New thread for the crazy gang - part 4!

[Mumofboys17]

Hope you don't mind - I'm taking ownership this time ladies 💁🏼‍♀️ old thread was filling up 😉😘 here we go again!!

@Ange211
@Beau20
@Danni2019
@Missgoldilocks
@Katie1109
@Fredthespider
@Langpants
@BFP2020
@WaitingOnThePositive

Plus our BFP's @Sunflower2019 @Quiffy

Apologies if I missed anyone!! ❤️❤️

@Katie1109 the first appointment is just a booking appointment where they ask for all medical history and go through stuff like that. Then about 2 weeks later you have your 12 week scan. I know a lot of private scan clinics are closed but some may be open 🤞🏼 it's of course not essential but may put your mind at rest.

@LV1987 try not to take any notice of the lines of the CB digital. I used them 3 cycles had 2 dark likes during blank and flashing face and then solid smiley was 2 lines but one almost not there. They don't quite work the same as a normal OPK strip. They are like totally backwards. I don't even know how they work because the lines make no sense.

@Beau20 thanks, I am still chucking them away for the rest of this cycle though, they're doing my nut in with their mocking flashy smiley. He's such a little tosser 😂 I might try again next month, once I have gotten over my hatred of the flashy

Hmmmm, might have to record "angry" as my mood on my tracker today 😅

@Mumofboys17 @Katie1109 thank you girls xx I'm just so bloody angry I could scream and fucking kick the shit out of a punching bag!! I'm absolutely so done with this shite. Me and OH are going to exercise with a sand bag and I can't wait to get all this emotion out! 😩 I'm so done with this honestly and I've put on so much fucking weight because I eat my feelings ahh!!

@Missgoldilocks sorry your feeling so shit lovely 😣 I totally get it. But just remember @Katie1109 feeling all this shite a few months ago and look where we are now! That woman gives me hope!

The sandbag thing is a great idea honestly. I axed an entire fence down and chopped it into log burner sized chunks last week. It took me a whole day by my goddddd it felt good! And I burned 2100 calories 😂😂😂

Ps. I highly recommend axing to everyone. Honestly 👌🏼

Does it have to be a fence I axe?!

Massive hugs @Missgoldilocks, I'm pleased you've found a good outlet for your anger and you have every right be be angry, TTC is so shit and the disappointment each month is heartbreaking :(

@LV1987 absolutely not

@Beau20 I take it back... I just had a wee, thought "Hmmm, I feel a bit moist..." did a little CM check and got a massive blob of EWCM again! Pass me the OPKS, I'm not done yet!!! 😈🤞

Gotta save up some more wee first though 😂🤦‍♀️

@LV1987 woohoo!!! Your lines on your digital will make sense then! One is usually lighter then the other when it's solid smiley

Still flashy! But bugger it, if the tracker says this was OV day last month, I'm not risking missing it... Even if OH insulted my cooking this evening 🙄😑

@LV1987 are you testing twice a day now? Keep going at it, remember you can get EWCM for a good few days before ovulation.

I'm SURE I've just had some EWCM just now. Well, not sure positive but it wasn't there this morning. I'm only CD9 but I've had ovulation cramps really bad today and I also had them mildly yesterday. Wtf.

I've been doing it twice a day for a week now, but I'll keep it up for a couple more days. I feel determined again now 🤞

Hey everyone!! Congratulations on those that got a BFP ...

I wasn't going to do any OPK until my AF arrived (I've been off the pill since last november and no AF yet) anyway I started testing Monday, I thought it's not going to harm me doing them, I may get lucky!! what do you think? I have no clue what I am looking for all the lines look the same ..

Just to let you know I'm on CD92 🙈

@Boo2020 oh my days 92!! Well done you for sticking it out, I'd be losing my shit by now 🙈 it's hard to tell from those OPKs, they all have the same colour/strength test line and don't seem to be getting any darker. It is common to have a 2nd line all the way through your cycle. If I was you, keep testing to see if they darken are all. I'm keeping everything crossed this is the start of ovulation for you! Have you had any other symptoms? X

@Beau20..I am losing my shit Haha...I would be literally celebrating if AF arrived, I'm not sure with the second line I only just started doing them monday, I've had light throbbing on and off like every few hours like AF is arriving soon or it could be ovulating maybe!? Also little light twinges in my boobs, this all started over last weekend that made me start OPK monday..

I hate been in limbo ..

And a tiny bit of egg white mucus yesterday!!

Definitely keep testing! Hopefully it's a sign!! Did you go to the gp about not having a period yet? I thought if you missed 3 months of no period they can give you medication to induce it? I could be wrong but I'm sure I read that somewhere

@Beau20 I will keep testing, thank you!! No I haven't rang the GP yet I just thought with everything going on they might not see me ..I have also read the same, some say go after 3 months and then other read ups are saying after 6 months

@Boo2020 6 months?! Jesus, no. There no harm calling if nothing happens in the next few weeks, you can probably do it over a telephone appointment :) I think practices are varying at the moment. Mine still called me in for the fertility bloods no problem but all other face to face appointments cancelled and they were doing telephone conversations only.

Hey ladies hope we are all well?

@boo2020 sorry to hear about your long cycle, dong quai can induce your period, have a look into it.

Well we dtd last night and I woke up to 2 tiny spots of blood haha and I got excited that maybe it's a sign I'm pregnant. I'm due on Sunday so it's probably pre af spotting, I'm almost certain.

Where is everyone else in their cycles?

@Fredthespider @Beau20 thanks girls. Axing sounds hella fun, the sand bag was good and we had drinks yesterday which was nice but hungover now tho

Someone talk some sense into me please lol on 10dpo had cramps and now 12dpo slight bit of the spotting I mentioned already but no cramps haha can someone please tell me to stop 😂 asking for a friend

@missgoldilocks still not sure where I am! Yet another flashy face this morning (that makes 13 days now!)

Had EWCM yesterday afternoon though, so for the sake of working out roughly when I am due on, I'm going to say I'm 1 DPO but carry on with the OPKS for another couple of days to be sure.

We made sure we DTD yesterday just in case!