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Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?

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Luxoire · 01/08/2019 16:30

Off the mini pill (Noriday) today looking for a BFP ideally Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 baby - so during the holidays when other kids are on Hols so i don't have to worry about the school run as will most likely have a CS

We will be using condoms but i know anything is possible from when I am off the pill

MY JOURNEY
MAY 2012 -TTC#1 -SEPTEMBER 2012 :bfp:- JUNE 2013.EMCS..beautiful girl

Jan 2015 - TTC #2 - Feb 26 2015 BFP
NOVEMBER 2015 EMCS -amazing little boy

Sept 2019 - TTC #3

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Luxoire · 22/10/2019 14:29

@claireb707 could that be your implantation bleed? ohh i hope it is hun - keepimg fingers crossed for you

@wannabemum38 girl just real dark brown spotting so far today no witch yet! i wish she'd just hurry up along and be done with it so I can get on like you say - aww babe - lots of chocolate..first fewe dayws of AF are normally rubbish for me too - i just wanna curl up and cry and eat chocolate lol hahahah sending you hugs

@yellowpurple85 no i dont think 14days is 'normal' is it? u mean you are not trying to get 10yrs worth of periods out are you?!! please make sure you see a doc asap - even if they end up saying everything is fine atleast you have professional opinion or they can monitor you to make sure no underlying issues

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claireb707 · 22/10/2019 14:30

But I'm only 3dpo 🤔

Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?
Luxoire · 22/10/2019 14:30

@MrsCl19 welcome hun, feel free to join in - sending you lots of baby dust too - hope your cycles return to normal pretty soon xx

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Luxoire · 22/10/2019 14:32

@claireb707 I think it depends how early the swimmers meet your egg/fertilise - i am hoping this is your month....you can start testing as early as 6 days before your missed period with FRER! awww babe keep chilled xx

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claireb707 · 22/10/2019 14:34

According to last months cycle I had a luteal phase of 22 days 😂😂 this is going to be a loooong 2(ish)ww

dancingqueen03 · 22/10/2019 17:52

Hey guys 😊

Reading your post and wow a lot has been going on!!

After my bfn this time it really got me down, I just thought I was having a wobble again but after thinking about it further we have agreed to wait a few more years before re-trying again. I just think as a young couple we have plenty of time to settle down and with us still saving for a house it would be better to just enjoy having our own time without the added pressure of 'adult' life. I am completely happy with this decision and can't wait to start planning our next chapter 💏💕

I'll still be on here tho offering advice as I'm too supportive of all your baby journeys ❤️ I wish you all the luck in the world!!

@Luxoire thank you for supporting me from the beginning!! You have been an amazing friend on here, good luck on your next cycle fingers crossed it's you BFP 💖

claireb707 · 22/10/2019 20:32

Good luck for the future @dancingqueen03

Luxoire · 22/10/2019 21:58

@claireb707 ohh but u can test from 10dpo after implantation even though ur literal phase might be 22 days all u need is fkr thr level of hcg to rise enough to be picked up on a test

@dancingqueen03 chrck your private msgs inbox on here hun....it is sad to see u go. But u sound so happy with your decision ajd ready to enjoy where you guys are as a couple and that is the most important thing! It has been a pleasure plotting, planning and journeying together so far!! Stay in touch babe looking fwd to catching up xxx

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Luxoire · 23/10/2019 10:49

Heys guys so I have lots of dark brown spotting since Monday but AF still not here..she was due yesterday

Anyway I did a cheapie test today and I think I see a line. It wasjt immediate it ahowed after a minute or 2?! I have had BFN up to now so not sure if thia is an evap line?!.... I feel normal otherwise just the occasional ad type cramp twinge in my pelvic area but no other signs

What do you guys think?

Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?
Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?
Fresh off the mini pill today-hoping for BFP Oct/Nov 2019 for a Summer 2020 Baby. NEED A BUDDY?
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claireb707 · 23/10/2019 11:15

I definitely see a line 🥳😄👏👏

claireb707 · 23/10/2019 11:15

Have you got any more tests?? If not buy some!!

claireb707 · 23/10/2019 11:16

Can't remember where I'd seen it but I've heard evap lines are nonsense- line is a line

Luxoire · 23/10/2019 11:24

ohhhhh @claireb707 thank you so much hun that is giving me hope! I have just ordered form FRER from amazon for next day delivery they will arrive tomorrow and I can test tomorrow or first thing Friday - that should give the witch enough time if she wants to rain blood (literally) on my parade!

i have got some cheapies at home, but the line is so faint on with the first urine that i doubt any other test in the day will pick it up - plus i drink a lot of after int he day. Scary thing is I FEEL FINE

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claireb707 · 23/10/2019 11:26

Whoop whoop 👶🏻👶🏻👶🏻

dancingqueen03 · 23/10/2019 12:52

@Luxoire 😃 wow look at that hun!! I'm so excited for you!! Xx

MrsCl19 · 23/10/2019 12:54

@Luxoire them lines look pretty dark to me!! Good luck with your frer I'm sure it'll be positive news! 🤞🏼🙌🏼

CouscousEvaporator · 23/10/2019 13:25

Deffo a line!! Congratulations!!

Luxoire · 23/10/2019 13:49

@claireb707 that article is so encouraging and informative thank you!!! defintiely feeling a bit more optimistic lol

@dancingqueen03 girl i am too scared to hope - i have ordered the FRER on amazon to be delivered tomorrow - so friday morning first urine?! i am still a bit schocked

@MrsCl19 aww thank you hun...here's to hoping x

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PieAndPumpkins · 23/10/2019 14:47

@dancingqueen03 ah, that's OK! It's nice to hear you happy and content with your decision, please do keep in touch!

@luxoire that looks like a line to me! 😁 Bring on Friday for a second opinion! 🤞

Kiki275 · 23/10/2019 15:19

@Luxoire I'm so hoping it is! Keeping everything crossed for you x

Kiki275 · 23/10/2019 15:24

@dancingqueen03 wishing you all the very best. Who knows as well, once you're not actively trying and just relax then things might just happen x

claireb707 · 23/10/2019 20:27

Absolutely shattered again tonight and like I could go to bed now, was in bed by 9.30 last night and asleep by 9.45 - almost unheard of for me. My sleep app registered 7 1/2 hours sleep - I'm normally a 6 - 6 1/2 hours a night girl 😮

Luxoire · 24/10/2019 12:41

@claireb707 tired is definitely a sign of hormones all over the place hahahaah look at you sleeping by 9.45pm lol

@PieAndPumpkins indeed my FRER isnt here yet by amazon probably a good thing as i would have been tempted to test!

I has the most excruciating lower abdo pain last night it woke me up! i prayed and felt better after a while, it wasn't accompanied by any spotting or bleeding so I am praying all is going on as it should in there

@Kiki275 thanks babe!!!

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