TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

[VP91x]

Hey ladies ❤️

BFP list
@Hayleylou89
@1990EM
@Tink20058
@mumoftwobeauts
@DontStandSoClose
@peonyrose87
@Ejb86
@Girlmum83
@Dipsy77
@DBTJ
@SmileyT
@ManchNic
@Niisa
@fafi
@2020wish
@calimommy
@Rebecca1992
@Beesy90
@Pugprincess
@IWM20

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@Runnergirl1
@Hayley19835
@Mommybear05
@HE88
@Rainbowhope11
@HopeForRainbowbaby
@Renna
@Diorissimo1985
@Rb486
@Wishingfornumber2
@Northernsoul90
@Sallyjo27
@Jazper
@littletandme
@MichT4
@Re6ecc4
@Bellabubble
@Lollol86
@Firevie
@stayinghopeful92x
@chloedancer897
@MrsK21
@LKMH
@CasperFlamingo
@Scrambledeggy
@Happyvibes
@Bl0ndi3
@Lemondropsandgumdrops

Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

@MichT4 why do you feel less hopeful with your temp going up? 👀

Haha, oh that's good that you're wfh today! I'm good! We had some fab sex last night, not TTC related at all and initiated by OH. Bella also slept in until 7.10 which is unheard of for her, so win win!

Going to book my bloods for tomorrow and I've got an eye test later. All the fun! Xx

@VP91x thanks for the new thread 🥰

@Lollol86 not out yet! What are you feeling? What day is AF due?

@Firevie wow those pictures are beautiful. What a lovely place to be!

@scrambledeggy how long have your boobs been sore and how many DPO are you? I'm hoping this is a good sign for you!

xx

@Firevie those pictures are gorgeous, I definitely need to visit!!

@Lollol86 noo, don't feel out yet. What cd are you on? Are you planning to test xx

@VP91x 😂 I don't know, I just don't feel anything. I know it doesn't mean anything but last time I had swollen boobs on and off by this stage. Tbf I normally have sore boobs with AF too and that's not happened either.

What a winner of a day! Wahoo for some good sex! We DTD too last night, also fab, but my god was it sweaty!!?? Bits of my body went a bit red from the heat I think 😂

@VP91x @MichT4 AF is not due until Sunday I think on cd 9, but just feeling like I'm going to com won at any point. I'm still going to test Friday if she hasn't shown by then. I just have that feeling so to you know what I mean?
Ha ha I love a good session, although not so much in this heat.
Ohh @VP91x Bella sleeping in sounds amazing, my girls are usually up at 6 most days 😫

Hi ladies, but posted for a bit as been trying to not get hung up about TTC. Had period cramps on and off last week which I don't usually get and AF was due yesterday which I thought was happening as I had brownish discharge with a little pink spotting but nothing this morning so took a digital CB and turns out I'm 2-3 weeks pregnant! I took the same test last week and it said I wasn't pregnant so I guess I took it too early. We're keeping our fingers and toes crossed this time round is successful and we're going away on Friday for a week (staycation) to relax. I had my mmc in April after getting pregnant 1st time trying so it hasn't been straight forward this time but I can't believe it's finally happened.

@Lollol86 it's mental how early they get up. Don't worry Bella is always up from between 5-5.45 today was a blip I won't ever experience again probably 😂😂. What time do they go to bed? I know so bloody hot!!

@MichT4 no symptoms is sometimes a symptom if that even makes sense 😂. I'm over here still cheering you on. Test day tomorrow eeek.

I know so sweaty 😂 I had a cold shower before, had to have another after haha. Xx

@Lynz2020 Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 xxx

@Lynz2020 that is amazing news congratulations.

@VP91x I use to have a really strict routine where neve was in bed at 6.45 and Olivia at 7.30, however since lockdown and the lighter nights it's a bit later. Neve will ask to go to bed but then she's back up again. It's just too hot. Last night we put her to bed at 7 and then she got back up without us knowing and sat watching tv in our room with Olivia 🤣🤣 little cow. What time does Bella go to bed? Xx

Congratulations @Lynz2020 !!! Great news!

@VP91x Thank you so much for the new thread, glad things are getting sorted for you!

@Lollol86 I feel your pain, yesterday I lost my appetite which normally is a firm sign AF is on her way, and my CM has also dried up quite a bit! Still got a few days to be hopeful.

@MichT4 sounds like a great day I think I'm 12dpo at the moment, they've been sore since 7dpo. You're not out yet, who knows what the end of the week will bring...

@Lynz2020 congratulations! Enjoy your relaxation, wishing you a healthy pregnancy

@scrambledeggy it we'll be another month of trying for us, but we still have a few days so can definitely hold on to some hope.
My boobs have always been sore before a bfp so 🤞🏻 for you xx

It well could be 🤦🏼‍♀️

Wow @Lynz2020 huge congratulations! So lovely to see this. Wishing you a healthy 9 months!
What day last week did you test? How odd it didn't show! These tests are made to test our emotions more than anything else!

@Lollol86 I know what you mean by the feeling, but let's be honest, our feelings are very hit and miss on this! I'll be keeping my hopes up for you!

