Hi girls~ Wow, I haven't been on for one day and WHOA~ I probably won't remember everything but:
Those who choose to take it easy with TTC, I hope you stay with us and we can just chat about anything and everything. That was the whole purpose of this thread. We just wanted to have a place where we could come regardless of what was going on with us, thus the "loves cake" part. So hopefully you feel welcome and choose to hang out with us. You can tell - there is never a shortage of posts on this one ~proudly pet myself on the back as I started the thread~ and then turn around and pet ILTS and others who have inspired it, saying that the original thread was getting too long.
FlossieF my heart goes out to you. What a horrid experience! I am SO glad you're home and recovering. Please take it easy. Life is just crazily tough at times...
Rosy my girl ~ hang in there. It's coming to an end for you one way or another. I am thinking about you and sending you lots of vibes of strength.
EllieG I am SO glad you joined us. Goingfor3 was our first lucky charm, blessing us with her BFP like the day we started this thread. Please come over and hang out - we're trying to keep this as our virtual lounge, where everybody can talk about anything they want. You can still guess the main themes though .
nh101 and Triggles ~ needless to say I am all giddy here, just waiting for tomorrow. I think I am repeating somebody but a line is a line. Also remember, you can't get a false BFP. So I think you'll have something to tell us really soon!!! Sending you LOTS* of baby pixy dust!
Goingfor3 I feel so bad for you, just reading about your issues with thrush. I take it you're in Europe, right? Do you have Monistat? It works wonders for me. In USA you can get it at any pharmacy and you don't need a prescription. I am like ready to go and get it and ship it to you. Oh right, I don't have your address in R/L and I guess a virtual drug won't do you any good LOL. So let me know if you can't get it and I don't mind sending it to you.
Ok, a bit about my developments... and you will be floored. My life is never predictable. That's for sure (is this turning into a blog? Sorry, don't mean for that. The rest below is all about me ? feel free to skip it, really!).
So, I called my doc's office to request a Rx for 5 MG Folic acid (that supposedly does wonders to prevent MC). Well, the nurse who talked to me like really rubbed me the wrong way. She wouldn't give it to me and said: "When is your follow up visit after D&C? You should talk to the doctor." I explained that it wasn't until the first week of Oct. She goes: "Well, that's fine because we don't want you to TTC (she didn't use that term of course LOL) for 2 months anyway." I was like who is "we" and "what business do you have with my bedroom life?" I didn't say that but I thought it. And then she goes - "how many children you have? What # pregnancy was this?" I was like what does this have to do with anything. So... long story short - the witch didn't give me the Rx.
But get this... remember my earlier posts about how my DH was on a fence about TTC after seeing me go through MC, etc... and the fact that we have a really little (19 month) DS, etc? Well, as I promised you - I stood back, didn't bring this topic up and was patiently waiting for the results of my labs to come back mid-Oct... Well, then the other night without any thought in a back of my mind... and my DH totally like well what you would consider TTCed! I was so surprised I think my jaw dropped. It happened again last night so I think he might have changed his mind on his own and didn't tell me .
Of course I am so thrilled and nervous; I don't want to do anything to make him doubt that again... So I am thinking I won't tell him about what the witch nurse said about 2 months, what do you think? After all it took us over a year to get pg 1st time and like 6 mnth with DS... Plus this last pg that we lost - I wasn't pg for 19 mnth before it and still mc'ed. So I think it is all a bunch of you know what about "letting your body rest, etc"
So I'm saying we'll continue as is. If I get pg quickly - then awesome. If I don't - then oh well, nothing for that idiot nurse to worry her head about. Makes sense? All of a sudden I feel like I?m a little girl back in school and the teacher just disapproved something that I did. How ridiculous! I really don?t like this nurse Jessica!