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Holly5633 · 01/10/2018 08:31

I have just had a chemical at 5+1 after some sting BFPs and a 2-3 on a digi. Feeling quite sad but I know it’s just one of those things. I feel sad about having to start all over again. Does anyone know how wonky this will make my cycle in terms of ovulation? I am hoping as it is early on I might return to normal quite quickly x

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Holly5633 · 25/10/2018 12:53

Congratulations ladies this is fantastic news! Gives us others some hope too. I think try and relax as much as you can and enjoy it. No reason for this time not to be perfect x

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LunaLG · 25/10/2018 14:53

Thanks @Holly5633 - really glad you started this group 😊

Lunaenzo · 25/10/2018 15:05

Thanks @Holly5633, your right, and worrying will not help.

Really hoping you get some good news soon Lovely xx

mrsof20118 · 25/10/2018 17:42

Try to stay positive @LunaLG. Each pregnancy is so different so can't expect the same levels of hcg each time. It's so worrying though when already having a chemical. Xx

mrsof20118 · 25/10/2018 17:42

Already had a chemical I mean x

mrsof20118 · 25/10/2018 17:44

How's the temp looking @Holly5633 ? When will you test? X

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Holly5633 · 25/10/2018 17:51

It’s staying up but just a waiting game now. I’m still not sure on ov day so going to wait a week to test. How are you getting on?

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mrsof20118 · 25/10/2018 21:53

Had a bit of blood this evening so looks like I'm out this month. Very short luteal phase for me with od on 20 and today is cd27 x

LunaLG · 26/10/2018 07:41

Hi guys - just to update. I've had a positive on a CB digital so gradually starting to trust it. No more tests now. Got a doc appointment in the morning to update my GP. Crossing everything.

Ah blast @mrsof20118 - I guess things just need a cycle to settle back in. I know it's hard not to feel disappointment.

Thanks to everyone again in the group. I'll keep you posted xx

Mummytoboyxx · 26/10/2018 08:22

Congrats on the BFP’s. I know it’s hard to relax but I’m sure everything will be fine. It took me 5 months to get my BFP after my CP, so don’t get disheartened if it hasn’t happened yet. I’m now 10+1, so it shows that things can be ok, although I know it’s hard not to feel anxious x

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Holly5633 · 26/10/2018 08:29

@mrs20118 has it progressed or was it just a bit of spotting? What DPO are you? Hoping it’s gone away!

@LunaLG yay that’s great news. I agree - put the tests down now it will only worry you more. Best of luck x

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Lunaenzo · 26/10/2018 08:43

@LunaLG thats great news. I had another 2 BFP's this morning.
Sorry i was meant to send you a pic of my faint line last night. It was very faint but have now done 4 tests and all positive so i'm going to just wait and see what happens and try and enjoy it, what will be will be. Cant get a Dr app for 2 weeks but hopefully will be in a more confident position by then.

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KinCat · 26/10/2018 08:45

My cycle has been similar @Holly5633, unusually high pre-ov temperatures this time round. Just waiting to see whether I ovulate on my usual day (Sunday). Should get a positive OPK tonight if I'm going to.

KinCat · 26/10/2018 08:47

Congratulations on all the BFPs!

mrsof20118 · 26/10/2018 12:36

Congrats all!

mrsof20118 · 26/10/2018 12:37

@Holly5633 more than spotting. Hopefully I'll have a normal cycle this time. Xx

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Holly5633 · 26/10/2018 12:57

@mrsof20118 sorry to her that I know it’s horrible when af arrives but I’m wishing you all the best for this cycle. Keep me posted. I’m expecting the same to be honest. X

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Lunaenzo · 26/10/2018 13:04

Ahh @mrsof20118 i'm sorry. Will keep everything crossed for you for this cycle. xx

mrsof20118 · 26/10/2018 19:36

Thanks all. At least I'm on cycle day 2 already. Going to try SMEP this time and really go for it! Xx

MrsRRC · 27/10/2018 13:46

Hi ladies,

Can I join you here?

I think I’m having a CP. I have 30 day cycles and I think I ovulated on cd11-12 I got a BFP using a CBFM pregnancy test at 11DPO, which surprised me because they only pick up 50miu so not that sensitive and BFP 1-2 weeks on CBD and FRER on 13DPO and another BFP on FREF at 15DPO, I started spotting brown CM at 17DPO (yesterday) though not much and it had stopped by the time I got home from work, yesterday I had a real unquenchable thirst and drank about 3.5 litres of water which was rather a lot so was back and forth to the loo literally about 14 times, and this morning I did another HPT using the CBFM and it was BFN in the screen, although the test stick has a very faint positive. My pee looked quite light in comparison to other mornings. I find it unlikely but could I have diluted it with all the water and peeing?

I’ve had no cramping and AF is due today, my spotting has all but cleared up. I don’t know whether to test again tomorrow using a more sensitive test or just give up.

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Holly5633 · 27/10/2018 14:14

Hi @mrsRRC I hope you ok. I have heard brown spotting is perfectly normal in early pregnancy.

Unfortunately the clear blue digital going to not pregnant was my first warning sign followed a few hours later by heavy bleeding. I hope that’s not the case for you and it’s just that your wee is too diluted.

I would do another first thing tomorrow if you don’t start bleeding. Wishing you the best of luck and keep us posted. Always here to chat if you need x

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mrsof20118 · 27/10/2018 15:19

Sorry to hear your worries @MrsRRC maybe test tomorrow with fmu with a digital again if you can?

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Holly5633 · 28/10/2018 07:52

I’ve had some very slight pink CM today and a dull ache so - given I don’t know when I ovulated I’m going to say this is the start of af. Never mind - on to the next cycle

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mrsof20118 · 28/10/2018 12:57

@Holly5633 don't give up just yet it could still be implantation? Keep us updated x

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Holly5633 · 29/10/2018 08:13

Well I haven’t seen anymore since that one wipe yesterday and my temp went up a bit today but I’m not really thinking much of it as I do start my period with spotting that gradually gets heavier so it could be that - I hope not though!

How are you @mrsof20118 are you on cd 6 now? When do you usually Ovulate?

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