@VP91x yeah I know it could be fine, we will see. Thursday, not tomorrow! Don't tempt me to test earlier, after not wanting to at all, now I just want to know xx

Thankyou everyone!
@MichT4 I tested last Monday using the same test but came up not pregnant but I took it later in the day, today I took it 1st thing. Don't have any of the symptoms I had last time eg metallic taste and blurred vision. Only have cramping so far so hoping it all goes smoothly.

Hey yes it is Schönbrunn - not sure who had asked on the other thread. Our house is right next to it so we are v lucky and see this daily when we go for a run!
@VP91x thanks for the new thread!
@Lollol86 not out until she shows!
Can’t wait to test with you ladies on Friday/Thursday. I will test Fri morning. No sore boobs which I had when I fell pregnant last time. But trying v hard not to symptom spot as my BBT is still on the up and creamy CM, so let’s see. The test shall reveal xxx

@Lynz2020 congrats ♥️

Morning ladies!

@beesy90 OMG no way!! Are u ok now? Has he really left u? PleAse use us for support

@niisa hi how r u? How far along are u now?

@chloedancer897 how u feeling today?

@Lynz2020

congrats!!

How’s everyone today

I’m getting ready to go meet a friend for lunch

@Lollol86 😂😂 how clever of her to sneak in with Olivia. They have such pretty names and sound lovely together. Bella is normally in bed by 7 asleep by 7.30 latest really unless she is being a fuss.

@Scrambledeggy when are you planning to test? Fingers crossed xx

@MichT4 sorry 😆 I'm clearly wishing the week away!! Xx

Thanks @VP91x what an impressive BFP list ❤️❤️❤️

I feel a bit better today and after crying all day, I've decided to take out a loan and get treatment privately. I think stopping TTC isn't what either of us want and I would pay anything to have a baby in my arms. I'll let you know how it all goes xo

@Lollol86 you're defo not out! and so many AF symptoms are the same as pg as you know!

@NorthernSoul90 I'm getting on OK - think I may actually have AF now....

@Bl0ndie3 my cycles haven't come back to normal at all since MC but I'm very much in the minority here, hopefully yours are a textbook example of ovulating 2 weeks later x

@Firevie wow that photo looks amazing! Enjoy your break!

@MichT4 no symptoms doesn't necessarily mean anything, bodies are so strange and a new bean could react differently! Hope nothing too wrong with your house that the handyman is looking at?

@VP91x ah so glad you've got your bloods soon - do you know what hormones they will be looking at? Will they also be looking at thyroid function? Apparently one to also watch out for if your cycles are fluctuating. Have fun at your eye test, great day out lol

@Lynz2020 congratulations! wishing you a healthy 9 months!

Update from me:
I think I will be counting today as CD1 (YAY!!) as the spotting has turned into bleeding now that needs protection. Hate using pads but going with it so I can monitor my flow for this AF.

After 76 long days, I'm so pleased we've moved onto the next cycle.
I'll be on CD5 when the provera finishes and expecting more bleeding after that - I'm planning on starting OPKs as soon as the bleeding stops!

@beesy90 I hope you are ok, has he actually left or did he walk out in anger? He sounds like he's being immature and something has triggered him, I hope you have family close by for support.

@chloedancer897 glad you are feeling better today and decided to continue on your journey, I hope the treatment works out for you, and do lots of research on clinics before you decide who to go with! Really hope you get your rainbow baby soon xxx

@VP91x also thank you for the new thread, sorry I forgot to add that in my last message!

@chloedancer897 that sounds like a great plan!! So glad u aren’t giving up ❤️❤️ Did u test again today? I would just advise to keep testing til af is due before u take the loan cause u never know x

@MrsK21 so glad af has finally came and onto a new cycle x

@Lynz2020 I'm amazed it didn't show. It just goes to show how unpredictable tests can be. Oh well, you've got your bfp now 🥳🥳🥳

@VP91x I really wish it was Thursday tomorrow! I just went out to hang out some washing and it's roasting again! I can't be doing with work in this heat!

@chloedancer897 I'm glad you've come to a decision that you are both happy with. Exciting that you can get the ball rolling too. Look forward to hearing how you get on 🤞🏼

@MrsK21 yeah I know I need to stop reading into things. Plus with a couple of days variation of when I might have ovulated, it could be earlier than I have in my head. I'm just going to stop waffling about it and wait. Patience isn't a strong point.
Nothing major, well, one could have been. The front door lock occasionally just didn't lock. The key would turn but didn't do anything. I was convinced he wouldn't do anything because the chance of it doing it today was unlikely, but he didn't even ask, he just changed the lock. Bonus.
And the en suite door keeps swelling with the movement and moisture so the door has been adjusted twice to be able to shut. So he cut more off it. I hope it doesn't de-swell or we will have a tiny door 😂

I'm so happy the Provera is working so quickly for you. Must be such a relief to see AF. And lovely to know you have a fresh start now.

@scrambledeggy the timing of your boob soreness sounds promising to me

Xx

@VP91x thank you I love Bella, that was one of our choices for Olivia too xx

@MichT4 trying to work in this heat is just too much.

@chloedancer897 I'm so happy for you, I understand why you would want to stop ttc but at the same time how would you love and cope with that? Best of luck I'm really routing for you xx