TTC .... TWW wait part 2 !

[Donnat89]

Hi ladies ,

Made a new thread as the old one will be full soon

@Adrianoska
@Juno231
@Sammyclaire22

Hi ladies update from me so stupidly I got up and went for a wee at like 6am this morning and forgot to test . So just doing a hold and will re test this afternoon

Started to get AF like pains though so think maybe it will be a BFN

AF is due today but no sign of it yet! X

@Donnat89 that's a shame you forgot to test but you must be feeling quite relaxed! The morning I tested I was awake half the night with nerves. Leaving it a bit longer should hopefully give a clearer result. I had cramps early on so FC that's what you are feeling x

Ditto to pre AF cramps @Donnat89 its totally normal so please don't worry. Fwiw you will probably get a result regardless of if you have held your wee now- I've been poas when I get home just to check after the other month when my line just disappeared one day lol. Thank goodness for cheap tests! I've booked my midwife appt today eek

2 further tests and both BFN so I'm out , getting some brown looking blood now when I wipe so AF will be here soon

I'm not using FRER anymore they just aren't very reliable !!

@Donnat89 sorry to hear about BFN xx

I'm really sorry @Donnat89, your test looks just like mine from the other day. If things weren't as they are I would suggest going to the gp for tests as there is clearly colour in the second line. The most reliable ones Ives found are the wilko ones- they aren't as sensitive but I've not had an evap yet compared to frers. And a lot cheaper x

Oh @donnat89 I'm so sorry to hear that. There was defo a line there :-(

@Sammyclaire22 and @Boof87 thanks girls

I'm ok was half expecting it still is hurting though I will be steering clear of FRER or early testing in general now as it just seems so cruel !

Xx

@donnat89 of course it will hurt. To be so closed and teased like that must be awful. Treat yourself to something nice, have a little pamper, self care and a glass of wine and get your head back into a positive place to be relaxed for next time. I know it easier said than done x

@Donnat89 chin up and get yourself something nice. It's so cruel, I think I'll avoid them now too. It's unfair how it picks it up so early and gives false hope :(

@Boof87 yes I plan on having a nice long soak lots of chocolate and just relax !

I'm not really sure if it was a wrong test or I'm having a chemical again ... either way I think for the foreseeable future I will not be using FRER

XX

@Donnat89 ah poo I'm so sorry to hear it was a BFN today! Sounds like a chemical considering how good that line was yesterday? Remind me, have you had initial tests done by the gp already or is it perhaps something you're considering once this pandemic calms down a bit?

Hope you have lots of chocolate and wine to treat yourself with tonight xx

@Juno231 I've had my tests done and nothing could be found with me , although since my MC my periods haven't been as regular as they where before and the last three have all been different that's why I was meant to track ovulation this cycle but didn't as had too much going on

Yes I think it may be a chemical I'm starting to thing I may have had a few of them now , so I'm defo going to avoid early testing and also avoid FRER for a while

the blood is more red now when wiping so I think AF will be in full force by tomorrow. Xx

Morning ladies hope you are all well , woke up to AF in full force so that's me put for another cycle . I feel ok about it .

I'm hoping to properly use my OPKS this month.

Good luck to everyone still waiting I hope we get some BFPS ! X

@Donnat89 good luck for a new cycle!

Good luck @Donnat89 💖

@Donnat89 best of luck - I'm still in this with you :) here's to a new cycle!

I'm CD6 now and just twiddling my thumbs so nothing exciting to report. Managed to lose half a stone in the last month so at least I'm happy about that! Hoping to lose the same again this cycle so I'm fighting fit for any beans that decide to stick around :)

@Adrianoska how are things going?

Thanks ladies ! I really hope some of you get some BFPS

@Juno231 yes I just want to get AF done now and get on with it , I'm defo focussing on getting healthier this cycle

Think I have a hint of something this morning but I will keep trying over the next few days x

@mumoftwobeauts I have poor line eyes so can't see anything in that pic but fingers crossed it pops up stronger in the next few days! How many dpo are you now?

@Juno231 the pics not great. It's always hard to catch it on camera. 9-10dpo but I had implantation spotting 2 days ago :)

@mumoftwobeauts I think I can see a faint hint of a line- mine at 9dpo wasn't showing on camera either. Hopefully it's the start of a darker line, fc for you xx

So here's a small plot twist. AF was due yesterday, no signs of her yet and my bbt is still high (could it just be the weather?!) I'm trying to just ignore it and ride this teasing little wave maybe until Sunday? See what happens. I've had no symptoms and feel usual AF bloating so dont have much hope this will last long! Especially as a I had a BFN on tues but theres a little part of that that's like....what if?! Hope everyone is ok and enjoyed the glorious weather!

@Boof87 omg sounds promising! how are you not testing, you must have nerves of steel!

@juno231 haha. After my negative tues my attitude kinda change and I just forgot about it all. The weather was lovely and that puts me in such a better mood. I think I'm just now focused on next time. I'm defo anxious to test but also trying to be realistic and not put myself through too much stress. My DH keeps telling me these things naturally take time and I think hes finally got the message through! Will keep you guys updated though haha