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Fertility Clinic Appointments and Beyond..

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dogmam · 29/06/2021 15:28

New thread for us to continue our fertility clinic appointment progress...

Some of us are waiting for initial appointments, some are having tests and some are starting treatment!

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Tillybabs · 26/09/2021 11:41

@thislittlebird sorry about your bfn

@Kay00 the puppies are so cute!

thislittlebird · 26/09/2021 11:43

@Kay00 very cute!

@Tillybabs had to get a second BFN today just for good measure. I knew what it would be but taking the tests is annoying. Oh well, now I wait for AF and call the clinic up to try again.

Lori23TTC · 26/09/2021 14:18

@dogmam I’m sorry to hear you are going through this.. I hope the time goes quickly and you can do your next FET soon. Thank you for the info too.

I’ve been very bloated since taking the Cetrotide too… the cramps come and go too.

@Tillybabs I hope you were ok taking your first Cetrotide last night.

@Kay00 oh those pups are adorable! Hard work tho!

Lori23TTC · 26/09/2021 14:23

Oops I didn’t refresh the page before I commented.

@thislittlebird I’m sorry for the bfn- they don’t get any easier but one cycle closer to IVF.

@Tillybabs yes it is a bigger needle and my belly feels more tender too… mentally I do find that one harder that the Gonal F - I’ve had so much ewcm it’s crazy! I have to keep going to the loo! Keep thinking I’m about to ovulate as the cramps are bad too! I know I won’t but feels like I am!

Tillybabs · 26/09/2021 14:55

@thislittlebird I hate taking the tests too especially when you know in your heart of hearts but have a little hope.

@Lori23TTC yes I'm the same, so much ewcm! I'm not looking forward to tonight's cetrotide injection lol

Lori23TTC · 26/09/2021 17:27

@Tillybabs oh me too - I’m taking mine at 7pm. I hate that you have to mix it up too - feels like such a faff - but it will be worth it if this works ❤️ Exciting you will know when EC is after tomorrow!

paintfairy · 27/09/2021 13:09

@thislittlebird I'm sorry the last cycle didn't work. But yes closer to IVF!
@Kay00 omg puppies! Yay. Cute!

An update from me - we went to the ivf clinic for a scan and SA and had the follow up with the consultant after. We've been approved for ivf. I'm assuming it's long protocol and they've advised ICSI (nhs, one cycle). So we've got to fill out all the paperwork and can start as soon as we can. Which all seems very real!

Tillybabs · 27/09/2021 13:21

@paintfairy that's great news! Things should start to move quickly for you now.

Tillybabs · 27/09/2021 14:39

Just had my scan and they think my EC might be Friday eeek. Got another scan on Wednesday

Kay00 · 27/09/2021 19:39

Hi ladies! Yes, puppies are super cute, but they need watching all the time. They'll be much more work once they are toddling around 😆

@thislittlebird sorry for the BFNs... rubbish.

@paintfairy ooh yey exciting!!

I have a bit if a dilemma... I had my floof scan today (1st cycle of clomid, CD15) and it showed I had a nice thick lining... but I had three large follicles:
R: 21cm, 15.5cm
L: 14.5cm

She said anything over 14cm was a risk for producing and egg during ovulation, which (based on 21cm follicle) Is likely to be within 24 hours. So I could release 3 eggs... and risk triplets.

Obviously I don't want triplets but I also don't want to waste a cycle, and tbh we have DTD twice in the last three days already 😅 she suggested I reign it in a bit on the sex front, but I'm just not do sure.

What would you do?

Kay00 · 27/09/2021 19:40

She did also say that not all follicles produce eggs and not all my follicles will necessarily pop one out... so I might just pop the 21cm egg anyway 🤔

paintfairy · 27/09/2021 19:49

@Kay00 for my iui I had 2 big ones and a smaller one the first time, and 2 decent ones the second time. I had to sign to say I was happy with the risk of twins. But none of it worked! So go for it I would say.
What breed are the puppies?

