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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

End of November, jump on board pt 2!

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Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 16:24

Ladies from the other thread, we have reached 1000! We need to start a new one!

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Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 17:29

What's supposed to happen to CM after ovulation? Mine is still EW like today.

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nt1992 · 14/11/2019 17:37

BFN again for me. I'm out this month girls 14 DPO today

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 17:43

@CiaraJ01 haha agree on WhatsApp, although some may not want to reveal identities. You could be my neighbour 😯 lol

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 17:44

@Skygirl1983 everyones different, some people get EWCM before during or after I believe. I would BD till its completely gone

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 17:48

@Skygirl1983 my cervix is hard (like tip of your nose) closed and my cm is thick and creamy. I don't get any in my underwear, more like inside. And it feels weird like wet feeling.

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 17:49

@Ellsbells112 tell me about it! Then when you get a BFN you're like ok I'm just broken then lol

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 17:49

@Louu99 where are youuuuuuuuuuu!!???????

mrsio · 14/11/2019 17:55

@nt1992 sorry you're still getting BFN. It's pretty common to not get BFP til after AF due. Weird that you've still not got any AF symptoms. You're not out til she shows up 😘

sh84 · 14/11/2019 18:07

I’m 6dpo & it’s killing me. Too early to test, reading far too much into every little twinge. Although I’m almost certain I missed it this month I’m still clinging onto that little bit of hope. Caught up on the other 1000 posts from the other thread, so lovely to hear about BFPs already

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 18:10

@mellymoo86 its shittttt and now af pains in full throttle! Gah! Well at least I have my expensive clear blue ovulation tests for the next cycle!

CiaraJ01 · 14/11/2019 18:18

@sh84 Welcome! Yep we all drive ourselves mad trying not to test and symptom spotting! But at least we're not alone!! Is this your first? x

@mellymoo86 If I was your neighbour I'd be devouring the cake 😂 But I get what you mean...

@Lou99?? Has she found the thread?? It took me a while to figure it out...

nt1992 · 14/11/2019 18:19

@mrsio boobs still hurt too which I never get before or on AF so I'm really confused

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 18:22

@Ellsbells112 I'm running out of things to try tbh. Only thing I havent is the basal body temp thing. I'm thinking to not look into anything next month and just let it take its course. I'm already convinced I'm not getting BFP this month lol

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 18:25

@mellymoo86 no definitely track I'd say because you not doing that decreases your chances more. How long have you been trying? Was you on contraception before? What's your cycles like? Gimme the low down x

sh84 · 14/11/2019 18:36

@CiaraJ01 no this would be pregnancy no 8🙈 but baby no 5. Not really any problems conceiving but never really “tried” before
Preg 1 MMC
preg 2 DD
preg 3 DD
Preg 4 m/c
Preg 5 DD
preg 6 DS died due to prematurity
Preg 7 chemical/mc
I only lost my son in August, had first period about 6 weeks after, fell pregnant straight away but started bleeding 4 days later. Been using clue app since first period & clear blue ov tests this month but cos of m/c it put everything back. DTD 2 days before pos ov test as OH went away for work day after DTD & isn’t back for another week so I know my chances are really low. So desperate to be pregnant & it’s looking like OH is going to be away again for next “fertile window”. Thinking maybe I should just stop being greedy with the babies & give up 😢

Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 18:39

@Ellsbells112 @mellymoo86 I'm not getting anything on my OPK anymore so I think I have ovulated. Doubt I'll get much more BD'ing now this week :(

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nt1992 · 14/11/2019 18:50

I just want to know either way 😢😢

End of November, jump on board pt 2!
CiaraJ01 · 14/11/2019 19:00

Aw sorry to hear about your son and miscarriages. Never too greedy!!
At least you seem to fall on easy 💗🤞

@nt1992 I know its seeming less likely with the tests, but really do hold out for AF! xx

nt1992 · 14/11/2019 19:00

@CiaraJ01 so draining being in limbo 😟

Ellsbells112 · 14/11/2019 19:01

@Skygirl1983 is your test the one that shows a surge 24-36 hours before? Because I'm confused, basically when you get a surge on your ovulation test do you then BD for 3 days?? I'm going to do it this cycle I want to get it correct

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 19:02

@Ellsbells112 right here is the low down..

Been on the pill for like 10 years. Been off it for a year now but whenever I've come off it my cycles have returned back to normal. So 26-28 day cycles, ovulating window day 14-16..

This is my second month trying to conceive. I have tracked from day one and ovulation seems to come at the same time each month. I'm 33.

Give me your low down?

Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 19:03

@sh84 I'm impressed you read the whole last thread!! Sorry to hear about your losses. But if it's what you really want dont stop. Be nice to have you join our craziness!

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Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 19:06

@Ellsbells112 I surged at the weekend which was bang on time to OV on monday. Had OV pain on Monday too which I normally got. So BD 3 times over the surge. Had negative OPK since Monday but still have EWCM so now I'm confused!!

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mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 19:11

@Skygirl1983 I did a opk as well just for the sake of it and it's blank. I peaked according to clearblue test on Sunday. Does ovulation last max 24 hours do you know? Because Monday night I cramped which made me feel like it was still ovulation 🤷🏽‍♀️ but didn't know it could last 48 hours

mellymoo86 · 14/11/2019 19:14

Have we lost @Louu99, this is why we need WhatsApp haha.

I'm having egg and beans on toast. I know that's odd and I'm craving Nutella again. My wedding weight is creeping back up.