Thank you all for your lovey words, you made me cry!!
Yes, he was a wonderful man and I am so lucky that, during my pregnancy with DD, I was able to spend quite a lot of time with him. He told me how he met my granny and it all seemed so romantic with the backdrop of the war. I feel awful cos some details are hazy but I was pregnant and lost a few brain cells along the way
On a lighter note, my sister thinks I am becoming obsessed with ttc. Though she was loathed to use the word, that was what she said in the end.
She is 23 and is not thinking of children any time in the future and often comes out with,'oh well, if it were me.......'
I am not so sure I am being obsessed just interested and excited by the prospect.
I like taking my temp and seeing my body do what it ought to. She reckons we should just BD when we feel like it rather than on these specific days and it will happen when it ought to. I told her if DH and I didn't have dates, we mighten't bother BDing at all Life would take over. At least being aware means we are giving it our best shot.
She is just so self righteous, she drives me insane!! Particularily when she feels she knows best about something she knows absolutely nothing about!!
Everyone feels they know best before the have children, her time will come
Sorry about that, she spent the afternoon with DD and I, and the 3rd in row, we can only spend so much time together before fireworks.