TTC after miscarriage - March 2020

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Hey everyone 👋🏻

This thread is for anyone TTC or testing in March after a miscarriage.

So sorry if you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@triedandtestedteacher thank you! Will let you know. Feels weird getting ready to leave the house 😂
How are you today?

Hope all went ok @scrumdiddly123

‘Pregnancy of unknown location’ 😕 nothing could be seen on ultrasound so either too early, ectopic or I’ve already miscarried. Had blood taken to check hcg and will repeat in 48 hours. So none the wiser!

An awful waiting game, I'm sorry! Hope you get some comfort later this week.

Oh @scrumdiddly123 that's so horrible to be left in limbo like that. How are you?

I'm sorry theres no clear answer @scrumdiddly123 sending love xxx

Thanks @Whiffle77 @Ejb86 @Anny27 it’s really crap! I feel worse now than I did before I went. They were a bit arsey with me for not waiting to have a period after my MC which didn’t help 🙄
From when I got a positive opk assuming I OV’d the following day I should be 5+2 today and they said a pregnancy would be visible by 5 weeks so 🤷‍♀️
Just got to wait it out!

@scrumdiddly123 that's rubbish. It might just be too early though. Have you done another test?

I'm ok. I'm waiting for my digitals to arrive from Amazon. Will update then xx

@triedandtestedteacher not done any today but this was yesterday’s! I didn’t even think to ask if they could see any reason for the bleeding but thinking now I’m home that if it was coming from the uterus it would have shown up on the scan? Might ask when they ring with my hcg level later

Hmmm that's quite a strong line. How confusing! How much bleeding have you had? Has it stopped?

@triedandtestedteacher the bleeding I’ve had has been mostly when I wipe and in the toilet, not seeing much on a pad. It is red though but doesn’t seem to be getting any heavier. Had some cramps yesterday but nothing today! I really don’t know what to think! Going to be a horrible 2 days x

Mine is pretty much the same. 2 mornings I've wiped and it's been bright red. In between I've had some dark brown discharge. Just done this so would suggest hcg is up there but the bleeding makes me very uneasy

@triedandtestedteacher that’s positive! What did your gp make of the bleeding?

This thread is nearly full but I'd like to keep up to see how you all get on! If you make pregnancy thread let me know and I will "watch" it :)

Nurse just phoned and HCG is only 29 🙁

@scrumdiddly123 awww no. That is so cruel. I'm so sorry it wasn't better news

@scrumdiddly123
My gp just said 'do you think you're miscarrying? Is it similar to the last time?'. He was sympathetic though. Then just said to ring Epau if I want a scan. I really want to wait it out though because this early it just raises more questions than answers. I will call them if I'm still in a similar position next week

I'm so sorry @scrumdiddly123 that's really sad. Sending you lots of love 💞

@scrumdiddly123 and @triedandtestedteacher I'm sorry you're both going through so much uncertainty 😔. Thinking of you both x

@MilsCookie I can see from the other thread (which is moving waaaay to quick for me to keep up 😂) you're taking a break from mumsnet this month. I don't blame you, I'm finding myself getting more worked up and anxious and this was only my first month trying again! I know I need to chill out and maybe taking a step back is for the best. Plus I really can't keep up with that April thread anyway 😂. Wishing you all the best. Please pop back and keep us updated. I'd really like to keep in contact 💐

I'm also wondering how @stephyrose is getting on. I often think about her and hope everything is working out. Hopefully she will pop back when she is ready.

@Fizzl thank you. I hope you get some good news soon x

I feel the same about the Dec2020 thread @Fizzl it's all a bit much 😂 much prefer here!!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3867573-Catching-up-ttc-after-miscarriage-part-2?watched=1

I set up thay thread so we an keeping touch ^^^

I set up that thread so we can keep in touch*

See you over in there ladies @triedandtestedteacher @Whiffle77 @MilsCookie @Fizzl @ChampooPapi @SunnySideUp2020 @scrumdiddly123 @ejb86 and everyone else:)