Over 40 ttc - Autumn baby dust for me!

[Orchid222]

Here's our new thread, let's hope it's a lucky one!

I’m sorry Rose, hope you’re being looked after x

Oh no, so sorry to hear that rose I know the feeling too well, so I feel your pain with this. You are not alone. Feel free to vent on here as much as you like.

Oh Rose I’m so sorry. Sending a big hug to you. You must feel so sad x

@Rose68 I'm so sorry, sending big hugs and take care of yourself xxxx

Thank you for the messages ladies, I can’t stop crying at the moment. Not really sure where to go from here. x

@Rose68 , I'm so sorry to read this! Words are failing me! Look after yourself!

So sorry Rose :( x

@Rose68 I'm so sorry Rose, heartbreaking news xx

So sorry to read this Rose. I hope you and DH are taking care of each other xxx

Afternoon all, just catching up whist soaking in the bath.. Bliss!
Welcome to @Shellster52
@5fivestar ...what an amazing story..Thanks for sharing x
Lets...Sorry that AF came. I'm currently on fertile window and have dtd twice.
Wishing..Sorry to hear it seems to be a bfn
Rose.. so sorry to hear about your mc
Good luck to all xx

I'm so sorry Rose

@Letsdothis43 thank you for asking - I’m doing ok - feeling truly crap most of the time but trying to woman up and get on with it lol. Nervously awaiting 9 week scan next week at which point my IVF clinic will discharge me if all is well.

Sorry to hear you’re in a dilemma about starting your treatment - if you do start it now is Christmas likely to be a problem for embryo transfer, etc? Some clinics shut down ove Xmas so won’t start cycles that are likely to involve any procedures over the Xmas period.

Good luck with it whatever you decide to do xxx

did a test this morning and could see a very very faint line. Hardly visible. Run to London to get blood tests done so I don't second guess it. Sadly it's Negative. And now moving onto IVF. Next month. Still staying positive! Absolutely! I'll get there! And so will you all!! In time!

@Rose68 you go no where but the sofa, hot water bottle and some really crappy telly.. rest up and take it a minute at a time.. let the tears out.., sending big big hugs 💕

Rose, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I've been there. It's horrific. There's nothing anyone can say to make it any better. Cry away, let the tears flow. You don't need to have a plan at the moment. Just rest and give yourself some time to process and recover. Big love to you xx

Russkispy - sorry you got bfn but well done for keeping such a positive attitude. You are right, we will get there!

So sorry to hear that Rose68.. sending love x

@Russkispy sorry to hear it was a BFN. I’m sure you will have success with IVF, you’ve already had such good success in the past with IUI and You’ll have a much better chance with IVF so I have high hopes it will work for you xxx

Thank you @CritterTamer ! My doc reckons it will be a good outcome! Well, I'm restarting DHEA tonight and will carry on with my supplements and acupuncture and reflexology. All of that is for a good cause. I'm convinced! Will keep you posted! Hope all is going well with you!

Rose68 I'm so sorry x

Oh no @Rose68 . I'm so sorry to hear this. Wise words from pp about the sofa, comfort food and tears. There are no words that I can give you but please be kind to yourself and I hope someone is there to cuddle you x

Oh @Rose68 , so sorry for your loss! :(
Big hugs, thinking of you.
@Russkispy , sorry for the bfn, are you sure it's negative if you had a faint line on home test? Could it just be too early? Forgive me if that's a silly question, Im not sure what cd you are as I've been away for few days...
I'm currently cd4, had a very light period, trying to boost my lining with eating lots of iron rich foods.. this is our 3rd cycle ttc and I think we need to up the efforts this time! Last cycle we only managed 4 x dtd and probably missed the window by a day...so I'm determined to get a lot of action in this time! Good luck to all of you, fingers crossed for an early Xmas BFP- present !

@Ameliel , it's 10 days post IUI and I think it was a remainder of HCG trigger I had p, before the actual procedure.

Thinking of you Rose, so sorry for what you're going through - it's the worst but you're not alone.

Orchid I meant that I’d not had a proper follicular phase this month. I’d not had a risein oestrogen or an LH surge after my last period tocause me to ovulate. I’d just had 6 weeks of misery (hot flashes and dryness in places you don’t want to be dry! Eyes included). So I was hoping that the sudden lack of those horrid symptoms meant I was building up to ovulate. And yes I think I am cos got ewcm today and some ovulation pains. So glad to have my hormones back.