Trying but not trying...anyone else?

[larrythelizard]

TTC no 2.

I decided (with full support from DH) that we should get on with TTC no 2...

I've said to myself that for we'll take a 'relaxed' approach to it for a few months (no temping, no SMEP etc) and see what happens, no great rush - took the best part of a year (incl a MC) to conceive DS so I don't expect it to be quick...

Except obviously it's now all I can think about as I approach what I think is my fertile week!!

Anyone else out there in the same boat and want to try and keep the madness on here and not in their heads?!

@mrssunshinexxx they can be good signs! Are you going to test xx

I tested this afternoon on a cheapie big fat negative sadly onto the next month

@mrssunshinexxx sorry to hear that. Least you can get onto a new cycle now xx

Thanks where are you upto ? @Brightspark12 just want aF to hurry up and get it over and done with now x

I’m sorry @mrssunshinexxx Peak day for me, identical to last month so I’m hoping my body is settled down off the pill... nervously optimistic!

So this happened! There is hope ladies xxx wishing you all. BFP

Congratulations @Brightspark12 !! Such lovely news. What would this make your due date?!

Despite us agreeing we were going to wait to try until April.... we’ve managed to dtd on cd13&14 this month 😂 equally i also had a smear test and I dunno why I just feel like it’s not going to happen this month. Plus I’m on night shifts this week and that does very odd things to my cycles. We’ll see

Eek huge congratulations @Brightspark12 what month was this ? Is this your first x

Congratulations @Brightspark12!! 🥳🥳

Thank you so much everyone - I still can’t believe it! @mrssunshinexxx well we had just not been using any contraception for the past 9 months I’d say, but this month I actually tracked my ovulation and we DTD quite a lot during fertile window. I also used conceive plus but I didn’t think it would actually work 😂