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TTC bus 🚌 47 for all them odd b*tches who DON’T ovulate on CD14 🍳

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bez91 · 28/08/2021 10:03

It’s been twelve million years & Minster & the good time crew are still here…it’s almost September and we basically missed out August for BFPs so we are owed.

Lots of people have got new jobs, had time off, gone on holiday, moved house, but what we haven’t had is the BFP to go with it- what’s with that??

So we’re owed a bumper bus ride right? That’s how it goes surely? If you are looking for a community of lovely ladies who know how frustrating it is when your doctor tells you “all women ovulate on day 14” errrr nope, we know a bus load of women who don’t thanks very much 🙋🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️😆🤔then here’s the bus for you. Oh and we don’t just talk TTC, we’ll chat about anything. In fact that’s positively encouraged cos TTC can be bloody boring sometimes!

It costs an embarrassing life (or TTC) story for your ticket please then you can hop on board

Roll on September ladies, it’s time for tunics, leggings & pulling those tunics up for hot quickie action right??

All aboard bus number 47

I think I was under the influence when I agreed to take on this agency bus driver role 🍻 I endeavour to not drink drive…

Plugging @minster2012 blog \\\___, we’ve had cancer, travels & ivf so need to get to the fun stuff, more ivf, surrogacy and more! #shamelessplug
minstermusings.co.uk for the blog that’s where the full stuff happens
& minstermusings on insta - some of our ladies have made special anonymous accounts so we can link up via me 🥰 so if Insta gets mentioned it’s there

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feliznavidad2 · 05/09/2021 08:53

Eep @bez91 🤞🏻 🤞🏻

larrythelizard · 05/09/2021 09:38

Oh @bez91 you were right about the thrush!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 that is all, there's nothing to say this one won't stick xxx

@Franklydear glad your boy is through the worst of it

@Minster2012 happy fete-ing again today!

Somatronic · 05/09/2021 10:08

@bez91 fingers crossed for you!

@Franklydear I'm glad your boy is doing better.

Franklydear · 05/09/2021 10:50

Damm it! no results yet, they are always here by 8 am, I've done a few.... Starting to freak out

Manifestingbaby · 05/09/2021 11:15

@Minster2012 thanks, think he ie going to try the proxeed.

@bez91 love to you. Awful to hope so much for something and only feel fear when you get it. Fingers crossed for you x

blackcurrantqueen · 05/09/2021 11:47

@bez91 no congratulations just positive sticky vibes and gentle support in your direction darling xxx

kaylsd · 05/09/2021 12:12

@bez91 they haven't suggested a repeat yet as it's come from clinic and the report has been sent to GP that's why GPS now involved again but I'm hoping it was just a one off and nothing sinister 🤞🏻 low key fist pump excitement at a potential BFP for you
@paintfairy thank you darling have you been abit hit and miss with the SA? What treatment options have been offered for you? We’re just waiting for October to come for them to decide which route they’ll recommend for us to go down
@larrythelizard thank you hunny it means a lot all you guys support 😘
@lexber I hope this is all hopeful signs for you and AF stays at bay for you this 🤞🏻
@minster2012 I agree I just don’t understand
how by changing lifestyle and taking proxeed it’s gone so badly, hopefully the abx does the trick or he gets referred in for a closer look if there’s anything reversible 🤞🏻

Litterally done nothing all weekend but binged watched tv to unwind off day to day life.. absolutely hooked on click bait on Netflix if anyone wants to give it a go! Cannot stop watching it 👀

Lexber · 05/09/2021 12:44

Completely understand @bez91 I think that's why I'm in no rush to test myself - AF is def late now... and I feel rough as, nauseous in/off and exhausted but everytime I go loo I'm waiting g for AF... still carrying a tampon in my purse!!
We go home today so I'm going to have to bite the bullet at some point but I'm scared to test!!
Was it the town match?

I'm scared for a disappointment of a negative and I'm scared of the anxiety of a positive after July... which sounds ridiculous BUT I know you guys will understand that! At the minute I'm in a bubble of cautious (no drink) unknown and I quite like that. OH is sure I am as he says I'm very like last time, and the heartburn and nausea are good signs..

Franklydear · 05/09/2021 12:56

@kaylsd I finished click bait and now watching money heist, in original Spanish for me

bez91 · 05/09/2021 13:15

Thanks ladies @Franklydear @Minster2012 @feliznavidad2 @larrythelizard @Somatronic @Manifestingbaby @blackcurrantqueen @kaylsd @Lexber I appreciate it more than you know ❤️

@kaylsd seems like it can vary so much, I had no idea! Sounds a perfect weekend chilling!

@Lexber Yes the town match, DH isn't from this town, doesn't support them, but he likes watching them 🤷‍♀️ if you're late there shouldn't be any ambiguity with a test, go for it! 😊

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larrythelizard · 05/09/2021 13:15

We get it @Lexber. Have you got a test for tomorrow or will you need to get one?

