🧙please, fellas impregnate, I’m here to ovulate 🦥

[Peachycream]

And the lucky winner of thread name bingo is:@SareBear87

👏 👏 👏 👏

Here we go again, 2 threads deep, numerous cheese boards, several BFPs and more to pick up along the way!

We’re a group of hormonal, emotional and down right loveable 30somethings TTC #1
Feel free to join us, nothing is TMI and no one here will judge you, we just love and support each other which some giggles along the way!

Our last thread seemed to have some luck so let’s see how lucky this one is 🥰

If I’ve forgotten anyone I apologise but trying to remember everyone at once is hard!
@Aries491
@Sparklingwine1
@80sPadme
@PurpleCat88
@HRP1990
@CTMcG
@KayL1988
@Dannii892
@Foodster
@glasspaw
@GingerTea333
@Eli707
@SkeletonSkins
@Mrsspoon3
@Emmaldo14

He sounds like a right wank bag. 😠

@Peachycream I totally get where you are. Cry, shout, laugh, cry and shout some more. I promise it gets better! 3 years ago I was in your shoes, broken because my (now ex)husband had left, I was on my own, alone in a city without friends or family. Now I have a wonderful partner, surrounded by friends and I am happier than I have ever been.

It gets better. I can say with absolute conviction that you can pick yourself up, flick the V's and find someone who will adore you.

Don't be a stranger to us. Please drop in for a rant.

You are worth way more than a lousy ball bag who doesn't worship the floor you walk on xx

Oh @Peachycream I am so sorry to read that! You definitely deserve so much better!! Sending loads of love to you right now ♥️♥️♥️

I’m so sorry @Peachycream. You definitely deserve better but I know it still must be so hard. I hope you are ok xx

I think I’m having another chemical. So heartbroken. This morning my temperature went up again and I took the test in the photo. Just now I have started bleeding!! Im not sure how I could lose it so fast 😢

@Mrsspoon3 argh I’m so sorry to hear that! Are you sure it’s a chemical? I thought a little bleeding was quiet common early pregnancy.. is it spotting or more? You’re temperature is high so that’s positive! X

@HRP1990 Thanks for your message! I’ll test tomorrow to make sure but I feel like it probably is as I’ve had chemicals with every pregnancy and now with the bleeding too it doesn’t look good. It’s just spotting at the moment but only just started.
I know nothing about pregnant but thought it was normally just implantation that caused bleeding, and that implantation would already have happened for me to get a positive?

I don’t have any experience so it’s hard for me to comment but I’m sure @KayL1988 @glasspaw might have some advice? Otherwise I’d take some time off here, away from goggle and run yourself a bath nice and chill this evening. You won’t get any answers tonight ❤️

@Peachycream

Hi ladies,

He left me. Haha.

So I’ll be hopping on my broom now and flying away.
Good luck to you all. I hope you all have happy, healthy, little babies soon for those of you expecting.

For those of you still waiting on your BFPs, keep pushing on, it’ll happen sooner than you think I hope!

Love to all 🥰

WTAF!?!? How, why?? You are an absolute goddess and he needs his head seeing to.

@KayL1988

He sounds like a right wank bag. 😠

This x 1000

So sorry to hear your having bleeding @Mrsspoon3

Maybe gross questions but how much blood and what colour??
I actually googled bleeding last week because after we did the deed there were a couple of drops of blood when I wiped down below. Apparently a small amount of blood can happen (particularly after sex because your cervix is delicate and can bruise easily. I think it depends on the type and the flow.... how do you feel!?

@Mrsspoon3 if it's just spotting then keep and eye on it and look after yourself tonight. Sending you lots of love and wishes that it's just a bit of a tender cervix xxxx

Thanks @HRP1990, will try and do something nice this evening and stop googling it to death.

Thanks @KayL1988. I had a little bit first that just looked like a kind of orange discharge (sorry that sounds super gross) then I went for a walk and came back and there was some brown blood, smaller than a 1p coin, in my underwear. It’s definitely browny rather than red. What was yours like? Glad it sounds like all is ok with you!!
Not had sex in a few days so sadly nothing to do with that. I feel fine physically, had a few very mild twinges of pain in my lower abdomen today but they were very very mild and I also have IBS so hard to know what’s from what!

Just saw your second message, thanks @KayL1988 😊 Would love it to just be that!! xx

@Mrsspoon3 that doesn't sound like a lot and it seems darker brown blood which is much more likely to be old blood that's been dislodged.

Mine was only a tiny couple of drops and i didn't get any more that day.

Sending lots of love, have a nice pamper and enjoy the England match (or the leave and quiet it'll give you) xxx

@Peachycream huge hugs - you deserve better and I'm sure you'll find that soon xxx

@Mrsspoon3 sending love and hugs to you too xx

Thanks @KayL1988 and @Eli707, really appreciate your messages xx

I really hope that’s the case @KayL1988 and it doesn’t mean anything serious if it’s old blood. So scared right now. Will find some random trash to watch while dh watches the football and try to relax a little!

Ladies how the fuck am I supposed to start again now? 😭
I have nothing. I don’t even know anyone to be able to meet anyone new, not that I even have the confidence to do that anymore. How did I let someone else do this to me?
How do men turn smart women dumb?

Don’t be afraid of starting again @Peachycream myself and @SareBear87 have both been there and we’re both in new and happier relationships!

I wouldn’t focus on men right now, put the focus on you and your needs! What do you want?

I don’t even know, I haven’t been able to do what I want in so long. My whole life just revolved around him and trying to keep him happy and not rock the boat.

I just don’t know how I’m ever going to be okay on my own now? @HRP1990
I’m all on my own in the world now, apart from the people I go out and care for but that’s it. No friends, nothing. Just me.

@Peachycream What an amazing position to be in no? Like an Eat Pray Love kind of situation!! You could literally hop on a plane and go travelling (within the green zone lol) Fancy pizza tonight? Order Dominos! Feeling tired.. take a nap.

This time is for you Peachy 😘

You’re not alone, you have us!

I just feel so lost, like I don’t know what direction to go in, you know like that spinning compas in Pocahontas? That’s how I feel right now, I’m not a fan @HRP1990

I think that’s very normal @Peachycream I’d be surprised if you had your shit together this quickly to be fair. Do you feel relieved or wish you were still trotting along together in his world?