Anyone get a BFP after BFN

[Cabbiefix]

I'm approx 9dpo and have been having lots of twinges and pinching on my right side, been very very tired so decided to test today and got a BFN.....

Anyone had this and then gone on to get BFP? Or am I out this month?

Sorry been trying for 9 months and getting restless 🙄

@PrinnyPree sorry to hear that. Fingers crossed for you this time 🤞

AF has turned up late so I'm out this month. Only plus side is I can have a few drinks at the wedding im going to at the weekend.

Got my fingers crossed for anyone still in this month ❤

@Trying93 sorry to hear that lovely! Although it's always good to see the positives. At least you don't have to struggle to hide it you can just enjoy yourself and then start again in a few weeks. Woohoo 🥂

@Gigi318 let us know what happens at the weekend 🤞

@Trying93 will do my lovely, just no idea why I'm feeling so nervous already 😩🙈

@Gigi318 hows things? Did you test yesterday?

@Trying93 hello lovely (and everyone!!) so sorry I forgot to update you all. Yes I did, and I ruined it 🙈 woke up at 5.30 so did it then, but the control line didn't appear!!! I think I flooded it! Nightmare. It was a CB! Then waited 2-3 hours and tried with the digital. BFN! AF due today-tomorrow but no sign yet. I started to get brown creamy/watery spotting since Friday in very small amounts. Hoping that will stop today 🤞🏻 if no AF I'm going to test Tuesday I think. As then I'd actually be late. Also picked up some FRERs ready for it 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 sorry, it's a long one. How are you chick?? X

How is everyone? @Cabbiefix hope you're well x

@Gigi318 what a nightmare! 😂 Hopefully at doesn't turn up, will be crossing fingers for you!!

I'm good, thanks hon, had an appointment with the gyno last week, she said to come back in three months (then it will have been a full year of trying) and if still not pregnant then we will get the ball rolling for IVF.... So feeling more positive that there is light at the end of the tunnel 🤞🏻😬

@Cabbiefix I know 🙈 you can tell I'm a total rookie 🤣 oh yayyy, that's excellent news. So now you can just keeping doing as you're doing and if nothing happens before then you know you have another option to try 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

@Gigi318 well hopefully you won't have time to become a pro 😂 it would be so good if your first month was the one!! 😊🤞🏻

We've said the same, will carry on as we have been and fingers crossed we won't need it but it's kinda given us a plan b, either way it's made us more hopeful which we really needed 🥰

@Cabbiefix hopefully so, the idea of doing it makes me so anxious 😂🙈 thank you! I hope so, I know it's my first official month but it kind of doesn't feel like it as I feel like I came into this kind of prepared? Does that sound odd? But also happy to keep going if not. I feel like it is what it is, and it will happen when it happens 💖
I'm so glad for you babe, maybe that's the reassurance you needed to relax and just have fun with it? What CD are you? Now that you've got that, I say just enjoy this month and try not to overthink anything - although that's easier said than done, I know!

Fingers crossed for you @Gigi318 x

@mummabubs thank you so much, lovely lady. How are you doing?

Alright thanks, my period only lasted 2 days... which is very odd. I've decided to just delete all ovulation apps as for me they all said wildly different things despite having the same data and will just be following advice on the nhs website like I did when TTC number 1. Hope you're not kept waiting too long to know whether this has been your month or not! X

Morning ladies, hope you're all well!

@mummabubs I think that's a good idea chick, how long did it take with #1? It's so easy to obsess over everything and look into it all too much, that I think it's good to just go with it and just make sure your DTD at around about the right time 🤞🏻 or just regularly, to be sure 🤣 good luck! I feel as if you've got this!
Thank you. Well I survived another night with no sign of AF 🙌🏻 just today and tonight to get through and I'm testing tomorrow. I'm a day late in my mind, but due today according to Flo (🙄) so giving it an extra day for good luck 🤞🏻💫

First time with our DC @Gigi318, so I'm not used to having to play the two week window waiting game repeatedly 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

@mummabubs well there we are my love, doing it the old-fashioned way definitely worked the first time 😉 so stick with that! What cycle are you on chick? Do you definitely think that was a period? How strange!

@Gigi318 good news AF hasnt turned up. Got my fingers crossed for you. Keep us posted

@Trying93 will do chick. Just tonight to get through and it's testing time 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Gigi318 would be great if you were pregnant your first month trying. I'll be very jealous tho lol

Morning ladies, sadly I'm not. AF arrived with a bang overnight 💔 BUT I'm okay, and I will give this month everything I've got 🥰😘

@Gigi318 gutted for you but you've got the right attitude, stay positive

So we're all back in this month then

@Trying93 thank you chick! I think we are yes, and this is a good month to make things happen and welcome a wonderful summer baby!!

Where is everyone at the moment then? I'm CD1 obvs 🤣🙈

@Gigi318 aw i'm sorry hon, was hoping your first month was THE month but at least you know what to expect now ready for this month!!

I'm currently on CD14 but using the clear blue ovulations kits and have had the flashy face since yesterday

@Cabbiefix thank you chick, although now I think I was a little underprepared if I'm honest. I joined MN after my fertile window, so now I feel like I know a lot more too. Excited to approach this new month now 🙌🏻
Yayyy, you're at the fun stage now. I hope you're nice and relaxed and enjoying things chick! Woohoo!