The July 19ers - The rollercoaster continues, scream if you wanna go faster

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We can do this ladies.

We can take on anything

@Bentley111 thanks for checking, I purposely bought no more tests as I think I’m just kidding myself so waiting for AF to rock up, due today or tomorrow, if no show by Tuesday I’ll buy some more! That BBQ sounds v stressful bless you I’d just be honest and say you’re trying but it’s not that easy and you’ll let them know when there is news and to please stop asking as it’s upsetting

@BettySwoll0cks how stressful! Hope you find another childminder ASAP and manage to DTD!

Oh no @BettySwoll0cks how stressful! Good luck with finding a new CM & quiet sex 🙈

@Kinsters I'm 9dpo today. I really want to hold out until AF is late to test - it's DHs birthday on Weds & we've got plans over the weekend, so I don't want to put a dampener on things if I'm upset over a negative.

@DartmoorDoughnut keeping everything crossed that is doesn't come 🤞🏼

Yeah understandable Bentley. I'm a serial early tester but being unsure of my ovulation date this time I think I didn't test till AF was late and it was nice to get a clear result. Not that I'd wait in future! I can't stand not knowing. It's taking all my self control not to keep peeing on sticks now.

I completely agree Kin. I have just one test upstairs and I'm dying to take it.
Again, far TMI, but I've had really weird cm this morning - milky and creamy, but stretchy like EWCM?? Had a quick google and no definitive answers... can't remember seeing it in my preg cycle but haven't seen in any other cycle either...

Hope DH doesn't ever check my internet history lol, I think he'd be horrified

@Kinsters Congratulations! Wonderful news, I’m keeping everything crossed for you this time. My fastest recorded speed was 47mph, but I kept forgetting to turn it on, I don’t think this was my my fastest.

@Bentley111 we are also going to Ascot on the Friday, so I will see you there 😁

Any news @DartmoorDoughnut?

DH and I were both exhausted last night and stressed out by the childminder situation so I didn't bother suggesting DtD. Anyway I think it would've been too late, as I had a temp rise this morning so I reckon I Ov'd yesterday (CD14). We DtD on CD12 so could be ok. I didn't use pre seed though and I didn't hang upside down afterwards (I'm convinced most of it falls out after we DtD so I try to lie on pillows with my legs up the wall like some crazed marmoset 🙈) so no special effort made ha ha.

@Bentley111 and @BettySwoll0cks thanks for checking! I’ve not bought any more tests BUT the witch hasn’t shown up yet, however I’m convinced that as soon as I go to buy more tests she’ll show up 😂 if she hasn’t shown up by the morning I’ll get some then.

@BettySwoll0cks Sorry about the stressful CM situation, any joy with finding a new one? Fingers crossed DTD on CD12 will be enough, I think it should be!

@rose have fun at Ascot

@Rose68 aww yay! Have you got an outfit sorted yet?

@BettySwollocks "crazed marmoset" next time I have my legs up in the air I'm going to think of that....on a serious note though, O-2 is supposedly the best day so looks like you've done the best you can.

@Dartmoor don't buy tests... she will definitely turn up if you do!! That's my rule anyway

Bentley ahh hopefully that cervical mucus is a good sign!

Wow Rose, it just seems so fast! I don't think my brain really works quick enough at coordinating my body to do skiing very well!

Lol-ing at legs up like a marmoset! I usually put a pillow under my hips if it's fertile time and sit there for fifteen minutes. I don't know what makes it fall out or not, sometimes even if I do the pillow thing it'll start running out anyway and other times barely anything escapes until much later. I think maybe it depends how deep the guy cums. Leg wrap and grab when he finishes lol.

Fingers crossed for you Dartmoor!

I’m still giggling at crazed marmoset

No AF yet but feeling a bit crampy, no metallic taste either and I always have had that with both successful pregnancies and both miscarriages so I’m wondering if he daily aspirin could’ve delayed AF? Can’t find anything on google mind you! Will get some tests later today though if the witch doesn’t turn up.

Lol at "leg wrap and grab" - that's exactly what I do 😂

No idea re the aspirin @DartmoorDoughnut... would be interesting to know though. Fingers crossed you are, and you'll just have a kind pregnancy without the horrible taste 😬

Caved and took a test this morning, BFN, only 10dpo so know it's still very earlier and was an IC not a FRER. The constipation has eased a bit so apart from the cm, nothing is pointing to pregnancy at all... so do think that's perhaps me out this month 😕

So.... popped to the shops at lunchtime... grabbed a FRER because, I'm a weak bitch and I caved... mid afternoon wee with no hold and there's a good line!!!

Not sure to tell DH now or to wait til his birthday tomorrow... I've got a "happy birthday dad" card from the dogs and horses (don't judge 🙈) maybe I could add from very tentative bean too?

Ahhh yay Bentley! Tentative congratulations, I really hope this is the one!

It is a good line! Nice and pink! How many dpo are you now?

Thanks @Kinsters!!
Only 10dpo - I was so shocked to see it 🙈

What date would you potentially be due? If everything goes to plan we'd be just a few days apart I think!

8 January by LMP but I think I ovulated early so not sure how accurate that is.

It's so hard not to test early! I just don't have that self control

I think you're a week in front of me then, based on LMP.
Mine would be due 13th.

No I absolutely don't either... my pledge to not test until AF was late clearly went well

@Bentley111 amazing! Congratulations

Thanks Dartmoor... any news yet?

I had a very very faint line, definitely looks as if it has some colour but not even as strong as yours! Admittedly it was possibly the weakest wee I’ve ever done, almost colourless but I couldn’t make myself wait! Will see what the morning brings but I’m thinking it was maybe something but not quite there IYKWIM so I’m getting faint lines as there is some hcg maybe? Fuck knows frankly but AF hasn’t turned up as she is always regular so something is going on!

That's somewhat positive I guess?

Considering you weren't tracking, you don't know when O was exactly so it could have been late... so hcg may just be building now.

Fx'd we'll have 3 bfp's within a week, that would be fab

Well my due date by LMP would be 6th Jan so whilst it would be amazing to be bump buddies with you and Kinsters I think realistically I’m not and my body is being weird not going to stop me POAS in the morning though!

Just in case anyone wants to squint

I can definitely see something... would be a big coincidence to have 2 evaps

@Bentley111 wow that's great!! Congrats!!