End of November, jump on board pt 2!

[Skygirl1983]

Ladies from the other thread, we have reached 1000! We need to start a new one!

@Skygirl1983 I hope you are enjoying the wine! You 100% deserve to enjoy yourself and let go.
Well done for starting this group, you ladies rock!

@Skygirl1983 Aww you poor thing. I think today was much needed for you.

Who would have thought this journey of ttc was this much of a rollercoaster eh? I remember my friend telling me a few months back but don't think it's actually hit me properly. I know it's easy to put pressure on yourself (I do this with all aspects of my life) but you need down time so make sure you switch off when you can, whether it's through drink, food, a bath, a good cry...anything.

Everything will take its course. Til that time comes try to be healthy (mentally too), fit, happy, and positive. 🤗🤗 We're all here for a reason, whether it's just for a few months or for a few years xxx

@FeckaDecka just two months...that's how patient I am lol.

I know you lot don't know what I look like, this is what my caricature looks like 😂😂 I look creepy!

@mellymoo86 You look very cool! ;-)

Preach ladies!! I was so laid back all month til AF was late and I was climbing the walls! It all gets so much...
So me and OH are going to the xmas markets in York tomorrow cause hes got the whole day off for the first Saturday in months! So I will also be eating the soft cheese and drinking @Skygirl1983

@mellymoo86 glad you managed to get progress with the GPs. Even if it's just reassurance it's all working as it should rather than looking into the other options just yet 💕

@CiaraJ01 mmmmm I want cheese now. I'm on my third glass of wine now 😄

Yeah I just want a peace of mind really and we will keep trying alongside it. Enjoy the market tomorrow, hope you have a fab time 😊

@Mangaroo haha thank you... 😛

@mellymoo86 ah OK early days then😊FWIW I read somewhere once that a reason it takes time is that you have to psychologically trick your body into getting ready for a baby mode. The more often you actually dtd the more your body thinks ah OK baby time! So don't just dtd around ovulation 😉 hope this helps xx

Hi! Can I join?

Testing on the 27th but have already snapped and taken 4 tests! trying to sit on my hands (and bank card)

Hello guys. I found that i actually ovulated yestrday. And also dtd yayyy. Now today I'll hopefully be on day one past ovulation. @Louu99 @nt1992 when are you expecting ovulation?? Join me ladies again in this stressing 2ww.

I wish there was sommmmething to check if my egg has met my man's sperm or not.

@FeckaDecka that makes sense...I was thinking for December I'll not do ovulation sticks and just dtd every other day between cycle day 7 - 21. That'll cover the fertile window and be more than enough. I know when I ovulate so there's no point peeing on sticks and going mad again.

Hi everyone 👋🏼
I have just recently joined Mumsnet, i am 25 ttc baby number 1! I came off cerazzete 4 weeks ago but still no AF or withdrawal bleed 😔.. im already driving myself crazy symptom spotting! Hope you all get BFP soon 🤞🏼

@PrettyGirl5545 app says I'll ovulate around 30th, took a strip yday very faint so not ovulating yet obvs! Got my friend staying tonight so won't be able to DTD but hopefully tomorrow and then continue each day until ovulation is past😂

Did a FRER this morning, another faint line. DH now agrees I am crazy! I just cant stop myself POAS when they are in the drawer just taunting me!
Anyway off to the local christmas shop today

@PrettyGirl5545 @nt1992 hola ladies! I'm supposedly ovulating around the 30th-2nd, it varies on the different apps! I might do an ovulation test a few days before, the day of the 30th/1st and then leave it. I'm thinking December for us all should be nice and relaxed! No peeing obsessively on sticks, just enjoying the festivities and copious amounts of sex 😂

What do you think ladies?! X

@Louu99 I'm with you! I'm going to DTD on and around ovulation then sit back and relax for the festives & hope for no AF 😂

So AF is in full flow 😔 come on yesterday exactly as app predicted, the app has been pretty spot on. On the plus side OH may not be away for whole fertile window in December so I’m trying to work out when to schedule in DTD, very sexy 😂. Might be able to DTD CD14 & CD17, app predicts ovulation on CD18 but it’s based on a 32 day cycle as MC in October put things back a few days. When I conceived in Oct my predicted ov day by app was CD16, we DTD CD15,17 & 18 so if I manage to DTD on days 14 & 17 I might just might be covered, worth 1 last shot before Christmas. I ovulated on CD18 this month & only DTD on CD16. Reluctant to get ovulation sticks this month as really don’t want to see that smiley face mocking me if I get it while he’s away. Anyone else had any BFPs or symptoms they can cheer me up with

@sh84 no symptoms I can cheer you up with but my other half and I are staying at a reportedly fancy hotel. We checked in and they put us in a disability access room with spare bed for a carer. Seems to be a regular occurrence with us as it's happened over 5 times now!
They must think he's my carer, or vice versa 😂
We asked to move, had some funny looks and now we're in a much nicer room! I'm not sure if we're fussy or it's just me being weird. But this is odd, right?!

@Louu99 is that the non accessible room? It’s a bit of a strange set up but it’s still nice to be away I guess. How you feeling about everything anyway, have you stopped bleeding now

@sh84 very odd! It gave me the creeps, the feng shui was all wrong 😂😂 I know how ridiculous I sound, but I'm owning it 😎

I feel alright overall. Stopped bleeding and everything seems to be back to normal, so we're gonna see how it goes this month. Less pressure and no testing unless my period is late.

I'm sure your dtd days will be fine, try not to stress about fitting it all in though, I know it's hard! Xx

@Louu99 lol!!! If you want to watch the tv sit on the floor.

@Louu99 so much floor space, it looks like you were staying in a dormitory!

@Louu99 it is very odd, the bed is in the complete wrong place, it hurts to look at it 😂 but just enjoy being in a different environment. I’m hoping & praying that OH is going to be around for those days so we stand a bit of a chance but I’m not putting any pressure on it this time. Good that the bleeding s stopped, I just counted my MC as a period as if CD1 was the first day of bleeding & it matched up with my app perfectly, smiley face on predicted ovulation day, AF on due date etc, just telling you incase that helps you plan a bit more for next time. Enjoy your hotel stay

Morning lovely ladies, I hope you are well. I'm on AF and think I'm getting a chest infection and cold. Yippee!! @Skygirl1983 how are you feel? Hope your cold has subsided?