Juno231 · 27/09/2021 20:05

@kay00 for your sake I hope you mean mm and not cm! Grin
It's all depending on you risk appetite! I follow a lady on instagram who has triplets exactly due to this situation lol. She said what were the odds of all three releasing, fertilising, implanting and not miscarrying!

Personally I'd risk it as I think the odds are really low...

Lori23TTC · 27/09/2021 20:12

@Tillybabs eeekkk not long now - I have my appointment tomorrow to find out when EC is! I do think this past week or so has gone quickly tho which is good.

@Kay00 wow that is a dilemma but I would go for it if it was me - I actually want twins so I would risk it to have 3 🙈

Tillybabs · 27/09/2021 21:22

@Kay00 its a dilemma but I would say go for it. What is meant to be will be!

@Lori23TTC good luck tomorrow. I find out for definite on Weds. my breasts are really tender, have you found the same?

thislittlebird · 27/09/2021 21:27

@Kay00 If it was two I would definitely go for it...I probably would anyway tbh, the odds are very low, but not impossible like this person @Juno231 follows lol

I'm not even convinced I ovulated this cycle, who knows if any came out. Who here has been on progesterone and how long did it delay your period after you stopped it? I'm trying to work out when to expect AF.

Kay00 · 27/09/2021 21:37

Thanks ladies 😄 so based on your opinions and my gut feeling, I think I'll be risking it 😂 here's hoping I don't end up with triplets!

@juno231 haha! Yes, mm not cm 🤣

Lori23TTC · 27/09/2021 21:41

@Tillybabs thank you.. yes super sore boobs! Only been sore a few days though. Still got EWCM and cramps too and so bloated!

Eli707 · 28/09/2021 06:40

Hi everyone
I've got a phone appointment with gp on Thurs to discuss day 21 progesterone test. I can only imagine she's going to say it's low or they would have just told me it's fine when I rang for results. She seems a bit clueless (so am I to be fair but she is the trained professional) so I'm just wonder if there's any other tests I should be asking her for prior to fertility clinic appointment (which isn't until Feb)? Still considering private MOT but want to see how much I can get done for free having seen the cost of it all privately. What did everyone else manage to get done by gp? Thanks x

Juno231 · 28/09/2021 07:25

@Eli707 have you had anything else done at all? They're meant to give you a day 3 blood test too to check quite a number of things, plus your OH should be having a semen analysis done. I also had an ultrasound before they referred me to the fertility clinic.

beckyCarlos · 28/09/2021 10:57

Hi @Eli707, just wanted to echo what Juno said, I had day 3 bloods done (this checks loads of things, and as a result I was put on some super strength vitamin D tablets, and I now take a supplement on top of whats in prenatals as that was only keeping my levels at 40!) and the GP arranged for my husbands SA as well (there was a 6 week wait for us for this). Mine didnt arrange an ultrasound but I had one for some spotting a month before so they sent the results of this to the fertility clinic too just for info (was clear, my body just likes to spot?!).

In hindsight, part of me wishes we'd had the preliminaries done privately because it would have been so much quicker, but I also think having the time (while hard) was helpful to give us space to think and process, plus I'm not sure whether you can have the initial things privately then switch back for treatment on the NHS, or if it would make it much quicker (always worth a thought though!) X

Tillybabs · 28/09/2021 13:48

@Lori23TTC I haven't had cramps but the past 2 day my boobs are so sore!

Let me know how it goes today.

Lori23TTC · 28/09/2021 16:26

@Tillybabs so I have a few more eggs that are big now so I’m hoping to get around 12. They said there is still time for the smaller ones to catch up. I have to go for a blood test tomorrow and egg Collection is booked for Friday morning. I have my last Gonal F tonight with the Cetrotide then tomorrow it’s Cetrotide and Ovitrelle later in the evening then no injections on Thursday. We could both be there on Friday!!

Kay00 · 28/09/2021 19:00

Exciting ladies 😁

Tillybabs · 28/09/2021 19:30

@Lori23TTC that's great! Sounds like everything is going as planned. I remember you said you had about 10 so fab that more are growing.

I bet you can't wait to stop injecting. I know I can't 😂

We might be going the same day. I will find out tomorrow 😃