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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread

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Frazzlerock · 31/01/2019 10:32

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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
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TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 16:11

Btw... WIBU if I ask for a seat of the bus home due to being pregnant? I know I can ask on the tube but idk about buses.... Just do not think I can hack standing up, back is killing me now. Cant afford a taxi urgh!

Rose68 · 04/02/2019 16:12

We use preseed too, sometimes I stick a load up with the applicators, other times we just use it as a regular lube.
@Frazzle definitely good news re the surgery!
@edidxb I totally get how your DH feels, fingers crossed it will be different for you this time. x

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:31

@TwittleBee fuck yeah! Do you have a badge? Wear it if you do. My god the early stages of pregnancy can be the worst. If anything, a badge may give you a little space. I get mine out at every pregnancy right from my BFP. It's had a lot of use - haha.

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:34

Right, I have a sex question and I feel like a teenager asking this but I've never actually used lube. Only the pre seed/conceive plus stuff (with applicator). When you say you use it the regular way, how is that exactly? (I am actually 39 and asking this...). Do DH's shove it up there with their fingers? Or rub it on their cocks first?

Also, I have images of dirty old perverts watching this thread - I'm laughing but

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TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 16:51

I do have a badge from pregnancy with DS as I needed to commute into London. But no clue where that's gone... it's a local town bus service, I don't think it would be appreciated or understood by many who use the buses here.

As luck would have it though, I nabbed a seat easy enough!

Nausea is massive on here though, the smells!!! Urgh!

Okay, so we use it in foreplay and occasionally throughout sex too (DH would just line a bit up on his cock)

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:54

Glad you got a seat and thanks for the tip 😁

Uugghh so I got another strong Opk line just now

Top to bottom (Sat > Sun > Mon)
But low temp and the complete opposite of EWCM.

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BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 17:15

Ha I needed a laugh just now and this convo about lube has done that!

DH has done something really inconsiderate and fucking infuriating. The last thing I want to do now is shag him but it has to be done, plus he's just announced that he's going out tomorrow night so I reckon it's tonight or never for this cycle. Grrrrrr.

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 17:39

@Frazzlerock 😂😂 just before we "do it" I squirt it onto him & also a little bit on my hand then rub it on it too.

@BettySwoll0cks ffs! Why do they always do that!!

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 17:58

Haha! "Do it" 😂😂
I feel I have turned this thread into an excerpt from Just 17 mag 😅

But in all seriousness, thank you for teaching me about lube. I feel my life is now fulfilled.

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ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 18:00

Haha 😂😂 don't know why I found it awkward describing how we use lube to the people I regularly discuss cm with 😂

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 18:11

It's funny isn't it haha

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 20:25

Anyone seen @tigsyboo tonight? Wondering how you got on today chick xx

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 20:25

Anyone seen @tigsyboo tonight? Wondering how you got on today xx

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 20:41

Was wondering the same. Hope all is okay tigsy xx

tigsyboo · 04/02/2019 21:40

🙋🏼‍♀️I'm here!!
Just catching up on all the lube chat 😂😂
Pre seed original for me too - DH fucking hates it tho - said it's like shagging slimer from ghostbusters 👻!! 😂😂

Well I got through a whole book waiting in consult room (and a whole box of shortbread!)

  • DH said social worker backed us completely, but the ex wife was a blubbering idiot blasting about 'her babies' and fears she got the sympathy vote from the magistrates 😣.

Time will tell - tomorrow pm the verdict is in.

Staying over (court is 40 miles from home) and in hotel now. Just been for a cheeky Nando's and now watching silent witness in the hotel.

Thanks for asking ladies - more than my 'real life' friends (or even my sister!) have!!
Love ya's!! 💕

tigsyboo · 04/02/2019 21:41

Blarting (is that a local word?? - crying her eyes out) not 'blasting!' Lol

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 21:50

Urgh the waiting must be torture @tigsy

Am also watching Silent Witness, how amazing is Nikki's house?! I have a friend who's a forensic pathologist, I didn't think they got paid that much!!

Rose68 · 04/02/2019 22:06

Oh Tigsy, I am keeping everything crossed for you.
We are also watching Silent Witness, but last weeks, on catch up.
xx

Kinsters · 04/02/2019 22:52

"Not pregnant" on the CB digi this morning and nothing on the ic either. But I feel so pregnant! If I'm not pregnant I hate my body so much for doing this to me.

Kinsters · 04/02/2019 23:03

tigsy are you from the Midlands? We say blarting there! I'm glad the social worker backed you guys.

tigsyboo · 05/02/2019 03:49

@Kinsters yes from Stourbridge if you know it?
Absolutely rubbish re not pregnant- so gutted for you xx

Wide awake - worrying and wondering 😣

edidxb · 05/02/2019 03:55

@kinsters - arrgghhh rubbish. It's a cruel thing. There is still time, but the mimicking of symptoms is like some kind of awful horror film.

@tigsy it sounds like it went semi OK today. Hope the hotel stay led to some DTD!

I'm also originally from the Midlands!

edidxb · 05/02/2019 04:00

Sorry @tigsy - cross posted. I hope you can get back to sleep.
My Mum and her family are from Bilston.
I'm from Shropshire! I have been through Stourbridge many times....

Kinsters · 05/02/2019 04:16

tigsy yes I know Stourbridge! Many happy memories of going to a funfair there when I was tiny. I remembered after my earlier post that it was my nickname when I was little. When my sister and I were moaning our parents would call us Mardy and Blarty. Must be a Midlands thing! I hope you manage to get some more sleep and that everything goes well in court today.

I'm so gutted to not be pregnant. My hopes got really high with my temps and no bleeding (I even stuck my finger up to my cervix and nothing). I guess my luteal phase must have gotten a little longer or possibly I ovulated later than FF thinks. The symptoms seem so real though, I guess it's either progesterone or just in my head.

TwittleBee · 05/02/2019 05:27

tigsy really does sound promising, they can't just go on sympathy. My friends went through the adoption processes to formally adopt their foster child and real weight goes on social services recommendation. So hoping today goes well.

kin oh so bloomin sucky! Could still be too early though, could have only implanted yesterday! FX!

Love we have a few silent witness fans on here!

Scan today... absolutely shitting myself.

Also have dad picking me up at 6.50am to drop me to work on his way to work so I can avoid the bus saga again. Does mean I'll be on work 1.5 hours early though. Rather that than chucking up on a bus and having to get off early and feel unsettled for rest of the day like last night!