Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?

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Off the mini pill (Noriday) today looking for a BFP ideally Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 baby - so during the holidays when other kids are on Hols so i don't have to worry about the school run as will most likely have a CS

We will be using condoms but i know anything is possible from when I am off the pill

MY JOURNEY
MAY 2012 -TTC#1 -SEPTEMBER 2012 :bfp:- JUNE 2013.EMCS..beautiful girl

Jan 2015 - TTC #2 - Feb 26 2015 BFP
NOVEMBER 2015 EMCS -amazing little boy

Sept 2019 - TTC #3

@Robs20 Delighted you dont need surgery, thats great news! Just relax now and enjoy ttc!! What a relief for you.

@HappyGirl86 I know how frustrating that can feel from last time we were ttc. But try not to worry, sperm can survive up to 7 days so you might very well still be in with a good chance! If you have ovulated now just try to relax, eat pineapple, keep warm and think positive!! Good luck xx

Look what arrived today....yasss!!

Well I managed to get him to DTD this morning haha! Hopefully we have caught it at some point. Fingers crossed.

@HappyGirl86 Yay go you!! I think you're in with a good chance, you've done all you can! Good luck, fingers crossed!!

So I'm having fairly severe pains on my right side today, what do you think of this.... could it be ovulation pain?? xx

I'd say so! @MrsSkr that's a good sign yay!!!

@MrsSkr I'd say that opk looks good too! Get to business & good luck haha!

Thanks ladies, it actually got darker and ended up definitely darker than control but was after about half an hour so not sure that counts. Done one tonight and much lighter again. Still having fairly bad pains though.
I wish I could @Destiny25 but hubby isnt here, he hasn't been all week and wont be back until tomorrow night. That's ok though, I had planned this month as a 'getting back to normal and tracking' month anyway so only a tiny bit disappointed. As much as I hadn't planned on it this month, now I'm in the zone I kinda wish we could just go for it lol. Hope everyone else is doing ok? Xx

Af due Saturday did a PG test today BFN probably still bit early but getting all my usual monthly symptoms.
Is it better to DTD lots before ovulation cos we only could do it on day of ovulation and day after this month. Next month it will fall again on a Friday which is a day he isn't here 🤦so difficult isn't it

@wannabemum38 BFNs always suck but it's still very early so dont be disheartened, you're not out until AF arrives. I'd say it's a good idea to dtd every other day up until ovulation if you can, at least then the goods are there when they are needed 😂

Sorry iv lost track of the days, are you on holiday now?? xx

@MrsSkr Wish we could DTD as often as that but I only see him weekends as it's long distance at the moment. So it means weekend before ovulation or weekend of ovulation my fertile window is from a Tuesday to the Saturday annoyingly. I see my DP a Saturday night to Monday night. Not for much longer though.

No not yet go away this Friday can't wait!

Oh that's right, of course. That's so hard on you both, hopefully you'll manage to find a house together soon. Try not to worry about it too much, you never know, you might not ovulate on your predicted day. Just do it when you can, you never know!! 🤞🤞 Oh that's not long, you'll be so excited! xx

It's still early days @wannabemum38 keeping my fingers crossed for you.
I agree- every other day if you can.

@HappyGirl86 When we live in same town be a lot easier hope he has the stamina 😂

Does anyone have any thoughts on this?
6dpo and I literally feel like I'm going to start AF! I'm expecting it anyway this month but thought I'd have another week.

@destiny25 what symptoms do you have?

@Blossomingflower94 I've got bad lower back pain, insomnia, and that dull feeling in my stomach like AF is striking, a couple of twinges and mood swings.
I'm actually sat at work with a hot water bottle on my back 🤦🏻‍♀️

When are you due to do a pregnancy test? 🤔

Are they your normal PMT symptoms? x

I'm due on next Friday/Saturday so don't know when the best time to test is @Blossomingflower94.
I normally just get symptoms a day or two before but I'd just say the backache.

@destiny25 I'd wait till the day of your period to test. You can test early but risk getting a + on a chemical pregnancy and then you get heartache. Up to you though :)

Oh no @Blossomingflower94 I'm not thinking I'm pregnant anyway I was just wondering if anyone has had anything similar previously or if anyone had af come a week early

How are you doing anyway?

@Destiny25 Ahh ok :) They could be PMT symptoms or they could be pregnancy symptoms. Thats what makes this all so hard

I'm ok thank you. Just in the waiting game now. Ovulated yesterday and DTD last night so here's hoping I get a BFP this month. Would be perfect as DP's birthday is the beginning of september and would be a great present!!

How are you feeling @Destiny25 ? I hope you are ok x

Well girls I'm 3DPO and I've got yellow discharge.....doesn't smell and no itchiness.....I'm guessing that means I won't have any good news this month ??