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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's

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Mumlili8 · 17/11/2019 00:01

Welcome to the 🐧 huddle. This a safe place to get and give support for everyone who has experienced the loss(es) of a pregnancy and baby. Pregnancy and child loss is the most awful thing anyone can experience and it can also be the most lonely time too. I hope you find this thread to be of some comfort.

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LASandOtto · 22/01/2020 15:41

Very odd, the CB does look positive to me. Maybe wait to take another with FMU?

BunnytheBlueWhale · 22/01/2020 15:41

Fingers crossed @Mumlili8 Definitely at least one BFP in there x

Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 15:43

Hi @Mumlili8 I'm working away today and don't have a photo of my easy@home but found the picture online before which looks pretty much the same as mine did at 10DPO.

Those clearblues definitely look positive to me so I guess all you can do is test again tomorrow. I'm crossing my fingers that this isn't another chemical and that with some strong first morning urine you'll get a clear line....

Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 15:45

Sorry @Mumlili8 this is the image similar to mine (mine was possibly a bit fainter?)

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 15:58

Thanks ladies I'm not hold out much hope though as I've been here so many times with even stronger lines and it was still a cp or mc so I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Not sure how much more I can take though. I'm not tell DH as the losses have broken him so much and can't bare to do it to him again x I'll let you know how fmu test goes tomorrow

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 22/01/2020 16:01

Oh @mumlili8 it’s so touching that you want to protect your DH but make sure you have the support that you need. I’m sure your DH wouldn’t want you to deal with anything on your own but testing again tomorrow is a good idea and hopefully you will have some good news for DH soon x

Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 19:03

@Mumlili8 wishing you good luck for tomorrow xxx

tmc14 · 22/01/2020 19:19

@Mumlili8 I know I can’t make you feel better but just to say both my pregnancies had fainter lines than yours, with some negatives too, at 12dpo. One resulted in my son & although I miscarried the second, it wasn’t until 8.5 weeks that the baby stopped growing. I realise you don’t want to get your hopes up but I don’t think you’re out yet. Keeping absolutely everything crossed for you xxx

Morganmom · 22/01/2020 19:32

@Mumlili8
Hoping the best for you! BFP!

Treaclepie19 · 22/01/2020 19:39

@Mumlili8 as the others have said, I've always had lines fainter than that with my first positives. Fingers crossed for you!

I feel like af is coming. Day 25. My cycle has been like 28, 23, 23, 27, 24 the past few months so it could be good or bad.

MrsG3 · 22/01/2020 19:40

@Mumlili8 good luck for tomorrow, fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

Sunflower1608 · 22/01/2020 20:10

@Mumlili8 was your frer first morning wee? That may be why its a negative. You've had 2 positives. Maybe try again first wee, it's still early testing lovely. Fingers crossed for you

Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 06:21

I am in shock 😱😱

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
kkr168 · 23/01/2020 06:25

Congratulations @Treaclepie19 how many dpo are you?

Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 06:27

Thank you! I have no clue. We thought we were in with no chance at all this month as we only dtd at cd14. That was 12 days ago.

Avocuddles · 23/01/2020 06:32

@Treaclepie19 tentative congratulations, you clearly timed your one go just right!

MrsG3 · 23/01/2020 06:44

Congratulations @Treaclepie19 💕

tmc14 · 23/01/2020 06:46

Congratulations @Treaclepie19 ❤️

Sunflower1608 · 23/01/2020 06:52

Congratulations @Treaclepie19 x

Russkispy · 23/01/2020 06:52

@Mumlili8 don't want to give you false hopes I actually can see a line on your FRER!. Hope you can retest in a couple of days. On FRER too.

@Treaclepie19 congratulations!

SunStruck · 23/01/2020 07:15

@Treaclepie19 congratulations!! 😻

Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 07:17

Thank you all so much. Obviously a long road before I can relax at all but I'll try and think positive Smile

Avocuddles · 23/01/2020 07:37

@Treaclepie19 amen to the positive thinking, it's all we can do.

If you'd like a place to talk about the ups and downs then add Pregnant after loss and dreaming of rainbows.... www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3801729-pregnant-after-loss-and-dreaming-of-rainbows to your favourites

SunStruck · 23/01/2020 07:39

@Treaclepie19 you're welcome to join us at "Pregnant after loss and dreaming of rainbows..." thread. We're a bunch of ladies from here (and elsewhere) in very early pregnancy, in the limbo land between conception and graduates!

SunStruck · 23/01/2020 07:39

@avocuddles beat me to it 🙄😂