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I know everyone will think i'm crazy...but i'm saying it anyway

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Amy123456789 · 19/08/2021 15:00

I have been trying to conceive my first child for the last two years.
I've suffered two miscarriages both at the 5/6 week mark. The first was Christmas day 2019 and the second was in July this year.
I've just finished ovulating, must be no more than 2dpo.
I know this is madness but I swear i'm pregnant. I just know.

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lilkayjay · 07/09/2021 19:59

@Amy123456789 I'm so sorry I am praying for you that hope is still there xxx 👼

Bundaberg84 · 07/09/2021 20:24

@Amy123456789 so sorry you have to go through all this and I really hope everything is fine. Are you going to see a doctor?

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Amy123456789 · 07/09/2021 20:27

[quote Bundaberg84]@Amy123456789 so sorry you have to go through all this and I really hope everything is fine. Are you going to see a doctor?[/quote]
It took me 4 days to get a telephone appointment with the doctor to tell him I was pregnant. His response was "do you want a termination?". I said "No, I desperately want it". He replied "So what re yo ringing me for? Call the midwife. I'll text you the number."
Think I'll save myself the stress lol x

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Bundaberg84 · 07/09/2021 20:41

Ehmmm... Yeah. And maybe find a new doctor? What a prick.

seekingsolace2 · 07/09/2021 20:44

@Amy123456789 please do find another doctor with whom you can discuss the bleeding. Prayers for you and baby..don't lose hope!!

Funtimedreamer · 07/09/2021 20:52

Can you go to the early pregnancy unit ? Sorry I’m not sure at what stage you can go there , others can advise

MissMaple82 · 07/09/2021 21:00

I've been pregnant 5 times in total and each one I knew I was pregnant before a pregnancy test told me so!

QueenLagertha · 07/09/2021 21:24

So sorry @Amy123456789. Thinking of you

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Amy123456789 · 07/09/2021 21:54

@Bundaberg84

Ehmmm... Yeah. And maybe find a new doctor? What a prick.
To be honest,he was a bit of a prick. He's got my medical notes. He can see ive had a bit of a struggle and all the fertility tests....pretty obvious I didn't call for a termination. I don't really understand why its still impossible to see doctor face to face-other jobs are back in the workplace. Sometimes you just need to talk properly to your doctor...like now x
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Bundaberg84 · 07/09/2021 22:00

Totally understandable! Is there any chance of changing your doctor?

MrsToadflax · 07/09/2021 22:30

So sorry op. Definitely worth asking for investigation after 3 losses. It could be something like needing progesterone to help sustain a pregnancy. You should be able to request a face-to face with GP. Go armed with information. So hard, but keep the hope.Thanks

Bella2255 · 08/09/2021 08:47

Keeping you in my mind and prayers @Amy123456789 🙏🏻

Mama1980 · 08/09/2021 10:15

I'm so sorry to read your update.

seaandsandcastles · 08/09/2021 10:18

I’m so sorry Flowers

PartyPotato · 08/09/2021 11:38

@Amy123456789 I’m so sorry, sending you lots of love and support xxx

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Amy123456789 · 08/09/2021 17:38

Thanks all. You are beautiful. Yes...I will attempt to see a doctor. Thanks for your support x

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Noodella18 · 08/09/2021 23:45

Just to say that I had daily bleeding with my daughter for the whole of the first trimester and everything was totally fine. Fingers crossed for you.

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Amy123456789 · 09/09/2021 18:30

@Noodella18

Just to say that I had daily bleeding with my daughter for the whole of the first trimester and everything was totally fine. Fingers crossed for you.
Thanks for trying to give me hope but my baby has gone. I have lost all symptoms and test is negative. XXX
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mrsS21 · 09/09/2021 22:01

So sorry for your loss @Amy123456789, I’m late joining this thread, but had to come and say how amazing it was to read all these comments. I’m ever so sorry you’re going through this, sending prayers to you xx

srh96 · 09/09/2021 23:09

I am so sorry for your loss my love. I've been thinking about you today.

Your baby existed inside you, and you knew before anyone possibly could have. That's mother's instinct. Sending you love, please be gentle to yourself.

Take care x

cricketball · 10/09/2021 06:48

So sorry to hear your update.

Yes, try and get a doctors appointment. Hideous that so many are still so hard to get hold of.

Funtimedreamer · 10/09/2021 07:51

I’m really sorry to hear this pm me if you want any advice as I’ve had multiple losses and took a long journey to find answers and might be able to help you x

Dontjudgeme101 · 10/09/2021 07:55

So sorry to hear your update op.💐💐💐

CShandy01 · 10/09/2021 08:04

I'm so sorry to hear about this @Amy123456789 ❤️ please look after yourself. Xxxx

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Amy123456789 · 10/09/2021 17:44

@srh96

I am so sorry for your loss my love. I've been thinking about you today.

Your baby existed inside you, and you knew before anyone possibly could have. That's mother's instinct. Sending you love, please be gentle to yourself.

Take care x

Thanks...that made me cry (in a good way). Important to remember that my baby did exist and I felt it somehow. I wrote a letter to my doctor explaining EVERYTHING. They just called me to say they are referring me to gynecology. So maybe i'll get some help x
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