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3 miscarriages in a row. Waiting on miscarriage clinic appointment

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MollySxx · 24/01/2021 18:22

Hi,
(Also posted this in miscarriage talk, but had no replies)

So a quick summary. In 2015 I was pregnant with Identical twin girls, I lost them at 24 weeks with TTTS (twin to twin transfusion syndrome) I gave birth to them both.

Fast forward to 2020, I fall pregnant in March and I miscarry at 9 weeks after a private scan showed no baby on the screen. An empty sac. We tried again in the June and it took us until October to fall pregnant again. I found out on October 24th and on the 31st I started bleeding and was told it was a chemical pregnancy because the hospital test came back negative, but I had positives the week before on blue dye tests and digital ones. I was 5 weeks pregnant. I then fell pregnant again straight after I presume, no period whole of the November, faint positives on tests, started bleeding heavily on December 13th and was told it was a miscarriage again.

And to now, I’ve had a pelvis ultrasound, came back with the lining of my womb fine, the womb fine, my ovaries just showed a small amount of cysts so was given blood tests to check for polycystic ovaries, got those results back and all came back clear and no further action needed. Had tests for Thrombophilia, also came back clear. And I’ve had a period since the December loss.

Due to Covid I’m having to wait a bit longer for my miscarriage clinic referral appointment to come through. My doctor has given me the all clear to keep trying in the meantime. But I’m so fed up and drained with it. I just need advice if anyone has been referred to the miscarriage clinic and what was the outcome, if any. Because I’m very doubtful I’ll get answers.

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Fawn68 · 20/02/2021 11:49

@MollySxx I am so sorry you're feeling like this! I do think your gp has caused you unnecessary worry and stress. I agree please just try forget about the scan, your dates could even be 1 or 2 days out and that also makes a huge difference. When I Mc last time, I was scanned at 6+1 and they seen nothing then 1 week later everything was perfect. And that's not why I MC! Here anytime Daffodil

MollySxx · 20/02/2021 11:52

@TJ17 in my heart I know it’s to early, but you can help but let your head rule. I’ve now started thinking I don’t feel pregnant anymore. Now keep checking for bleeding to start. I do think my doctor has jumped the gun and now I’m going to be worried sick for the next week. I’m a worrier in general, so this is just new level x

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MollySxx · 20/02/2021 11:55

@Fawn68 I think so also! I wish I just stood my ground an said no till I’m 6 weeks. Even the consultant said yesterday it’s all to early and they kept telling me not to worry. But how can you not. Today I’m just going to try and do things and keep my mind off overthinking x

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MollySxx · 20/03/2021 08:54

Just to post an update on this thread for future people going through the same, or need help or guidance✨

I have unfortunately gone through my 4th miscarriage which was confirmed yesterday at 9 weeks +4, the sac had stopped growing at 7 weeks and had a yolk sac, but no baby. My body hasn't recognised this, therefore I am not bleeding. So I have chosen to have a medical miscarriage on Monday to speed it up and hopefully move on quicker and again, have to go down the recurrent miscarriage route and find more answers. I have agreed with the hospital that anything I pass, the sac, tissue lining ect, I can take to the hospital and they can test whatever they can. The 400mg twice daily progesterone pessaries, the 150mg aspirin daily, the 5mg folic acid, all were not the answer for me this time. I really didn't think that was my golden ticket to having my rainbow baby.

My heart is so empty, and I can't believe this is my reality for the 4th time. Life is so cruel💔

Wishing the pregnant ladies in these thread all the happiness and health💓

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