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Anyone get a BFP after BFN

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Cabbiefix · 10/09/2019 18:47

I'm approx 9dpo and have been having lots of twinges and pinching on my right side, been very very tired so decided to test today and got a BFN.....

Anyone had this and then gone on to get BFP? Or am I out this month?

Sorry been trying for 9 months and getting restless 🙄

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HoldingOn2Hope · 24/09/2019 15:15

@Gigi318 Awww sorry to hear AF has arrived :( but like you said give it your all this month!
I'm currently cd11 and I've decided to put the ovulation tests away this month and go with the flow - I really hope I don't give in lol!
I hope this cycle brings us all a BFP!

Gigi318 · 24/09/2019 15:49

@HoldingOn2Hope thank you chick, absolutely. I'm looking forward to the month ahead 🙌🏻 that sounds like a good plan to me. How are you feeling? Hopefully nice and relaxed! X

Trying93 · 24/09/2019 15:57

I'm CD7. I think im out this month already cos during my fertile window DH is early shifts and im late so we wont see each other awake 😂 dont think il bother with ovulation tests this month. Just going to see what happens, we might manage to fit it in.

Also decided im not testing any month until cd35 cos my period seems to be getting later and I get my hopes up. You ladies might need to remind me of this lol

Gigi318 · 24/09/2019 16:07

@Trying93 oh no! Hope you still manage to cross paths some how chick 🤞🏻 for you! Yes that sounds like a good idea to me, just see how it goes and hope for the best. I think testing as close to AF or missed AF is the best anyway. I'm sure we will try to stop you. I will anyway 🙊

HoldingOn2Hope · 24/09/2019 16:25

@Gigi318 I'm okay, I always am after the 2ww is over...I already dread it coming up again.
I have a few days off this week so having lots of 'me time' watching Netflix and munching on chocs!
The only limbo I am in is that my nhs consultant prescribed me aspirin to take but a private consultant told me a couple of weeks ago I shouldn't be taking it as it could infact increase risk of mc...I stopped it but now keep thinking what to do?
Anyone been in a similar situation? Xx

HoldingOn2Hope · 24/09/2019 16:29

@Trying93 that's a bum when you're on opposite work shifts, its happened to me a few times and just increases anxiety 🤣
I'll sure remind you to keep the tests away as I plan on not testing either this week. I have the digital cb ovulation kit but not using it at all!

Gigi318 · 24/09/2019 17:02

@HoldingOn2Hope I totally get why. As annoying as it is to have AF arrive it's a relief in a way and then you start again. You're no longer hanging on or worrying!
That sounds perfect. I've sort of ended up having today off too - much needed due to AF 🙄
Hmm that does sound frustrating. I'm not too sure myself but hopefully one of the other ladies will have some insights. It's horrible having conflicting information!

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 18:50

Hello ladies, how are you all doing? Almost the weekend 🙌🏻

AF has pretty much stopped and it's just CD3. Odd but all good 👌🏻

Hope you're all feeling well! 💫

HoldingOn2Hope · 26/09/2019 18:56

Hey @Gigi318 I'm all good! Cd13 for me today, I'm just dreading the 2ww. Going to try and keep as busy as possible.
Glad AF of over for you, exciting days ahead :)

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 19:19

@HoldingOn2Hope that's good 🙌🏻 have you had your peak day yet or know when it is. Still in the fun bit right now. Yes. I think I'm CD3 today and excited for this month 👏🏻💫

Cabbiefix · 26/09/2019 20:29

Hey @Gigi318 and @HoldingOn2Hope I'm CD13 too!! Currently on day 4 of flashing smiley face 🤔 bin getting a few twinges today tho so think I might be ovulating currently 😬🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 20:37

@Cabbiefix eeeek that's exciting. Oh I wish I was CD13. I was so excited on CD1 to be starting again and now I'm like argghh it's only CD3 🙃 roll on next week for the warm up 🤣 glad you're doing well x

Cabbiefix · 26/09/2019 21:36

@Gigi318 this part of the cycle is great but the two week wait is fastly approaching 😬😬 I'm determined not to test early this time... Hummm yeah, we'll see how long that lasts! 😂😂

Are you testing for ovulation or playing it by ear?

