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Anyone get a BFP after BFN

353 replies

Cabbiefix · 10/09/2019 18:47

I'm approx 9dpo and have been having lots of twinges and pinching on my right side, been very very tired so decided to test today and got a BFN.....

Anyone had this and then gone on to get BFP? Or am I out this month?

Sorry been trying for 9 months and getting restless 🙄

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Gigi318 · 04/10/2019 06:28

@HoldingOn2Hope no, I haven't used OPKs as of yet, I may do but trying to go by CM and I usually get O pain. I think it's imminent as feeling the odd twinge and my boobs are sore! So we should be close. Eeeek so exciting. Around a week to go to testing now. Yay! Time flies by doesn't it - even though it doesn't feel like it when you're in the TWW!

Trying93 · 04/10/2019 09:23

@HoldingOn2Hope 10dpo is still quite early to test. Try hold off till 14dpo. We're here to keep you strong

HoldingOn2Hope · 05/10/2019 21:04

@Trying93 I know it's far too early however I got a BFP at 10dpo in last pregnancy so I get tempted! But I will stay strong! 8dpo today :)

Sardi28 · 05/10/2019 22:50

OP have you tested??? Got everything crossed for you XX

Gigi318 · 06/10/2019 11:33

Morning ladies, how are you all?

@HoldingOn2Hope hope you stay strong and test at the weekend not tomorrow 🤞🏻

Cabbiefix · 06/10/2019 13:50

Morning All! Been keeping busy so not tested, think I'm about 8-9dpo, not feeling any symptoms at all this month so not been tempted (not that that means anything 😂)

Hope everyone else is good!! Keeping up the possitivity 😉

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Gigi318 · 06/10/2019 17:59

@Cabbiefix that's good. Stay strong, chick. Hope you make it to 14dpo! No symptoms could be a very good sign. I had every 'symptom' under the sun last month and look how that turned out 🤣
Yes, feeling good and positive. I'm CD13 today and O feels like it's round the corner. Maybe tomorrow? So excited 🤞🏻💫

HoldingOn2Hope · 06/10/2019 18:04

@Gigi318 I'm going to keep going and be strong not to pee on that stick!
@Cabbiefix I'm approx 9dpo too and no symptoms either! Fingers crossed for ya both :))))

HoldingOn2Hope · 06/10/2019 18:05

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Gigi318 · 06/10/2019 18:07

@HoldingOn2Hope yes really keeping my fingers crossed for you both, chick! How exciting. I'm so close to changing my CDs to DPOs now and as annoying as the TWW can feel I am just SO excited 🤞🏻💫

HoldingOn2Hope · 06/10/2019 18:36

@Gigi318 you will be in the 2ww before you know it! It's annoying yes but comes around so fast doesn't it? I'm sure this week will drag for me though

Gigi318 · 06/10/2019 18:37

@HoldingOn2Hope yes it really does. Wednesday will be 1DPO. Woohoo. Hopefully you can distract yourself!? Do you have much planned. So exciting!!

HoldingOn2Hope · 06/10/2019 21:46

@Gigi318 yayyy so close to counting your dpo's! I don't have much planned, have a few days off so hope to get done house Decor done. We had our house rebuilt last year it was such an exciting project and time however I also had 2 mc's within that time so didn't get around to finishing decor bits n bobs so I hope that will keep me distracted!
Tbh I can't believe I'm almost 10dpo as last month I was so anxious throughout but this month I'm not too bad, I don't know if that's because I know I might have missed my fertile window 🙄 but jets waits and see :)

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 09:40

@HoldingOn2Hope so glad you're relaxed about it all though, babe. It's so much better for you mentally! She says, as she is about to enter into the TWW herself 😂🙈 that's good, always lovely to do bits and bobs around the house. I've got some big cleaning bits to do this afternoon and I'm excited about that. Sad, I know! Yes hopefully TWW starts Wednesday or it could be Tuesday. Will see what signs I get. Won't test til 23rd either way, so may just say it's starting Weds x

Trying93 · 07/10/2019 09:53

Even though I said I wasnt goin to bother with ovulation tests cos me and DH were working opposite shifts I ended up doing them just to see if I got an lh surge same time as last month.

Using cheap ones and every test has been so faint I can barely see the line. Now on cd20 so I dont think iv ovulated yet and this late im probably not going to. Had no symptoms either Confused so no idea what's going on

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 11:03

@Trying93 oh that is a little odd. Maybe they aren't that reliable for you? Do you usually have symptoms? Perhaps it's a long cycle? Hope you get some signs soon. Are you still DTD just to cover yourself? X

Trying93 · 07/10/2019 11:12

@Gigi318 I used them last month and could see them getting darker each day until positive. Yeah still dtd. I defo dont have much hope for this month

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 11:30

@Trying93 oh love, I hope that's not the case. When is AF due? Hope they start to get darker soon!!

Trying93 · 07/10/2019 17:11

My cycle can be anything between 28 and 32. Today is cd20 so another 12 days at least but maybe less

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 17:42

@Trying93 that's not too bad. Hopefully it flies by for us all 🤞🏻 will you test on 19th or before, do you think?

Trying93 · 07/10/2019 20:03

@Gigi318 not testing until CD35 because my cycle seems to be getting later and later and I end up with false hope. Last time I was pregnant didnt get a BFP till day 34. It was all negatives before that. No tests in the house to tempt me either.

When you planning to test?

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 20:42

@Trying93 are you taking pregnacare? That's good, so you have a while off yet. I'm testing 23rd as that's when AF is due. Thats good. Will you get then just before? I have two FRER but will never be tempted 🤣🙈

HoldingOn2Hope · 07/10/2019 20:47

@Trying93 hope you get your positive O test! Mine have been faint a few times and I definitely ovulated as ended up with a bfp in March. As long as you've dtd and covered yourself :)

@Gigi318 How many dpo are you? I'm 10 😆 and so tempted to use the 2 tests I've got in the bathroom but will save them for day 14! Hubby's working away for a couple of days so I'm even more eager to test early!

Gigi318 · 07/10/2019 20:50

@HoldingOn2Hope I'm not quite yet. CD14 and O predicted for tomorrow. I think it's happening at the moment. Or about to. So will count Wednesday at 1DPO. Almost there 🤣 feels like I've waited forever for this week!

Trying93 · 07/10/2019 21:09

@Gigi318 no not taking pregnacare, iv got folic acid/vitamin tablets that the midwife gave me so taking them until they run out then il prob go back to pregnacare. I dunno when il buy them prob the day before. I'll be testing day before you then

@holdingon2hope aw thats good to hear, feel a bit more positive now. We have been dtd. 4 days isn't long at all 🤞