fuzzy??

@Vil10 is it Oh's SA this week?

I still can't believe it's October. And still Sunny! Though this mornings is very autumnal here I might need to get out the rainbow gloves from @Franklydear!

@bez91 MASSIVE good luck for your scan today, when is it? We are all hoping and praying that it's the best news and another reassurance for you darling 🤗💓🤞🏻

paintfairy · 11/10/2021 08:53

@Franklydear @Minster2012 it reminded me of trying to count animals in cages that are running around. It's never right. 🤣 The weather is lovely! I wish it could be like this more often. Pleasant but not baking it's great for me. Just how I like it.
@bez91 good luck with the scan!

Strange thing to be excited about, but I have spotting this morning. 🤪

Bundaberg84 · 11/10/2021 09:25

Hi everyone, I'm back an have a lot to catch up. I hope you're all fine! My SIL and her boyfriend were here for a week with their cute puppy and I had a lot of distraction. I'm 9dpo today, no symptom spotting so far. Breasts hurt a bit, but that's normal for that phase. AF is supposed to show up on Friday.

Somatronic · 11/10/2021 09:55

Morning all. Wasn't around all weekend because I had a migraine so I was asleep most of the time! Feel better today though.

Re cheese: cheese is life. I love it. I love everything about it. But I'd never choose a cheese board over a dessert. I'm not a sociopath.

@clolo thinking of you and hoping everything is OK. I can't imagine how hard it's going to be for you to wait for the scan. We're all here for you.

@bez91 good luck today!

I went for my fourth bloody follicle tracking scan of this cycle today and finally we have a follicle ready to go. It's 17.6mm. The only problem is that I have to take the trigger shot at 6pm tomorrow which means I'll be in work as tomorrow is the busiest day of the year for us so I'm not looking forward to that. Last time I had DH do it because I'm too chicken to inject myself but I'll have to get over that quickly tomorrow I guess and try to lock my office door for 5 mins to do it.

Juno231 · 11/10/2021 11:26

@Minster2012 cheese is life! Blues are tougher to find good ones I think but I love Strathdon blue as it's a bit creamier and salty! For triple cream my favourite is Brillat Savarin 🤤

CD2 here today - a bit disappointed as we did hit O-2 so technically that's another failed cycle. Oh well.

Minster2012 · 11/10/2021 12:19

@Juno231 I shall add those cheeses to the list for when I can eat them again 😩😩it must be heartbreaking each month I can't imagine, but it's only a couple of weeks til your ivf appointment right? Is it 26th?

@Somatronic you only need one follicle & il sure you e got the jabbing, I didn't do it to start off with but you soon get over it. A sociopath for picking a cheese board?!! Nooo, it all depends what mood I'm in if I go for a cheese board or not really as I do have a really sweet tooth 😬

@Bundaberg84 Soubds like great distraction! My SIL is coming over this afternoon it's her puppy so I've got similar, do you think you'll test or wait?

@paintfairy so potentially AF incoming? And honestly how the hell can they actually count them?! Like you say animals in a cage 🤣

Keep checking in to hopefully see good news @bez91 ❤️🤞🏻

Bundaberg84 · 11/10/2021 12:27

@Minster2012 seems like it! Aww I love puppies. Do I want another one? I don't know. So much work. My pup is 14 in two months, she's starting to show her age, but compared to the puppy we had here for two weeks it's so nice to be an "experienced team" so to speak.
I think I'll hold out. At least a couple more days.

feliznavidad2 · 11/10/2021 12:29

Still here ladies, still reading. Joined the wonky donkey thread as my spotting was getting me down.

Cycle day 7 here, of cycle 7ish? Maybe 8? Hohum. On we go...