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HoldingOn2Hope · 26/09/2019 22:17

@Cabbiefix yayyy we're on the same day! :)
I've not tested ovulation yet, I decided not to this month but I'm so tempted!
@Gigi318 by the time your ovulation comes around, @Cabbiefix and I will be on our 2ww! At least we can help each other to stay positive :))

Gigi318 · 27/09/2019 07:54

@Cabbiefix eeeek yes not long now 🙈 and then you will have to really distract yourself as much as possible. And you know I will help you to avoid early testing 🤣 not testing for ovulation just watching CM and keeping an eye out for O pain and sex drive haha! I think every other day should cover it too 👏🏻 yes we're all in this together!

Cabbiefix · 27/09/2019 13:36

@HoldingOn2Hope i'm on my 5th day of flashing face so i don't think I'm getting my static face this month.... might have missed my surge, defo ovulated, going off cm and ovulations pains so just gonna stop testing now and crack on Wink

@Gigi318 Same, we tend to go for it every other day too, sometimes every day (day before, day of ovulation and day after) but not always... i honestly not sure why i still use the ovulation kits Confused

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Gigi318 · 27/09/2019 14:53

@Cabbiefix that's good! Glad you think it's happened so maybe the TWW is starting soon? Yes that's how I'm going to approach it and just enjoy it! I'm so excited for this month 🙌🏻

HoldingOn2Hope · 29/09/2019 09:15

Happy Sunday Ladies!

According to my app I'm 2dpo
I'm going by my usual ovulation symptoms so I ovulated Thursday/Friday! Going to try and keep busy over the next 10 days!!!!
I'm not whether this month will be my month as hubby was working away for a couple of days so missed a couple of BD opportunities within my fertile window! Oh well it was fun anyway! :)

Gigi318 · 29/09/2019 09:33

Happy Sunday everyone!!

@HoldingOn2Hope morning chick, woohoo the TWW has officially begun! Yes 2DPO sounds like a good timeframe to go with now. Who knows, you can still catch if something happened around the right time 🤞🏻 although I think my OH will be away for some of my FW this month. So I'm just trying to relax about it a little and not let it get to me, as then I'll just stress. I'd rather just go with it, if I can 🙈🤣 absolutely. Do you know when AF is roughly due? I hope you can keep busy! Do you have much on? When do you plan on testing? X

Trying93 · 30/09/2019 15:19

Just catching up on all your updates. Disappeared for a bit last week after 2 people announced the birth of their babies and 1 person announced they were pregnant in the same day. Even tho im over the moon for them i felt a bit down but iv pulled myself together now.

I'm CD13 so will probably ovulate at the weekend

Nightmare that your OH's will be away for a bit but your right not to get stressed, these things happen.

Gigi318 · 30/09/2019 15:38

@Trying93 Happy Monday, lovely. Glad you're back and feeling better. Just remember, others falling PG just means that you will too. Good news is infectious. Keep those positive thoughts going babe and it will happen. If you're CD13, anytime now could be perfect so keep DTD just in case 🤞🏻 I'm CD7 and finally AF-free so putting the practice in 🙊 just want to make sure I'm covered too! Yes, he is away on and off but I know we will DTD up until then and as soon as he is back so hopefully it won't matter. I will keep an eye on CM, just to be sure!

Cabbiefix · 30/09/2019 15:40

@Trying93 welcome back hon, I'm sorry you've had a crap week last week, i know how hard it is when everyone's making their announcements, I also had two in the same week! Flowers

Me and @HoldingOn2Hope have ovulated this Friday/Weekend so we're both in our TWW now Confused

I think you and @Gigi318 might have a similar cycle?! (I could be completely wrong tho!)

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Gigi318 · 30/09/2019 16:37

@Cabbiefix I'm CD7 so not that far behind. I am also ovulating this weekend. Ish. Perhaps this time next week. We shall see! It's the best time of the cycle. Woohoo!

Trying93 · 01/10/2019 08:14

@Cabbiefix and @HoldingOn2Hope the two week wait is the worst. Fingers crossed for you both. You planning to test early or waiting till AF is due/late?

@Gigi318 I dont get an lh surge till CD 18 or 19 so we will ovulate around the same time I think

Gigi318 · 01/10/2019 08:22

@Trying93 oh that's fantastic. Yes about the same time then. Yay go us. We can do it 🙌🏻 I think I'll get it 13-15. BUT I also got some EWCM late in last month's cycle, so I plan to cover CD18 too! I'm hoping Sunday-Monday will be my FW but we shall see. Just keeping an eye on CM now but nothing as of yet. Should start to get watery soon though. Hurrah! How are you?