anyone due to be ovulating week starting 21st Jan?

[Explorers10]

Starting to gear up & hoping this will be a positive month! Anyone else in same cycle week as me?

@Explorers10 yes if you're using clearblue the result will show after 5 minutes but if you're busy or forget when you eject the stick the result will show again for 2 minutes.

Happy Tuesday ladies. I got my peak static smiley this morning. I had a temp drop yesterday and it went up .3 today so not sure if today is my o day? 🤔 dtd last night and gonna do it again tomorrow morning before work so hopefully covered all bases either way.

Woop woop... think I'm getting a positive on my OPKs now? Glow App reads it as positive....

I took it at 9.30am (I know they usually say test at 10am but it was my third wee of the day!!) so I hope it's reliable. I read that they say 10am to allow the hormone to GET into your urine so it can't be a false result? (Eg if you test too early you'll MISS the surge potentially) I'll do another later just to be sure tho.

I think I have a short surge because usually, I get a negative result by the evening or next morning.

Wish me luck! 😁😁

@WildFlower2019 it looks a bit flooded - did you get pee on the test field? I find it much easier to pee in a cup and then dip it! Definitely looks like a positive to me anyway. And you're right about the timings, a positive is a positive regardless! I tend to get my positives with FMU. Good luck!

@Chanel05 a temp drop yesterday and a rise today would suggest that you ovulated yesterday? But then the static smiley doesn't make sense. Maybe the temperatures are a red herring! You'll have to wait a few days and see what they do before you see a pattern. Can't hurt to BD anyway

@mussie I did dip it in a cup for 10-15 seconds and I'd left it for up to 10 minutes as suggested on the packet. You aren't supposed to use OPKs with FMU. It's not a pregnancy test, it's an OPK so it's only positive if the test line is as dark as the control 😊😊

Oh but to answer your Q yes it does seem flooded, they all keep doing that. Even when I use my phone timer to double check I'm only holding it in for 10secs and making sure the urine goes nowhere near the line 🥴

here's what it looks like now 2hrs later

@WildFlower2019 haha I know. It's just because I don't like to do them at work, so if I didn't do one first thing in the morning, I wouldn't get to do another until about 6pm, so could miss the surge. And I do know that it has to match to be positive! If testing falls on a day off, I test again later in the morning and it does confirm it's a positive. I did read around, and found that for some women FMU works fine. The rise is BBT always confirms as well, so it definitely works for me!

That does look much clearer two hours later! Bizarre. Well it really looks like a positive so best of luck!

Ah sorry, I just thought you had misread or I hadn't been very clear and thought it was a pregnancy test x

If I got a smiley on Sunday we dtd Friday, Sunday, Monday and will tonight should I ha e covered ovulation?

I know the smiley doesn't mean ovulation and don't temp so not sure how long after it would normally happen?

@2018isanewyear I’d say you’ve covered all bases :).

@mussie thanks, just impatient. 😂

I don't think I'm cut out for this OPK business!
Probably not DTD enough this month as I thought well I will know when to DTD because the OPKs will tell me!

@ChikiTIKI- I haven't had a positive opk yet and mine are varying hugely in line strength! But have had a ton of ewcm today so taking that as a positive sign. Maybe you ovulate later than you think?

@2018isanewyear that does sound like you've got it covered! Good luck!

One last go tonight and can relax (yeh right) to be honest I try to tell my self I'm not.... I know that sounds silly but month after Month of disappointment it almost feels easier that way, horrible it's got like this! And even if I was would I even be excited? I was bad enough last time with no reason to think anything would go wrong, But now I know it does and can happen again I just feel full of worry!

Sorry for the brain dump

Wishing everyone all the luck for both opk+'s and BFP's

I think I am out of the running this month. FW is almost over and my husband is yet to "feel like" having sex with me. Despite all his words about wanting a baby, his low libido is making this incredibly difficult. I realise miracles can happen, but this would be an immaculate conception, so it's safe to say, I won't be getting my BFP for January.

I'm so fed up.

@Cinderella812 it's horrible when your not on the same page (even though he says he is) could you have a frank discussion and just say it's not going to work with this set up? Like you said it could, it does only take one time but would have to be very lucky!

It's so hard, the pressure can really take over

@Cinderella812 sorry that your dh is not being too proactive. I agree with @2018isanewyear that you need to have a frank discussion that it won’t happen unless you actually have sex in fw plain and simple!

Still baffled by my ovulation, can anyone offer an insight into my chart?

@Chanel05 I can't interpret that chart at all! Hopefully someone else will be along soon who can. But I suppose the latest reading is the highest temp, so given the positive OPK, maybe you ovulated yesterday? But I guess you won't be able to confirm for a couple of days. If it heads back below 36.6 then I'd be totally confused! Have previous months looked like that or is this the first time?

@mussie this is the first time it’s baffled me really 😂. I did a cheapie opk CD16 in the evening and it was quite strong but not positive as it was a 1hr hold and I’d had a lot of water so possibly it would have been +if I held it for longer. I did the digital in the morning with a high and not one in the evening (usually goes static in the evening I only had one clearblue left though so was saving it for the morning!) so I changed the Monday to a +opk with a cheapie on Monday and FF confirmed ovulation for Monday (I put a cheeky temp in for tomorrow to see 😂). I must be a mad woman 🙈😂.

@mussie I don't understand the charts sorry as I don't tell but that looks very up and down! Anyone else got a smiley/+OPK yet? If I got mine Sunday how many dpo am I do I go of the smiley date or a couple of days later?

@mussie I don't understand the charts sorry as I don't tell but that looks very up and down! Anyone else got a smiley/+OPK yet? If I got mine Sunday how many dpo am I do I go of the smiley date or a couple of days later?

@Chanel05 ah well hopefully Monday is right then! Exciting!! So you would be one day ahead of me ☺️

@2018isanewyear congrats on the positive OPK! I have understood it to mean that ovulation will occur in the next 12-36 hours, so I usually date from the day after the positive. I temp as well so that pinpoints a day for me, but if you're not temping then the day after a positive should be the most accurate estimate! The exception would be if it was a long surge, and you had positives two or three days in a row - I would date from the end of the surge rather than the beginning, IYSWIM

Hi everyone! I think I ovulated 2 days ago so I'm around 1dpo. And here it begins! Cycle 20 for me, currently referred to the fertility clinic and waiting for our first appointment. DH has a low count. What DPO is everyone?

@Cinderella812 my DH has a low libido too. He's happy to go a few weeks without! I've had to be the proactive one and say 'right, come on, now is the best time ever' during my fertile week.

I also make a big effort before and after fertile week - only once or twice, but it's enough for him to feel not like he's being 'used' during the FW, if that makes sense.

This has helped loads and he's instigating sex a lot more, which is great. Definitely have a nice discussion with him (over a glass of wine?) and explain that you understand it's not the most romantic seduction to be like 'come on, let's make a baby' but there really is only one way to make a baby. Ask him what he thinks would work - notes on a calendar perhaps, or is he happy for you to say 'it's a great time!'

I wish I had been more assertive (some months I just didn't instigate at all during FW, hoping he would, so a few missed chances there) and I think when you haven't got time to lose, you have to be proactive. Good luck x

@mussie oh no! As soon as I got the smiley I stopped testing as the packet said, in future I will do an extra day to be sure. 😳

I think I'm 2dpo but I don't test until period is due so guess doesn't really matter. So far it's always arrived before I got a chance to (other than first failed
Pregancy)