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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's

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Mumlili8 · 17/11/2019 00:01

Welcome to the 🐧 huddle. This a safe place to get and give support for everyone who has experienced the loss(es) of a pregnancy and baby. Pregnancy and child loss is the most awful thing anyone can experience and it can also be the most lonely time too. I hope you find this thread to be of some comfort.

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Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 07:41

Thank you 😊 I've just commented.

Mumlili8 · 23/01/2020 08:58

OK we need a new thread ladies

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:02

Are you starting it @Mumlili8 or do you want me to?

BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:03

Congratulations @Treaclepie19! xx

Mumlili8 · 23/01/2020 09:06

@BunnytheBlueWhale can you start it please I'm not sure if I'm sticking around. I'm having another cp making this my 9 loss not sure I can continue to torture myself anymore. There's no progression if anything it's lighter with fmu today so....

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:26

Oh @Mumlili8 I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I don’t know what to suggest. The line looks darker to me than the last one but I don’t want to get your hopes up. See how you feel in a couple of days but in the meantime we are here

Link to new thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3803074-TTC-after-pregnancy-loss-Thread-34-huddle-up-and-bring-on-the-BFPs?watched=1

mrsmb03 · 24/01/2020 15:36

Hello.

I would just like to say that I have gone for my 2nd scan today. I had ultrasound and the sonographer was still not sure so had vaginal screening after. She then made us wait to see the Nurse after she compares notes from last week to make a diagnosis. Our baby actually became smaller so it seems clear that this pregnancy is not going to go through. I am now preparing for a miscarriage. My prayer is that I won't be in so much pain and that it passes naturally and all would come out with medical intervention. If you are believer, please pray for me if not just please send me your good wishes and thoughts.

Good luck with everyone and for those who had good news, Congratulations. x

mrsmb03 · 24/01/2020 15:37

come out without medical intervention

BunnytheBlueWhale · 24/01/2020 17:51

Hi @mrsmb03 I’m so sorry if you are experiencing another MC. My thoughts are with you.

Just so you know there is a new thread (link is above your post) in case you want to come over there as this one is nearly full.

Amberrosejones94 · 26/02/2020 14:50

I lost my pregancy on the 15th feb before I had the miscmiscarriage I had lost all my pregancys symptoms everything had gone my bleeding stopped 2 days prior to the miscarriage and now I'm 12 days down the line and all my symptoms have come back I feel terribly sick sore boobs my skins cleared back up so tired motivation gone etc but surly I cant have even ovulated yet ? Could this be my body dropping back to normal for some reason i did a pregancy test because I found it clearing my room and it came back more positive than it did while I was carrying the pregnancy the epu told me it should be faint by now

Bumblebee999 · 26/02/2020 15:50

@amberrosejones94 I don’t think this thread is very active so you may not get many replies. Sorry to read of your loss. I lost my pregnancy at 12 weeks and then didn’t ovulate until day 30 ( I had my first period after the miscarriage 6 weeks after the day I started bleeding with miscarriage). I had various symptoms over the 6 weeks and still had a faint positive pregnancy test 15 days after I miscarried -but it was negative a few days after that. I know from others that they ovulated very early after MC, in my case I ovulated quite late. There is a lot of variation! You may well have ovulated early and/or you may still have hcg in your system from the pregnancy. I was told to contact the hospital if I was still getting positive tests at 2 weeks so perhaps you could call the EPU again for advice?

Debingirlies · 27/02/2020 16:11

Hi all. Just here for some advice please. We lost our baby too. At what i thought was 13wk scan turned out our babys heartbeat had stoped at 9+3days. After a scan at 6 wks and 8wks was fine. Feel devistated. Weve been trying for 3years for our baby together. I have 2 daughters from previous.. Just wonderd how you lot got over the whole ashamed to try again. And being scared of trying again?? Xx

Bumblebee999 · 27/02/2020 16:55

Hi @debingirlies, I think this thread has now moved over to a new thread- www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3803074-TTC-after-pregnancy-loss-Thread-34-huddle-up-and-bring-on-the-BFPs?watched=1

Though I’m not very good at the technology! I think if you post on the other thread you will get more replies. Sorry to read of your loss. I was similar to you, my baby had been fine in earlier scans right up to 8.5 weeks and then I had a total miscarriage at 12 weeks, I was completely stunned. It has been 7 weeks since I Mc and We haven’t tried again yet but I know that the girls on the other thread have so definitely post there I hope you get some helpful answers :)

Ann87 · 29/02/2020 12:27

I can see this is a old post but I'm freaking out iv been ttc to conceive for two years and sadly had a miscarriage in November,my period was due yesterday so thought I'd test not expecting much and go this I'm in shock I think do u think it's to light tho scared of another miscarriage
Thank you

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
Avocuddles · 29/02/2020 15:16

Hi @Ann87 and it looks like tentative congratulations are in order as that's definitely a clear line. You're very welcome to join the thread Pregnant after loss and dreaming of rainbows - 2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3835015-pregnant-after-loss-and-dreaming-of-rainbows-2 - it's a big friendly community of women all experiencing the scary rollercoaster of pregnancy after miscarriage, pregnancy loss or stillbirth......

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