TTC after MC - August 2020 (Thread 10)

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Hey ladies ❤️

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Update on me - there is no update 😂 CD20, not even a sniff of a positive OPK and no temp rise. Will have bloods done in the next couple of days. Gynae appt on 16th Sept is the plan xx

So we already have two cocker spaniels and this puppy will be another one. We have two boys atm who are 2 and this will be a little girl so hope she can put them in their place.

The waiting is torture I forgot how bad it was but hoping to wait until at least Friday before I do do one 🤞🏻

Girls just an update because the waiting got too much. I did a cheapy this afternoon from Asda, a 25iu one and I'm pretty sure its negative. I'll do my CB tomorrow maybe but I think I've been robbed of another one there 😢
Feeling a bit sad but it'll be ok xx

@HappyVibes yeah I went a couple of months where I went straight from 4/5 blank circles to a static so who knows but like you say its nice to have the reassurance of the Gynae appt soon x

@VP91x ahh I really feel for you, hope you get it sorted soon 😩 x

@chloxhunt did you have your last scan from the NHS? they tend to favour internal until 12 weeks but privately it would be abdominal from 8weeks generally (with my private scan place it's 6weeks that they do it abdominally) so don't need to worry about that. The unfortunate thing is that a MW or 111 won't be able to help they'll just say monitor it and come in if the bleeding becomes heavy (soaking a pad in an hour). The odds are that everything will be fine but with a Missed MC you don't necessarily have heavy bleeding or cramping or lack of symptoms so I'd just trust yourself and book a scan if you're worried or just trust your body that all will be okay x

@Northernsoul90 fingers crossed you don't get loads of Smiley faces 🤞

Where is everyone in their cycles any testers next week? xx

@MichT4 you definitely can't trust a afternoon cheapie for a conclusive answer this early, stay positive until you test again in the morning xx

@SmileyT I messaged my midwife when it was happening but she doesn't answer her phone if she isn't working so she'll probably message me on Wednesday and she'll probably book me in for a scan for the next day or something, but the spotting is stopping now which is a good sign

@SmileyT do you not think it would show though given the faint positive was a few days ago now. I will do the morning, but I feel like I know what's happened

Netflix sounds great. It's drizzly now, so we are in the pub. They have non alcohol cider so I feel included. I feel silly for buying all the no alchy stuff now and for calling my doc

@VP91x sorry about the dog and OH. I hope you find a solution xx

@MichT4 Oh no 😔 I really hope it shows up with something when you do your cb in the morning. How many dpo are you? Xx

@SmileyT Thank you 🤞🏼 how are you getting on? Xx

@SmileyT who have you been going to for your scans? I've just booked with window to the womb, we don't have one here in Swindon so have to travel but at £59 a scan it made sense to go with them xx

@MichT4 really hoping this isn't the case xx

@Northernsoul90 I don't know. I thought I was about 15DPO today but I'd think they would definitely show. I could have ovulated later as I stopped OPKs but I doubt it. I'm just trying to figure out why I'd get the faint positives and no bleeding still. Will just have to wait and see what happens but I think this is going to end up a nightmare as if I don't bleed either then I've no idea what's happened.

@Lollol86 I hope not but it's not looking promising xx

@SmileyT really?! Oh gosh. Maybe we should start DTD every other day now then so we can get as many in just in case that’s our case eek. Thank you for the heads up lovely xxx

@MichT4 would you assume it's a chemical? Xx

@Lollol86 I think so. I'll ask my doctor what to do but I definitely saw lines on 4 tests, just faint. So I think it would be unlikely to be anything else xx

@MichT4 we saw lines too, definitely speak to your doctor though as that's then classed as 4. Hoping it's a stronger line tomorrow for you xx

@Lollol86 it'll be my third one in a row, so they'll probably refer me. Breaks my heart it's probably happening again, I don't know why it just won't happen xx

@MichT4 let's try keep some hope until tomorrow, but it's really shit if it is happening again. Especially if this is happening whilst you are away xx

@MichT4 What a situation! I hope you can see stronger lines tomorrow or failing that AF arrives so you at least know what's going on. Maybe after testing tomorrow give your doctor a call and see what they advise. I hope you are okay. Ttc can be such a hard journey xx

@Lollol86 I'm trying to be positive and strong but I feel a bit broken. I wish I'd not tested, then I'd be none the wiser. But I have no AF either so I'd probably have tested by now, and maybe never seen the line xx

@MichT4 you had lots of peaks on opks but then stopped testing so there could be hope there that you actually ovulated later then I Tilly was thought. I'd be heartbroken too if I was you. Have you spoken to your sister about it? Xx

I should say initially

@Lollol86 yeah I have. It's hard though because we are on holiday and I feel like such an idiot for even thinking I was xx

Ladies I've had a shocker of a day, going to catch up soon..

In the meantime..

NEW THREAD

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3997256-TTC-after-MC-August-2020-Thread-11?watched=1

@MichT4 my heart goes to you dear ! I'm also still in limbo. No more blood ( I had a droplet or brown blood and since then nothing more) and I don't plan to test for now. Sending you lots of love ❤️
At the end I wish you all of us to hold healthy babies in their arms soon ! Shall we agree that 2021 is when our babies are born ? I will be thinking like that to help me with processing what is happening.

@MichT4 aw I’m sorry to read your update lovely - I am hoping your cb digital can shed some light on what’s happening... everything still crossed for you xx

Hi ladies
Apologies I have been MIA...haven’t caught up properly but seen @MichT4s update. So sorry to hear hun! Agree with the others - test again tmr and hope you get that positive or af at least. Have you been able to enjoy your holiday at all? Xxx