🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

@taskmasterlover
Hopefully you get some answers soon nothing worse being stuck in limbo of nt knowing wats going on. I myself have had 3 miscarriages and a chemical pregnancy last loss was holloween so on to ttc again just hoping next one is my sticky one took me nearly a year between losses to fall again so I think I'm in it for the long hall again lol. 🍀💚

Hi ladies, hope you're all keeping well!

I'm at the tail end of my first TWW since trying again after Methotrexate for an ectopic a few months ago. I think I'm about 10DPO but I didn't ovulate until CD19. I am extremely grumpy today but I'm not convinced that's not normal at the moment! We are moving house on Friday and everything is so stressful.

Fx for some new year good news on this thread! Xx

@chali7
Welcome back to the crazy ttc train how r u keeping fingers crossed it does nt take u to long to conceive 🍀💚

Hey @Babyghirl - thanks for your message! I'm keeping good thanks, busy with house moving and general life which is good, but all I can think about today is early testing. Really trying not to haha. How are you?
Happy New Year. Xx

@chali7
I'm OK still ttc lol but taking the relax approach with it all nt temping or charting at all I'm sure ur looking forward to moving will take ur mind of the whole ttc business 🍀💚

Thats the approach I am going to take for my next cycle if this month isn't our month!
I'm just having a row with OH over whether we are going to be putting him a gaming room in the new house or a nursery...... feeling very triggered!! Haha xx

@chali7
Happy New year to you and the family here's to 2021 being r year 🍀💚

@chali7
tell him he can have a gaming room for nw but as soon as its time for a nursery he's getting kicked out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I'm waiting on an app coming through for the fertility clinic for more in depth tests as to why I keep miscarrying so with hopefully get some answers and they can give us some help too hopefully fall pregnant quicker and hold on to it as it has took nearly a year to fall pregnant each time 🙏🤞🍀💚

Really hope your appointment comes through fast and you can get some answers. It is such a hard process. We've been trying for almost a year. We've fallen twice but haven't yet managed to keep hold of one yet. Fingers X'd we do next time, as and when it happens! I do have a 6yr old from a previous relationship, we would love to add to our family and each month it gets harder. But I'm not giving up!
Haha yes he can have his games room, hopefully only on a temporary basis 🤣 xx

@chali7
Hopefully it's just a case of bad luck these 2 times for u and next one is your sticky bean 🤞🙏🍀💚 I have not got any yet so proving hard each time I fall and loss as it goes through my head that I will never get to be a mum but I just got to stay positive and believe that it will happen x
Has anybody got any more update on taking the vacation while ttc x

I had a faint line this morning on 2 clear blue tests and a sainsburys test (although I've since learnt that sainsburys tests are not that reliable apparently!!) but I've started spotting tonight so I think I'm out this month. Although this happened last time and I had very positive pregnancy tests after bleeding for a week (thought it was AF) and it was ectopic so I will test again in a few days to make sure its not the same!

I know they haven't tested the vaccine in pregnancy- I think it's advised against at the moment so I personally would take that advise as a precaution. I haven't checked for any research on it though! Has anyone else? X

Hey.. does anyone know post miscarriage if you have confirmed ovulation should you AF arrive the normal 2 weeks after if you've ovulated or can it still arrive later?

Got my scan today having had two previous scans that didn't look great, keeping my fingers crossed but not thinking it'll be good news. Going to have a delayed new year's celebration with wine and cheese if it's bad news xx

@Taskmasterlover best of luck today, will be thinking of you ❤

Thanks @chali7 ❤️ it's so nice having this thread and being able to talk to people that really understand

@Taskmasterlover it is isn't it. I am so pleased to be here, I can't talk to anyone I know about it, so its nice to be understood. Really thinking of you today, I know how tough it is xx

The scan showed another missed miscarriage, had the medical management straight away as it's been about 8 weeks and my body has done nothing. Wasn't a pleasant experience as on arrival I was told my husband could come just for the scan (as he could last time 2/52 ago) and then they changed their mind 10 minutes later. I basically refused to have it done alone and said you can't say one thing then another and they did eventually let him in. It's just heartbreaking that mum's are expected to break the news to their own partners about their babies.

Curled up on the sofa now with lots of painkillers, chocolate and a blanket.

@hopefulmummie
Norm the second half of your cycle can last 14 to 16 days shouldn't last longer than that.
@chali7
Going to avoid taking it tbh even thou I work in a hospital but I would rather still ttc rather than put it on hold.
@taskmasterlover
Will keep my fingers crossed everything is well this site has been a god send to me would be lost without it
Has any body heard anything from @Annny27 been ages from she been on 🍀💚

Hello @babyghirl 🥰 have been having a manic time back to work and such haha! But I am quietly here 🤩 how many dpo are you now?

I am in the tww now too - about 2dpo I think, not sure as didnt track. Ended up having sex when we wanted which happened to be quite a lot just because no work and lots of time haha!

@taskmasterlover so sorry for you most recent loss 💗 that sounds so heartbreaking. I am glad they eventually let your husband in :( i hope the miscarriage is as good as it can be and that the pain goes quickly xxx

@elm7 have you heard anything more - did they rescan you? Have been thinking about you lots xx

@ELM7 oh I just saw your most recent update 😪😪😪 do you definitely know that it was a miscarriage now? I am so sorry for this heartbreak that you are going through again. It really isn't fair at all 💗💗

@Nuggetlover27 its rubbish isnt it :( I know people will say we are still young but it doesn't matter as we wanted to be mums 2 years ago! Haha

How are you in your cycle?

Also thinking of @27DONFIN 🥰

@taskmasterlover
So sorry to hear this its awful to have one loss but to go on to have more after it is just awful, have had 3 myself not a nice place to be in look after yourself take all the time you need to recover and vent on here anytime off the day you can also pm me through this if you need to tlk 🍀💚

@Annny27
Cd17 here for me 4 to 6 dpo for me as I did nt track lol seems to fly in when you don't keep track off things lol. It's good to be bck to work isn't it days seem to fly in lol 🍀💚

@Taskmasterlover so sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you 💕

@Annny27 yeah I’m ok start of fertile period today snd can’t be arsed. Still waiting on sperm results going to call chase them up shortly

Thinking of you @Taskmasterlover ❤❤

Thanks everyone ❤️ your kind words really help. I'm hoping 2021 is a better year for us all, lots of rainbow babies on the way 🌈