@Franklydear any news on test results? Also a massive money heist fan, can't decide whether to binge all 5 new episodes now or wait for when they all come out at Xmas though!

We need something new to watch @kaylsd so will try click bait.

Summer is randomly back here so getting my tan on for a bit before heading to an event in town, have seen there's meant to be a little Shetland pony which DS will love but no idea of timings!

Franklydear · 05/09/2021 13:18

@larrythelizard nothing yet, if we don’t get tonight, will have to miss school tomorrow

paintfairy · 05/09/2021 13:26

@bez91 you snook that one in! Quietly keeping fingers crossed.
@kaylsd that can't find a definitive reason so we seem to still be unexplained. We've had 3 unsuccessful IUI rounds and now I'm waiting to hear from the ivf clinic. Our hospital don't do ivf so you go to a private clinic. Whether they'll come up with an answer, I don't know.

Amy00 · 05/09/2021 13:46

@bez91 quiet congratulations! I've got everything crossed for you x

I've been AWOL for the last month or two as at first was just processing the miscarriage so couldn't read anything TTC, and then the house extension got mega stressful (if anyone saw my post in July you'll see some of what I was dealing with) and it's getting worse as we were living and working in just two rooms of the house last week, one of which is piled up with furniture so not really habitable but OH squeezed his desk in there while I worked on the bed. No good.

We have also got a puppy! Which is lovely but also SO hard on top of everything else. I love him loads but you can't take your eyes off him for a second as he will just chew on everything/rip the carpet up/ eat everything. And he is really bitey with his sharp puppy teeth 😣

So I'm a broken woman, crying at nothing most days, snapping at OH, no idea where I am in my cycle, we weren't allowed to try this month so I won't be contributing to any BFPs in September, got our private tests at Dr Shehata's clinic in Epsom in a couple of weeks.

I have been trying to catch up but finding it physically impossible as am still reading through July 😂

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Amy00 · 05/09/2021 13:53

Here's a puppy photo...

TTC bus 🚌 47 for all them odd b*tches who DON’T ovulate on CD14 🍳
Amy00 · 05/09/2021 13:58

Sorry for spamming the bus - I had posted a puppy photo that had his tag the other way round showing my address to the world 🙈 frantically reported it!

I'm just all over the place at the moment 🙈🙈🙈

Sunbird24 · 05/09/2021 14:19

@kaylsd well done on the new job!
@bez91 no words, just a sneaky little finger-cross and a whole heap of love
@Amy00 puppy is gorgeous, hopefully the bitey phase doesn’t last too long!

paintfairy · 05/09/2021 14:19

@Amy00 awww! He's cute! Sorry you are having a rough time. I hope it improves soon.

Update from me. Just had an email saying I'm registered on the portal for the IVF clinic. No idea on timescales moving forwards but at least that means the hospital sent everything off and I'm in the system somewhere!

larrythelizard · 05/09/2021 15:08

Means they know who you are @paintfairy, definitely progress.

Cute pup @Amy00 sounds like things can only improve!

Good shout on reviews of the Ava bracelet @bez91 - I'm no longer convinced it's worth buying!

Lexber · 05/09/2021 15:28

@bez91 my old man has a season ticket :) by my dates as I'm a usual 28day girl I was die yesterday. By one app it's saying today, and another tomorrow 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

But I've always been regular and die saturdays and I know how strange that says! 🤣

@larrythelizard no tests at home so will be an amazing order. But I'm also putting it off 🤦🏽‍♀️ it's like if I don't test then I can't be disappointed not anxious as it is just what it is at the minute and I'm being careful as if I am anyway... I know it's crazy!

I feel all over and burning my head in the sand! I need to pull my bug girl pants up, but I'm not ready yet xx

Haiyaa · 05/09/2021 15:44

Ooooh love a BFP and a puppy pic!

Keeping quietly hopeful for you @bez91, just take care of yourself and take each moment as it comes, there is every reason to hope this could be the one ❤️

Great news on “being in the system” @paintfairy, hopefully another lovely IVF baby on the way soon.

2020mission · 05/09/2021 16:19

@bez91 definitely keep hopeful. I know you had a recent loss in July but I can't remember how many losses you've had or how far you've got... just wanted to highlight I had 2 losses at 5-6 weeks but this pregnancy has stuck without me doing anything different, so it can happen 🤞 hoping this is a start of a month of more BFPs in this thread!

Bundaberg84 · 05/09/2021 17:23

@bez91 fingers crossed for you!🤞❤️

Franklydear · 05/09/2021 18:04

Ds covid test negative!
@Lexber bug girl! I love typos
@bez91 that line is amazing!
@paintfairy one more step